Is my life normal, is my mother too much, and what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-03-01
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Landlord、I was really entangled in your problem、My experience from the bottom to the big was not very smooth, but not as serious as yours、Parents are busy。 I've lived with my grandparents, and my grandmother's temper is very tricky. I quarrel when I have nothing to do, and I fight over a small matter, and my neighbors know that I came with tears when I was a child, and I hated my parents at that time.

    Hate them for not wanting me. I don't feel what I feel, but it's been long. Slowly I understand, they are not easy, as far as I can remember, your mother will never be like this when your family is in harmony.

    It's just that the latter things are too stressful for her, You have to learn to understand, But now your situation can't be solved by tolerance, and you have to find an opportunity to talk to your mother, talk calmly. No matter what your mother does, you must keep a calm heart, compare your heart to your heart, and talk from your perspective. I think your mother will recognize her mistake and send a word to the landlord.

    A phrase that has been with me for many years: without parents there is no life of one's own". What could be more precious than one's own life?

    Let's take your time to realize.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your mother did not do her duty. At present, it seems that you can only improve yourself, regard suffering as a test of life, and hope that you will be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mother is great, don't show dissatisfaction in the bad, learn to be self-reliant, sensible children will have a good harvest, good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to be clear about the following:

    1. What your mother did was a little inappropriate, she just didn't want to lose both people and money, and there was no mistake in principle.

    2. This matter only has an impact on the relationship between the two of you, and the delay will not produce a decisive result, and your breakup is a comprehensive reason in all aspects.

    3. Feelings are a matter of two people, and unilateral efforts between you and her will not work.

    4. Communicate with your mother more often to avoid similar situations.

    5. Time is like the best forgetting, and after a while, everything is calm.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1) Actually, you have found the root cause, that is, she is stronger! "Strong" has many meanings: for example, self-righteousness, intolerance of others, inmodesty, intolerance, lack of love, and so on!

    2) Such women (sorry, please allow me to call your mother that), in fact, there are many, many people in society. It is mainly caused by personality defects, character development and other reasons, and your mother is just one of them!

    3) There is a saying: can't be provoked and can't hide? It is recommended that you keep a certain distance from your mother and try not to collide in life, because she is your mother after all (she gave birth to you, and that, there are enough reasons for you not to offend her).

    Stay away, if you can't talk, you can talk less or nothing, right?!

    4) Establish your own consciousness space and emotional space, and establish your own social group, so that when you have your own living space, the chance of colliding with your mother will be much less!

    Good luck and hope to adopt!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Menopause is coming, don't pay too much attention to what she says, it's quite excessive, but it's your mother, and you can't help it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Does your mom have a personality disorder, not like her own mom?

    At the age of 25, you can leave home and live alone, and if you can't, you can leave the city

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay to respect the mother's choice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Didn't your mom scold you all the time? I didn't scold your object.

    It doesn't matter much, forget it.

    Your mother will live a good life, knowing that no one will eat this thing after buying it, so I'm afraid it's a pity if it breaks it. And you've all forgotten to have bought it, only your mom remembers.

    It's not that I'm afraid I won't be able to pull it back. How much is this worth? It's normal to exchange gifts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a small thing.,It's nothing.,I'm sure you won't take it to heart when you're generous.。 It's a little ugly to say that people are stunned, you go to your object and say good things, explain it, and let him be taken to heart. I also remind your mother to pay attention to your language, don't do this in the future.

    Actually, I think your mother must be a straightforward person, which is very good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's your mom who cares too much. A common disease among older women in China.

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