Some people say that marrying anyone is the same, so is life really the same after marriage?

It's not the same. People who are consistent with the three views will be full of laughter and laughter after marriage because they have the same interests and hobbies, and people who are inconsistent with the three views will quarrel in their married life because of some trivial things.

In fact, married life will not be the same, because everyone's personality is different, and the life they want is different.

I believe that everyone's heart has a different degree of yearning for marriage, everyone will have a different definition of marriage in their hearts, different fantasies, everyone may think, what will it be like to get married in the future, what do you do every day, is it different from the current feeling, so what is it like to get married?

In fact, for this problem, everyone's affirmation is different, because everyone has their own life, everyone lives in a different environment, and the people who get along with each other are different, so they will naturally have different feelings.

Some people and their own love for a few years finally cultivated into the palace of marriage, married life is happy, Shen Li she must feel happy, and their favorite people along the way is not easy, finally entered the palace of Yinming marriage, they will be particularly cherished and cared for this marriage, everyone is silently paying for each other, wanting each other to get more love from themselves, this is a feeling of marriage.

Some people are the object of a blind date arranged by the family, and hastily decide on their marriage, because there is not too much sweetness before marriage, and the life after marriage is boring, every day is a dull life, and every day is repeating what they did the day before, the two will not quarrel together, three meals a day, the days are not shocked, there is no surprise and accident, it seems to be a very simple life, in fact, two people are like robots that are dominated, Living together is like completing a task that never comes to an end, so what does it feel like at this time? Is it tired?

Maybe it's not tired, everyone has done what they have to do, is it sad? It doesn't seem to be sad, after all, life is going smoothly, so what kind of feeling is it? According to that, it should be too bland, life is still full of surprises to be interesting, so that daily life is also motivated, in fact, surprises are everywhere, but it depends on how everyone looks at "surprises".

Everyone has their own marriage, marriage is not child's play, I hope everyone can choose carefully, don't forget their fantasy about marriage, move in the direction they want, although sometimes the result may be unsatisfactory, but everyone still has to fight for their own happiness, the best feeling of marriage is happiness, is consummation, from the moment you get married, you should know that you are no longer alone, you are now married, you have a family that belongs to the two of you, So from now on you have to take on the responsibility of taking care of this family, and I hope that everyone will end up married to love!

After getting married, the feeling is different, after getting married, you will form a family with others, no matter birth, old age, sickness and death, poverty or wealth, you can't leave.

Marriage may be a very happy moment in a girl's life, but after getting married, Shen Jie will definitely take the two of them to be as simple as when they are in love.

Maybe most people are very happy when they first get married, because they can finally be with the person they like forever. In fact, there is a big difference between two people's lives after they get married, you don't know that after the slippery marriage, it means that the two people are the whole, and when you want to do things, you should consider the thoughts and moods of the two people, unlike one person who is so convenient and free. But two people together will also become each other's spiritual pillars, and the spiritual aspect will be very fulfilling.

I have been in love with my husband for almost eight years and have been married for two years.

Life after marriage is actually completely different from what I imagined before, even after discussing the problems that may be encountered for a whole month before getting the license, I am still caught off guard at times.

But....It's true that I'm happy.

My husband is busy with work, and the leader always asks for overtime, but he would rather not eat or rest at noon than hurry up to complete the task and leave work on time. Over time, everyone in the unit knows that anyone can go on a business trip and everyone can work overtime, but Xie Gong cannot. I've complained about him too....So people will think I'm a tigress, but the gentleman said:

I can't help it, every day when I think of you waiting for me to come back at home, I can't wait to put a wing on Chongyin's back.

In the evening, sometimes when he is hungry, he will order food, I will make some simple noodle soup, dessert and wait for him to come back When I eat, I give him some work suggestions, and he responds to my interesting story today, which is very simple, but always feels that the time is so short, and the words are not finished.

Put the dishes in the dishwasher together after eating, sometimes watch TV dramas, share the plot of the play, sometimes play two-person games, pet the dog, and finally...He washed his socks and shorts, and I went to take a shower.

There will be a free massage service before going to bed Sometimes my husband gives me a part, sometimes I send two to the banquet, his strength is just right, much more comfortable than the massager, I always regret it....If he opens a beauty salon, will he make a lot of money, and her husband replied: I don't press it for others, I only press it for you in this life.

Occasionally I can't sleep I will torture him, poke his nostrils, pull his armpit hair, after I wake him up, he will also scold me to let me go to sleep quickly, or I can't get up tomorrow, but I will be sad because he talks to me loudly, and finally he has to get up and coax me to pass, sometimes...He got up and told me a story and patted my little belly.

Of course, there must be disagreements and quarrels after marriage, usually I am the character who questions, his mouth is non-stop, and he says it, but he never kills me, let alone says anything that hurts me, no matter how much he quarrels, he always apologizes first Qingyuan, but sometimes he apologizes to me to the point that I feel guilty, tears flow down, and he can't cry or laugh.

