Many second married couples, why can t they get by?

Mainly because many times there is not much emotional communication when looking for a second marriage, I just hope that two people can make do with life, but there will be more and more contradictions in life.

Because second-married wives will have each other's exes, and they will have children, there are a lot of contradictions and estrangements.

If you always calculate that the other party keeps money on her lips all day long, and then treats the other party's children badly, then I don't think this kind of second marriage can last.

Maybe the final reason is because of the disagreement between the three views, because of some details, so there was a big quarrel, and in the end it had to fall apart. It may also be a comparison of the other party's past.

It is because they had a failed marriage before, and after getting married, they did not learn from the experience of the previous one, but found that the two people were not suitable.

They all had their own families before, and there would be a lot of problems after remarriage, and if they didn't get through, they wouldn't be able to go to the end.

Because 1Be on your guard. Each other is a halfway couple, they don't trust each other, and they will guard against each other.

2.Too selfish. It's nothing more than about money and children, and they all want to think about their own children.

3.is suspicious, and halfway couples will be involved in the problem of children, which will cause them to meet the previous one.

Because couples like this are themselves put together through patchwork and have no emotional foundation, it is easy to have conflicts.

Because the second-married couple has no feelings, they just choose to be together in order to be able to have a companion in their later lives.

Because many people are in the second marriage, they take "finding a suitable person to start a family" as their mentality, not for love, the so-called run-in is a mutual accommodation of "not wanting to toss", rather than a change of "wanting to live well together".

So first of all, the purpose is very strong, directly screen the right object, eat twice to determine whether it is suitable or not. My dad is busy with work and his time is unstable (in the same industry as my mother, so I was often left unattended when I was a child), and I wanted to find a stable family when I got married, so I directly told the introducer to find a civil servant or teacher, and some careers were not considered.

Secondly, the premise of forming a new home is not to harm one's existing interests. (especially with children) my dad and his second wife (usually I call my aunt and brought a younger sister), before and after marriage, the division of their respective property is clear, and they make their own wills, and they will not have any emotions when they settle accounts. First marriages generally can't accept such a reckoning.

In the end, the mentality is not the same, if the average person gets married for the first time because of love, although they are not thinking about divorce, but the temper of the two is difficult to contain, and it is common to quarrel with contradictions and cold wars. The second marriage is not exactly true love, but it is really not a divorce, and there are contradictions.

All marriages that are not based on the husband and wife are basically no fun. It's just that the contradiction between the second marriage is more prominent, and the reason is still the same.

I see many, many happy families in Europe who are married for the second time.

There are two second-married couples within my eye who have no children of their own, and one family even has as many as 5 children in their previous marriages, but they get along well. The reason: people choose to make the couple the backbone of the family, the rock.

Children, no matter who they are, are all outsiders between husband and wife. Leave your child alone, my child. We are husband and wife, they are both children, and they are treated equally, so this marriage is worth concluding, and this matter can be done.

Looking back at the situation of many families in our country, let alone second marriage, many couples have never twisted into a rope in the first marriage. In Cao Ying, his heart is in Han. Everything has never been based on the new home of the young couple, and there is no child brought by the ex-wife and ex-husband to have the original family.

's parents go in and out of the emotional territory of the young couple at will. Isn't it the same thing to shout at your father and my mother between the couple in the first marriage and quarrel with your children and my children in the second marriage? The key is that they didn't see each other as their own people and got into a fake marriage.

said that it was a bird in the same forest, and they were all thinking about speaking out for their mother's family to get benefits. If it is a divorce due to this factor, don't be lucky, the second marriage is likely to be Waterloo again.

It's really better to take their own children and go out on a generous date without talking about family responsibilities to support the elderly, and the children don't have to call this dad today and that aunt tomorrow.

If you want to go the road of marriage, then the new husband and wife are the only partners in your future family. Don't seek personal gain, don't enjoy the comfort of marriage, but only mess with the welfare of your children. If you really can't let go of your children, don't remarry, go to prostitution and settle accounts.

Don't fool anyone with marriage.

The main reason is that two people in the second marriage cannot treat each other sincerely, so no matter how they get along, there will be a big gap between each other, which is not as good as the first marriage.

Because behind the second marriage, there are also exes and children, and they can't devote themselves to the new family, so the second marriage is generally not as good as the first marriage.

The main reason is that people who are married for the second time have no hope for marriage, and they are married simply for the sake of living.

Because they are no longer simple, they are more concerned about the interests of the factor, when their own interests are not satisfied, it is very likely that they will regard the other party as an enemy, and then they are not willing to pay for the family, then there will be a lot of contradictions.

The first is that many people do not reflect on the reasons why they failed in their last marriage, and they will still make the same mistakes after remarriage, and the second is that most couples in remarried families have their own hearts, and few people will be as simple as before.

Because two people come together, not because of love, but because they want to make do with each other's interests, they want to use each other to live a better life.

Second-married couples are halfway couples, and two people usually don't trust each other too much, so the happiness index will be greatly reduced.