Is there any way to turn yourself into the exact opposite of your personality?

When you do something. If you suddenly have an urge to want the same personality as before. That's one word. Endure. And then in the heart. Slowly. Slowly restrain yourself. Such. Maybe it's hard.

First of all, I don't know why you want to change your current self, you know that it is difficult to change once your personality is formed, but if you must change, I can give you a few suggestions to help you change. 1.Change your hairstyle.

Change a batch of clothes that belong to your opposite personality, if you usually wear professional clothes, change some trendy clothes, and on the contrary, change into formal clothes. 3.Change the handbag, as I said above, change the opposite personality of you, that is, you usually don't like the handbag, you won't buy.

But I personally think that it's better not to change your character if you don't want it, after all, everyone has their own personality, and reluctantly changing it will only hurt yourself and others. Good luck! ）

If you do things that are contrary to your current personality, for example, if you do things according to your current personality, you can do things in a different way.

If you are a good character now, then don't change, if you feel that your character is flawed now, then read more books, study more, and work hard to cultivate and improve your worldview.

Hello. Life is all about growing up, pursuing a personality that is closer to perfection.

As long as you are not extremely paranoid and stubborn, I think it is best to follow the trend.

It can be harder.

It's not easy to change completely. It is possible to consciously change a part of the personality. Let yourself break through your previous self, improve yourself, and improve yourself.

1. Since childhood, he has been empathetic, kind-hearted, and unwilling to disappoint the people around him, so he always obeys his parents and teachers, which is the character of a naturally well-behaved child.

2. There is strong pressure around him, irritable parents, mean relatives, and harsh teachers ......, and he is relatively timid, forced by these irresistible pressures, he can only choose to be obedient, two words: cowardice.

3. I don't have too many requirements, the nerves are rough, and the character of the big horn doesn't matter, two words: open-minded.

4. I don't have too many ideas and opinions, I am not good at thinking, I have difficulty in choosing, I like to rely on other people's opinions, one word: lazy.

The first type should be changed, too much forbearance will gather in the heart and become negative energy, to refuse appropriately, to draw a clear bottom line for yourself;

The second type should be changed, but the fault is not you, this situation is more extreme, or break up; Either flee; Either try to become what others want, and at the end of the day, others can no longer care about you, it is also another way to escape, no matter which way you have to pay a great price, which one has the least cost and is the easiest to accept, which varies from person to person;

The third type of person is more optimistic, and it is not so easy to be dissatisfied with the status quo, if the status quo is really so bad that he can't accept it, then do you need to ask? Since the question can be asked, the subject should not belong to the third type;

The fourth type should be changed, it is recommended to read less Zhihu and more books, read classic books, the process of reading books is the process of constructing your own logical thinking, besides, the opinions found from the classics are much better than the opinions provided by the three aunts and six women (such as me).

Everyone has two kinds of innate personality and acquired character, the innate character cannot be changed, and the acquired character can be changed. Acquired personality is expressed by playing different roles and identities, it is a depiction of the heart, and its elements include self-love, self-esteem, self-confidence, understanding and tolerance, determination and perseverance.

Nowadays, many of us have a comparison mentality, which is produced in the context of China's social and historical stage. The parents of that generation are in a rapid economic and social development, and resources and rights need to be struggled, striving, and competing for other methods to meet their own needs, resulting in their comparison, and the comparison of children's education.

This kind of education is basically good for other people's children, but not for their own children, and over time, children think that they are worthless and cannot accept themselves, which is not self-love.

There are many manifestations of lack of self-love, such as wanting to be noticed by others, hoping to get feedback from others, proving a sense of existence, and severe cases can lead to depression and suicide.

To verify that you have not been hurt by your parents' original family, or if you have a good relationship with your parents, you can try: Now you often make intimate gestures with your parents, such as kissing your parents to express your love, or saying "I love you" to your face.

Self-love is the foundation of a person, not relying on others but making oneself very comfortable. Only self-love can make you have self-esteem, self-confidence, understanding and tolerance, determination and perseverance. The way to improve self-love is through inner cues and connections to society, preferably from an eternal heart.