We sleep lazily on weekends, take the dog to bathe together, occasionally visit the mall and supermarket, or house cleaning, I suck the floor and he mops the floor, I wipe the table and he changes the sheets, sometimes he is tired from work and I am reluctant to clean up by myself, this behavior will be exchanged for his praise and criticism, praise me for being good and sensible, criticize me for not waiting for him to come home, let himself be tired and he is distressed.

We cherish this relationship very much, and the whole family is also envious, feeling that our life is not easy to come by, marriage needs to be managed, and we need a relationship foundation, and we will continue to work hard.

Married life after marriage is basically the same, you have to face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, as well as children's education and cherry blossom questions, as well as a dull life, but since you have chosen each other, you should have a good groove and make your married life textured. Ridge bump.

No, the ideal marriage is to hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son, and never get tired of seeing each other, only the person in front of you is to accompany the other party to grow old slowly, go crazy together, and laugh together.

It's not like this, if you can find someone you love and someone who loves you, the marriage will be very comfortable.

Of course this is not the case, living with people with high emotional intelligence, you will feel that life is very beautiful, but living with those with low emotional intelligence can really make you feel painful.

Of course, marriage is not like this, I think marriage must be with the person I like, otherwise it will be hell on earth, then I don't think there is any need to get married.

I don't think this sentence is correct, marriage is a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, not everyone can make do with it, and a makeshift marriage will not be happy. If two people want to be happy together for a long time, they must first have an emotional foundation, and secondly, they must know how to help each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, support each other and trust each other in life, only in this way will life be happy for a long time.

1. Emotional stability and dependence.

People are social animals, need to communicate with people, a positive relationship brings a huge impact, into marriage can have a stable and long-term relationship, can be a warm love, can also be transformed into a long stream of family affection, but in any case, you know that this person can be the person who accompanies you for the longest time in life. After getting married, you are no longer alone, and any emotions and trivial matters are borne by someone together.

2. Stability and companionship of life.

A stable and mature partner can accompany you through the ups and downs of life, accompany you to grow up slowly, and feel the scenery of different stages of life.

3. The need for inheritance.

Marriage allows the family to inherit the bloodline, and after both parties raise a child together, they have an extra layer of parental identity, which can further warm up the relationship and make them more responsible. And when you are old, you will also have someone to take care of you and accompany you to prevent the aging of the population, and there will be successors.

4. Self-growth and experience.

Marriage is not a matter of considering others completely, and entering a family does not mean giving up everything, a mature and healthy marriage will bring people growth and give people a fresh and unique life experience. We have many social identities, we can be daughters, sons, sisters, brothers, classmates and colleagues, but we also have the opportunity to become wives, husbands, mothers, and fathers.

5. Be more motivated.

When you have faith, you will be fearless and invincible. After getting married, each other has someone to protect, and in order to give each other a better life, they will do their best to fight. Home has become a belief in life, bringing the motivation to move forward bravely.

Is it the same to marry anyone, let's listen to family lawyer Yi Yi.

The difference in life before and after marriage is not very large, especially for couples who have lived together before marriage.

To overcome the overwhelm from love to marriage, you have to start with yourself first, and you have to learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find the perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no such thing as a perfect person.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different. All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

Some people say that when you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs, because during the love period, all you see is the advantages of the other party, and after the love, it is the process of accepting the shortcomings of the other party, which needs to be tolerated.

Looking at the world, I know how there is a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, and some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, calm and calm in the chest, and can choose to balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.

We are always married to the merits of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the shortcomings of a person.

It's easy to start a relationship, but it's even harder to keep a marriage going. If you want to overcome the overwhelm from love to marriage, you have to work hard together!

There is a big difference between married life and premarital life, especially boys, in married life and premarital life, their performance is very different, before marriage they may make their girlfriends very satisfied, but after marriage they may make their wives feel a little disappointed, and even make their wives feel cheated, because the gap between them before and after marriage is too big, so that the woman feels a big psychological gap.

There are great changes in both parties before and after marriage, but the changes in the man are more obvious, and today I will learn how different married life is from pre-married life.

1. Premarital life is more romantic.

For many couples, the biggest difference between premarital life and marital life is that premarital life is more romantic and sweet, more like everyone's ideal love, while marital life involves more firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the family, which becomes more down-to-earth, so it is not as romantic and sweet as premarital life.

Second, the man has different ways of resolving the conflict.

Men and women are likely to have some differences and contradictions in their married life, and two people even have great dissatisfaction with each other, at this time the man's attitude to solving the problem is completely different from that before marriage, when there is a disagreement before marriage, the man will let the woman more than the split, take the initiative to admit the mistake, and when the woman is angry, she will coax her.

After marriage, the man is more rational and will not spoil the woman blindly, and their treatment of conflicts and solutions to problems has been very different.

3. The man's attitude towards feelings is different.

Before marriage, the man hopes that his career and relationship can be taken into account, and they spend a lot of time on falling in love, and after marriage, the man is more focused on the development of his career, which is different from what the woman imagined before marriage.

Women are still emotionally oriented after marriage, except for some career-oriented women, most women are more inclined to be a competent housewife, so the difference in the man's attitude towards feelings also makes a big difference in life before and after marriage.