My best friend confesses to me, what should I do?

Let him wait. Wait, wait.

Don't mix friendship with love.

That way, you may end up with nothing

Do you know. There is no pure friendship between men and women. It's been a long time. Your relationship will deteriorate.

You don't know what liking is, and how to decide this one that you may not be able to tell clearly mixed with complex feelings? I advise you to think about it before acting, it's easy to hurt someone's heart, but it's not as simple as you think, so I hope you don't hurt a simple girl easily and hastily.

It is better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you. Cherish it, lz.

Why didn't you think about being with her, give her a chance, give yourself a chance

Isn't it good? Unless you don't look down on people, who said that a good friend can't become a lover

My wife and I were first in a relationship with my brother and sister, and then I was similar to yours, and we have been together for 7 years, and now that I am a junior, how long have you thought about it, it has been a long time

Hello, friend.

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can't control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two sides stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like?

As the saying goes, "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it." "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance.

You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

Many people dare not refuse the confession of others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you do not know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, give him enough face and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to cheat on him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.

If you also have feelings for the other person, then accept it, or you can try to date, if you don't like it, tell the other party tactfully, I still think it's more comfortable to be friends with you.

1. After the confession fails, all that remains is embarrassment. Even if you go back, your hearts will change a little bit. It won't be so pure.

2. So don't confess to your friends easily, unless you are very sure, or you are not in this friendship. Or maybe you befriended her just to chase her. Because when you confess, regardless of success or failure, this friendship is no longer the same as before.

3. If you succeed, you will become a couple, and you will no longer be friends. Of course, if it's not suitable to break up, they won't become friends. Fail, and your relationship becomes different.

For example, if you are kind to him, it may be out of a friend's concern. But that's not what he thinks in his heart.

4. Don't think about confessing, if you don't agree, everyone will continue to be friends, how can there be such a good thing? The decision made will definitely have consequences, so you need to be cautious in your confession, and if you don't succeed, you will be benevolent.

Of course, there is still a kind of person, after you confess, he refuses, and he treats you as a good friend, and this requires you to have a high level of skill. For example, after you confess, you find that she doesn't like you, you can say to her with a playful attitude: "You are actually serious, how can I like you?"

Silly, kidding you. ”

5. I have used this method before, and it has succeeded. And the two of us are good friends now, and we don't have that in mind. No matter how good they are to each other, they will not think about other aspects in advance.

Confession can ruin a friendship, but if mastered well, it can also make the friendship purer. After all, after the confession fails, you will know what the other party thinks, and you won't think about it anymore. The premise is that you have to die after the confession fails, and really just treat him as a friend.

This scale is still difficult to grasp, so I still recommend that you don't easily express your love to your friends, so as not to be embarrassed for the rest.