When a person lacks self-love, self-confidence, self-esteem, and his inner strength is particularly weak, his inner child will appear, which is a way of reacting and coping with the world when he was a child. Low self-esteem can create friction with the other person, and low self-esteem and conceit are both low self-esteem.

1.Connecting with society Referring to the "Inferiority and Transcendence" method, what you do is to create value for society.

2.Psychological suggestion Refer to NLP technique Every day before going to bed, after waking up, and when you are feeling down, repeat the four sentences: "I am valuable, charismatic, I accept me as I am, I support and protect myself." ”

To be continued).

It is not easy to change a person's personality, in fact, many people have dual personalities. In fact, you are so real, you can not develop your own emotions, and let yourself go to the fullest, which is really a typical temperamental person. But people with distinct personalities have eye-catching advantages and obvious disadvantages.

Learning to control your emotions is easier said than done. But I still hope you do your best.

I'll give you a few comments this time. 1. Read more books, be quiet, and don't think too much about the things that worry about you. 2. Go out and walk around more, and communicate more with friends, because in the future, friends are the mountains around you.

3. Communicate with your parents more, sit together and chat more when you have nothing to do, watch TV, and go out to watch movies together. 4 Finally, this one is the simplest, if you have someone you like, don't run away, because running away will only add more shadows to your heart. Remember, people with multiple personalities don't run away from doing things, as soon as you escape, there will be a haze in your heart, the more you escape the haze, the more you avoid the haze, as long as you do things brightly and sit upright, there will be no situation like what you said, remember a sentence, things are born because of people, and they are solved by people; Personality arises from person to person, and also changes from person to person.

A person's character cannot be changed, you should remember that there is an old saying: the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change! Judging from the information you provided, it is just a problem that can be solved if you are willing to solve it.

Of course, you have to solve the problem on your own! 1.Shift your attention and shift your interest in yourself to the outside world.

Such as fashion clothing, the World Cup, and even the gossip news of celebrities can be, of course, it is better to make sense, just don't care too much about yourself. For example, if someone snubs me during the day, or if I don't speak properly or make a fool of myself, is it right to say a certain sentence? What do people think of me?

2.Genuine interest in others. We all have the experience that if others are interested in us and identify with us, then we will get along well with such people.

If we get along with someone who is very narcissistic and is not interested in anything but ourselves, we will be bored and thus alienate him. 3.Allow yourself to make mistakes.

Everyone has the perfect plot. But flooding can be troublesome. The way to do this is to forget about it when you make a mistake.

Trust others to forget faster, so don't worry about being laughed at, the sky won't fall. 4.Questions about bosom friends.

First of all, you have to realize that bosom friends are not obtained by pouring bitter water. Rather, it is obtained by your pleasant recognition and sincere concern. Specifically, it is necessary to conform to other people's wishes, don't always say that other people's are not, and make others happy, then you will be very happy.

Of course, it's not that you are asked to pat yourself on the back, your friends didn't have a sycophant before, find out more about the strengths of others, and then give reinforcement. When you become a habit, you will see that everyone is willing to join you, and your eloquence will get better and better, and the confidence that everyone will surround will start from this moment. 5.

Don't sit at home and think nonsense. Whenever it starts, interrupt immediately. Everything needs practice, and this one is no exception.

Open a door to your own world. Get out there! It's that simple!

Engage in more group activities, such as sports, and start with simple things if you don't like them. Walking, right? Go out and observe the world around you, get in touch with the people around you, and maybe you will make new discoveries, and you used to only care about yourself and ignore the surroundings.

As the old saying goes, the world is never short of beauty, but rather of discovery. 6.Finally, from now on, whenever you want to say that I really want to change my personality.

Then start practicing, step by step. In a nutshell, don't take yourself too seriously, and your worries will be half less. Caring more about others and sharing interesting things will make you half happier.

Let's work together and shake hands!