After so many years of working life, what truths have you summed up?

After only one year of work, I have understood a lot of truths, but I think that I don't need to be friends with all my colleagues, because they don't treat me as friends, but like-minded friends can still find one or two, and they will help me at critical moments.

Don't wait until you want to change jobs to find out that you don't know anything. Or you can do something you can do yourself. Enterprises pay salaries, we pay labor for enterprises, but at the same time, it is also a process of exercising ourselves and learning. ‍‍

Tactical diligence cannot cover up strategic blunders. In other words, if you go in the wrong direction, no matter how hard you try, it will be useless and even counterproductive. Of course, if you meet this kind of leader, and then throw the pot on yourself, it's better to leave early. ‍‍

Remember, deception is worse than making mistakes. It's forgivable to make mistakes at work, but never choose to hide or deceive your leader. If you encounter problems at work, try to communicate with the leader, and many times the leader will help you point out the problem. ‍‍

Even if you work, you still have to keep learning, the current social development is too fast, all the time to learn will not be eliminated by this society, on the basis of not delaying work, learning and work are constantly advancing, this is my deepest feeling.

When I first started working, I was not skilled in business, and I took on the task every time. I'm not sure I'm going to do it well, or even finish it. But because I took it, I would force myself to find a way to do it.

And in the process, my ability has improved unconsciously, so taking responsibility brings opportunities, and opportunities promote growth. ‍‍

Maintain a positive learning attitude, have a clear business appeal like an entrepreneur, and think like an entrepreneur. Only in this way can you maintain a positive attitude towards work, instead of taking how much money you do and working as much as you want, and being a monk for a day and hitting the clock for a day. This is also my deepest feeling in the process of moving from the workplace to starting a business. ‍‍

I studied design in college, and then after graduation I found a design company, at that time I was a novice in the workplace, I didn't understand anything, because my design works were outstanding, and then I was often praised by my boss, at that time a designer next to me was always embarrassed by everything, in fact, I could feel it, the most angry time was that he secretly took my design drawings and asked the boss to ask for credit, no matter how I explained it no one believed it, I felt that it didn't matter at the time, But if you understand that someone at work is deliberately embarrassed, don't quarrel with him, don't get angry with him, don't say a word of nonsense, because it's useless to talk about it and hurt your vitality.

I have been working for three or four years now, it can also be said that I have been in the society for a long time, and I have summed up some small experiences in the workplace, which is not much useful for the big truth, I am still groping on the road to move forward, remembering that I didn't understand anything when I was in my first job, at that time I just wanted to work, but the leader often asked me to work overtime, I didn't know what to do, at that time, there was half a month of unconditional overtime, which brought a lot of inconvenience to my life, Later, after I quit my job, I found a second job, but that leader was never harsh on us, so it is very important to talk to a good leader, sometimes it may be more important than what you do. ‍‍

Don't just worry about working hard in the workplace, when I am in the workplace, my emotional intelligence is not high, and I don't like to engage in interpersonal communication, I only care about working with my head, those who do not have my ability and do not work hard without me, the salary and bonuses are not much less than me. At that time, I was very angry and unconvinced, but later I realized that my social skills were too weak, and I couldn't blame others. In order to stabilize everyone's heart, I did several team building activities, once organized everyone to go to Indonesia for two days, because some subordinates and some colleagues in other departments have a good relationship, they also took a trip together, and the result was a bit of a large number of people, so that the boss was very unhappy, and the yin and yang criticized me ......

I really didn't understand and was very aggrieved at the time. Later, when I started my own business and had a team, I realized the concerns and worries of the boss. Be sure to take advantage of the convenience of the workplace to accumulate network resources.

This is the thing I regret the most! When I was in the workplace, I didn't have this kind of consciousness at all, I just wanted to do a good job. I never socialize with colleagues in other departments, I don't participate in any outside activities, and I have no friends at all except for my colleagues.

At that time, I thought that looking for a job and changing jobs was to send a resume on the recruitment **.

Later, I learned that good jobs are recommended to each other through connections, and if I can't find a suitable candidate, I will send a job advertisement. Therefore, I have worked hard to find several job hops on my own. Recall that several executives in the business department at that time later went to more awesome companies through recommendations and introductions from friends!

At that time, I was in contact with the presidents and vice presidents of major banks in Singapore, as well as senior professionals in the investment community, as well as executives from Singapore's top departments and the four major audit firms. In fact, I only had a little bit of contact with two young people I liked and fell in love with, and although one went back to Australia and the other to Switzerland, I still keep in touch with them.

You can't tell your colleagues everything, because they are not very reliable. You can't say bad things about others, and you're likely to be stabbed. Don't take care of what you shouldn't manage, otherwise it will lead to more serious consequences.

The workplace is not something that can go all the way up with hard work, and sometimes it is necessary to superimpose a little opportunity. In the workplace, you must control your words and deeds in order to make yourself smooth in the workplace. Don't disagree with the leader in public, you can say it in private, otherwise the leader will feel very shameless.

For the tasks assigned by the leader, it must be clear before implementation. Only by clearly knowing the specific needs of the leader, such as what to do, what results are expected, when it will be completed, what special attention should be paid to, etc.

