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What kind of man to marry, what's the use of asking someone else? You have to ask yourself, do you want to get married? What kind of man do you want to marry?
What kind of man you marry is still determined by what kind of life you need. If you value material, marry a rich man, if you value feelings, marry a man with feelings, if you value the importance of the outside, marry a handsome man, if you want to find a young man, marry a man younger than yourself, if you pursue romance, marry a sentimental, petty bourgeois man......
However, it can be seen from the question that the questioner is a woman who is more serious about marriage, and is also more traditional and responsible, otherwise, she will not pull her children to find a man before considering marrying, such a woman is also more reliable and assured, such a good woman, I suggest, two choices: <>
1. Don't look for it. 50 years old, to find, it is not easy, to find a suitable one, can live with you sincerely, even more difficult, not good, chickens and eggs, hurt people and sadness, but also make the family uneasy. It is not easy for middle-aged men and women to re-establish a family, and there will be many issues involved, including property, disposable use of income, and child relationships.
Second, find, what kind of man are you looking for?
Back to the topic, if you really want to find it, then, what kind of man is more suitable for a 50-year-old woman at this time? I make the following recommendations:
1. Suitable. It's appropriate here, and it's more about the personality that suits. If you are a good woman, I think you must find a good man, a good man with one heart, a good man who is willing to live with you, and a man who is suitable for you. <>
Two people, just like shoes and clothes, whether they fit or not, you can know when you wear them, and you can know when two people come into contact, chat, and get along for a while. The most important thing is to find the right one for you.
2. A man with the same three views. A man, the three views are right or wrong, it is too important, only if your three views can be consistent, you can have a common language, your soul will be the same, you can be a soul mate, you can communicate together, and you can have the resonance and resonance of the soul. At this age, there is no longer a need for romance, rhetoric, unrealistic fantasies, and promises, but a soul partner, a life partner with common hobbies, interests, and language, to be happy.
3. Good character. This is very important, the problem of character, at any time, is very important, for men and women of any age, how the character of the other party, is the first element, it is more important than money, handsomeness, house and car savings, height and age, just imagine, if his character has a fatal flaw, even if he is worth tens of millions, you are not blessed to enjoy.
4. Reliable. Find a man who is down-to-earth, good, reliable, and responsible, find a man who is professional and serious about his feelings, and a man who is really good to you, has one heart with you, and is willing to spend the rest of his life with you, some qualities are more important than anything else.
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Now that the children are married, then you can pursue your own happiness and marry someone you like, who is suitable for you, and who can chat together and accompany each other.
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You must marry a man who loves you wholeheartedly, after all, you are over fifty years old, and if you marry a man casually without judgment, you are not responsible for yourself.
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I think a mature and stable man who is very good at taking care of people is more suitable, so that he can find a partner with a more gentle temperament in his later years.
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It is more appropriate to marry a man who is mature and stable, and loves him very much, because such a man can better accompany him.
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Marry a man who has not gnawed on the children of the old clan, so that the two of them can spend their old age in peace, without being disturbed by others and without accidents.
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Of course, it's better to be single. Unless the other man is very rich, you want to get his property, and say you want to have a guarantee. Otherwise, it's more free to be single. If you're single, it's okay to get along with a man.
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The woman is fifty years old, and the children have grown up and started a family. In terms of spiritual needs and life needs, you should find a wife to spend the rest of your life with. However, in reality, it is often difficult for a 50-year-old woman to be happy when she remarries, and it is not as good as living alone.
There are only a few decades in a lifetime, and excluding children and the elderly, there are not many specific hours of time that can be controlled by yourself. At the age of fifty, she is tired and tired to raise her children all her life, but she is also a woman at the age of fifty.
There is no doubt that others must take care of and accompany you, and the only area to be discussed is the assets left to the children, and it is best to do a good job of filing before marriage. It is best for 50-year-old women to find a person who is about to retire, or has retired, and the pension is high enough, and the daily life of the second half of their lives***, men are gradually getting older, and they will spoil women younger than themselves, and women need to pay attention to the most men's health problems, and there are many chronic diseases now.
Like high blood pressure, diabetics, cancer, these chronic diseases, the surface can not be seen, you must carefully observe before you can marry, if you are deceived and fooled, it is miserable, to be a free nanny for others, needless to say, the mental blow is huge, if there is suspicion, sure enough, or not to marry, at least one free body, all in all, women should polish their eyes, think carefully before making a decision, happiness is waving to you, I wish women all over the world have a good home. Physical health is the cost of the elderly.
