Everyone wants their children to be smarter, but how can they do it?

When we were young, our parents hoped that we could become an excellent child, and when we were about ruining ourselves as parents, we hoped that our children could become excellent, and sure enough, the expectations for our children were passed down from generation to generation. Every parent wants their children to become excellent, I think there should be no parents, I hope that their children become very rubbish! But if you want your child to become excellent, you need to pay attention to the method, and you need to cultivate it.

One. Lead by example and set an example for your children.

If parents want to train their children better, they must be strict with themselves. If you want your child to become excellent, you must first make yourself excellent, which is to lead by example, when parents educate their children, only by leading by example, can they set an example for their children, so that children will be full of respect for you when they learn.

Two. Teach children to have the qualities of kindness.

I think it's important to make your child better, but the most important thing is to make your child have the quality of kindness. No matter how good a person is, if his heart is very ugly, or even vicious, then it is not interesting, only a kind person can be respected by others. If he has a kind-hearted child since he was a child, then he will warm the world when he grows up in the future.

Three. Cultivate the habit of self-discipline in children.

I believe that in order for children to become excellent, it is necessary to cultivate the habit of self-discipline in children. The little boy likes to watch cartoons, but can he finish his homework first when he gets home? Then give him plenty of time to watch cartoons, so that he can get into the habit of doing his homework when he gets home.

There are also a lot of children who can't get up in bed in the morning, can you let him go to bed on time at night? Then get up early the next day, cultivate a good habit of going to bed early and waking up early, and let the child be full of energy during the day. Do you know any other ways to make your child better?

I think we must create a good atmosphere for children, and at the same time, we should communicate more with children, establish a correct three views for children, don't treat Weisen children in a scolding way, don't spoil children, we should improve children's abilities, and Brother Fan should cultivate children in an all-round way.

We must set a special example for children who imitate good children, we should strengthen teaching by word and deed, we must strictly regulate children's words and deeds, and then we must create a particularly good growth environment for children, do not force children to do things that children don't like, and communicate more with children to prepare lead.

When we educate our children, we also need to standardize our own behavior before educating our children, and we must do it in accordance with the practice of Youyuan, so that people can like it.

As a parent, I want my child to be excellent, I have been around tutoring since I was a child, my child is in school, the teacher calls some courses, at home or in the rest of the calendar, I teach the child's life.

Parents can observe their children's interests and potentials in addition to their daily learning life. I believe that many parents will enroll their children in various hobby classes, but there is a question, are the children's interest classes an activity that they are interested in, or are parents imposing their unfulfilled wishes on their children? Some parents want to learn piano when they are young and fail to learn, but after becoming parents, they force their children to learn piano in the name of love, but they never ask their children what they like?

This may lead to the child's inability to freely choose the activities he is interested in, and the child's potential will not be able to be fully developed. The so-called providing children with a variety of opportunities to try is to let them choose and freely move, rather than being selected and arranged.

When doing exercise, it is necessary to combine the child's own physique, and the amount of exercise, strength and difficulty should be moderate, so as not to make the child overtired. You should also help your baby understand the world around him in a purposeful and planned way. It is necessary to observe carefully, find out the needs and interests of the child in time, and teach patiently, never tire of it, and never be rigid and impatient, dampening the child's enthusiasm.

Daily intellectual training is also indispensable, in addition to the usual routine learning and teaching, some puzzle games and toys can better open the door to children's intellectual development. For example, guessing games, jigsaw puzzles, building blocks, Rubik's cubes, etc., can also exercise children's thinking judgment ability and logical analysis ability, which plays an important role in children's intellectual development.

If parents often punish or harsh their children, then the "punitive and harsh association" will be stronger. And because of the lack of caring experience, those corresponding brain cells will wither and eventually be removed from the brain network. As a result, children also grow up with a lack of loving understanding, which can have a very negative impact on creating healthy, meaningful relationships in their future lives.

It follows that early life is a uniquely sensitive period during which experiences bring lasting effects. Of course, this is not to say that there are no opportunities in adulthood, this kind of experience-based brain plasticity exists throughout a person's life, but the child's brain is more malleable than the mature brain.

It should be cultivated from the time of pregnancy, during pregnancy can do some fetal Tan Yuan Zi teaching, after birth should maintain a quiet environment, so that Wang can make the child's brain better development, when the child has the ability to learn, should accompany the child to learn together, can let the child develop a habit of learning, so that the child can cultivate a smart treasure.

I think it's best to start training around the age of five to eight, after all, children learn the fastest during this period.

When the child is about three years old, you can train the child, you can let the child do some early education games or take the child to some early education classes.

As parents, we must often communicate with our children, teach them to look at pictures and speak, and scatter the ability to express themselves in some languages, and slowly make our children very smart and excellent.

Don't deny your child often, don't beat and scold your child often, praise your child more, and do some parent-child activities with your child.

Prenatal education was given to the child before he was born. It can give children a better sense of learning. Nurture him in daily life.

First of all, each child's flowering period is different, choose the right hobbies for your own children to cultivate, secondly, don't beat and scold the children, and finally cultivate their own hobbies.

Parents should exercise their children's ability to think on their own when they are young. When children go to school, parents should study with their children every day to create a good learning atmosphere for their children. In addition, it is necessary to exercise children's hands-on ability and self-care ability in life.

In order to achieve a balanced diet, we should read more books to children, pay attention to sports, physical health, can not cultivate children's stereotyped thinking, we should pay more attention to cultivating children's logical thinking ability, persistence and concentration, and pay attention to the cultivation of children's learning quality.