To pay attention to one's own image, one's own image is very important. In the workplace, you must have momentum and temperament, and pay attention to your own image training. The first impression is very important, and the proper professional image can often achieve twice the result with half the effort in the workplace.

Don't get too close to your colleagues in the workplace, have your own opinions, have your own ideas, don't listen to anyone's opinions, and improve yourself to get the respect of others.

Almost any leader is very fond of particularly obedient subordinates, if you are the most obedient, work very hard, then you are very able to be liked by the leader, if you can't solve the problem in this company, you go to the next company is the same, job hopping can not solve your own problems at all, it is useless to complain in the workplace, you must learn to enhance your own strength, to be positive and optimistic about the difficulties; I will listen to the words of the leader in the workplace, and I will work hard to complete the work arranged by the leader, face my own problems, and overcome them bravely when I encounter some difficulties.

You can have some good work in life, so that you can have a good workplace principle, and you should respect your boss in life, and you should communicate more with your colleagues. Anything you do should speak and judge from the perspective of the big picture.

The truth of the workplace is that there are no friends in the workplace, but there is a relationship of interest, the vast majority of people can be replaced at any time, part-time work is the exploitation of surplus value, do not get too close to colleagues, relationship and family background are also very important; I finish my work tasks on time when I am working, and I usually say hello to my colleague and have no intersection with him and the socks.

The workplace is a miniature society, in the process of workplace work, we must work hard to improve our work efficiency, improve our work ability, do not rely too much on others, do not regard colleagues as their good friends, do not pour out their hearts at will. I did it as I grew and gained experience, adjusting my mentality.

At work, if the newcomer only cares about his own work, no one will take the initiative to know you, and it is important to learn to be a person. The important thing is to help colleagues more, see people more, smile more, and take the initiative to ask for help when there is something. Although it can keep you a little busier, it is an opportunity for more people to get to know you and get to know you.

This will allow you to join the team more quickly, and others will be happy to help you later if you have something.

Sometimes there are problems at work and you need to ask others for help, but everyone will find that they have their own things to do and no energy to worry about you. Instead of asking others, save yourself. It is also the most important thing to improve your work ability and technology.

Able to withstand blows, able to withstand pressure. If it doesn't go well at work, you may encounter various difficulties. People in the workplace have their own characteristics, and you always come across times when you get hit.

When you are hit, don't judge the merits with others, and you can't tell the winner. What's the use of separating winners and losers? Plainness gives people the impression of having a strong desire to win.

There can also be a variety of stresses in the workplace. Only by withstanding the pressure and moving forward can we see the light of day. If you endure pressure, expand your circle, and work hard to climb up, you will find that you will meet a better version of yourself and people and things.

Separate work and life, colleagues are not friends. Even colleagues who get along well at work don't necessarily have to be friends after work. Don't tell your colleagues about the negative energy and little secrets in your life, and keep your best friends separate from potential competitors at work.

It is not an honorable thing to do more things, talk less, and talk about others behind your back. Especially in the workplace, where there are no impermeable walls, it is possible to offend others unintentionally. It's important to get things done with relationships.

As with work skills, interpersonal relationships can be used anywhere. Schools are different. If you do well in school, your relationships may not make the difference.

But if you don't handle it well at work, you won't be able to get along with it. Because it is a society, it is a place to communicate with people, and if you don't handle interpersonal relationships well, you will have a bad relationship with people in the company. After that, no one will want to help you if anything goes wrong.

Maybe it will spit on you later. After that, if your reputation is not good-looking, it will be difficult to wash. It's going to be a struggle to get along.

When working, you should still maintain a normal big heart, although there is a lot of pressure on the rolling thoughts, but you must relieve yourself, and don't rely on others, only after learning more, you can let yourself have a lot of opportunities, and when you encounter a good opportunity, you should leave Gao Cong, and you must master the experience.

In the workplace, we must talk less and do more things, usually low-key, don't take the lead, keep a certain distance when getting along with the leader, respect the leader, when getting along with colleagues, you should talk less about the company's gossip, don't always gang up in the company, do your own thing, but also learn to invite credit, let the leader see your difficulty, so that you can mix well in the workplace.

That is, when you are working, you should work hard, don't think about being lazy, slim and no matter how long you work, you should still maintain a state of learning when you shoot well, don't look down on others, and don't participate in small collectives.

When communicating with colleagues, you must pay attention to the details, do not bring unnecessary trouble to yourself, and when communicating with colleagues, you must pay attention to the problem of politeness and lack of brother, do not be too proud, and when communicating with colleagues, you must pay attention to the eyes of the other party, and do not despise each other. But I think the most important thing is to be mindful of ways and means when communicating with colleagues.

First of all, we should be able to keep our bottom line in the workplace, don't talk about others easily, and don't say bad things about others behind our backs, and we can have a clearer attitude in terms of salary.

After working for many years, I think that you should have a more sleek grip in the workplace, and try to have a friendly relationship with all the people in the company as much as possible, so as to improve your work ability and work efficiency as much as possible, which is the key to your promotion and salary increase.