If you find a sick person who has not yet enjoyed the joy of life, and is deeply involved in serving the sick, then the value of a second marriage is not much. If she dies, you will have to find another half. Children are married, life will not have too much pressure, a mother for the baby has already paid a lot of hardships, hard work until the child grows into a family, you will be able to easily arrange their future life.
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A mature and stable man will be more suitable, the age is not young, if you can spend the second half of your life in peace, it is the best.
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You're not called a single woman.
If you have children, you have to know what you want a marriage for.
Find someone who can meet your needs.
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Mature and steady, empathetic, self-motivated, knows how to care for others, knows how to take care of others, it is more suitable to marry such a man.
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At the age of 50, in fact, he is already middle-aged and elderly, and if I personally suggest, I can find an old partner who is married for the second time.
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In fact, the current society is really much more inclusive than before, in the past, the wife took the husband as the sky, mainly after marriage, the status of women at home is very low, everything depends on the husband, and we also know that the previous women were directly married by the family, so there is no emotional foundation at all, so after marriage, no matter whether it is good or bad, you have to bear it silently. If you are lucky and meet someone who loves you more, it is a kind of luck, but if you are unlucky, you meet someone who does not feel sorry for yourself and likes domestic violence, it is really a pain in your life.
But in the old days, everyone would think that if a woman divorced, it was a very shameful thing, she would be kicked out by her in-laws, and her mother-in-law would no longer accept him. So they all feel that if I leave this house, I have nowhere to go, and I won't see my children again, and they will do all kinds of forbearance for this home, for the sake of children.
But the current society is really different, the divorce rate is very high, that is because women are unwilling to compromise in marriage, if they are really unhappy, they will turn away. But we will find a problem, many divorced women, she rarely remarries, the reason is because she has children, she is afraid that if she remarries, it will have a great impact on the children, and she is afraid that they will not support it.
If a single woman is over 50 years old and her children are married, then I think it is really possible to remarry, as long as the person you find is really good to you, I believe your children will agree, because they also know that it is not easy for their mothers to pull themselves to such a big age. He has the right to pursue his own happiness, and I believe they want their mother to be very happy. After all, he has been for his children all his life, and now it's time for himself.
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Yes, everyone has the right to choose their own life, and there is no need to give up everything for the sake of their children, which is unfair to themselves.
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Of course, you can have the right to remarry at any time, and it is not easy to be lonely after remarriage.
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OK. Because there is no age limit for remarriage, as long as there is a suitable candidate, you can remarry.
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It's better to live on your own. Because they are all fifty years old, there is no need to get married and start a family, and they are happier to live.
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First, from the perspective of China's national conditions, it is best for a single woman around 50 years old to start a family, so that she can rely on her old age. Second, if a single woman around the age of 50 has very good economic conditions, then as long as she plans well, it is better to live a single life.
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Live it by yourself, because a fifty-year-old woman may not be able to have children anymore, and it is better to live alone.
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The situation is the same, so that the two of them have nothing to deal with, and at most it is very comfortable to help see the child.
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It is most suitable to marry a man who is in love. At this time, you don't have to bother raising your children, you don't have to make a lot of money, and you can find someone with a similar temper to live with the most comfortable.
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It is most suitable to marry a mature and stable man, because such a man can better accompany him for the rest of his life.
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A single woman is over fifty years old, and the children are married, it is more suitable to marry a man like this, who has a relatively stable economic income, has a retirement salary, a man with a strong sense of family responsibility, is very responsible, and has a particularly good personality is more suitable.
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I think the most important thing is to find a man who loves you and loves you more, a man who is a little healthier, and has a certain economic foundation. Because at this time you won't have children, don't think too much about the rest.
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As long as the feelings are compatible, everyone gets along happily, the other party has good character, and there is no burden, you can form a family.
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It is more appropriate to marry an honest man. Because honest men can generally be good to their wives, it is more reliable to marry him.
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It is better to marry a stable and kind man. Because when people get old, the most important thing is to have a good person to accompany them.
Women should let go of some obsessions, don't always worry too much about some details in life, and let their hearts be broader, and then don't ask each other for many things, so that life can be simple and happy.
After the age of 40, I think it is men who need women more, because women have become a foregone conclusion at this time, they no longer need men, and men they need women to help them do housework and maintain various relationships in their families.
After the divorce, if a woman pays attention to these three things, she will be happier and happier.