Cold banquets in rural areas are becoming more and more popular, and people used to be unable to rec

It may be that their feelings are cold, and everyone doesn't pay attention to relatives, so they naturally won't give gifts if they don't have feelings.

Because now many people realize that it is very troublesome for people to come and go after giving gifts, so they simply don't go, and I also think that it is very troublesome to send gifts to and fro, and you can go directly to dinner.

It is a historical tradition to hold banquets in the countryside. In the past, people in rural areas had to hold wedding banquets when they got married and had children, highlighting the wealth of the family. The extent of the funeral feast is not only derived from the remembrance of the deceased, but also reflects the Chinese culture of filial piety. Nowadays, cold drink banquets in the countryside are becoming more and more popular.

1.Some of the young people in the countryside are highly educated and settle in the cities, so they go back to visit their parents during the Spring Festival, some go directly to the cities to work, some settle in the cities, and most of them still build houses in their rural hometowns. In previous years, when the labor force moved to the city, everyone still took care of the villagers, but in recent years, everyone has been reluctant to engage in meaningless banquets.

The purpose of going to the city to work is to earn money that cannot be earned in the countryside. Originally, I only reunited with my relatives during the Chinese New Year. All kinds of banquets flocked to the venue, which has been the norm for many years.

Every year, I worked hard to return to the countryside, and my wallet was bulging, and several banquets were taken away by Zheng He. The purpose of earning money is to improve the living conditions of the family, not to cope with the banquet!

2.The quality of the banquet is not as good as it used to be. In the early years, the banquet was all for relatives to work together, and everyone ate a meal that may only be available during the Chinese New Year.

The standard of living in the past was not the same as it is now, so the banquet was more humane. Now, the standard of living has improved. Birthday banquets and various banquets on the beam are too frequent, and some are held for two or three days in a row in order to collect money.

Even after the divorce and second marriage, the children can enjoy drinking together, living, and all kinds of wonderful things together for several days in a row. Now people's living standards are not what they used to be. You can eat that meal if you want.

There is no need to pay for the sake of the so-called relationship.

3.The question of local customs. Now the banquet in some places is really inedible, and bad habits such as grabbing vegetables can't be served on the table by women.

Nowadays, people don't lack that meal, and when they have money, they still can't eat a decent meal. If it is not an immediate family member, no one wants to go to such a banquet and is not willing to pay for entertainment. There are also some banquets in the countryside, and indeed some banquets are held for a few days to collect money, for various reasons.

At the same time, there are also once-in-a-lifetime banquets, all kinds of people who only bring a lot of children to eat, and one person pays very little money. Collecting money is almost collecting money, losing money is almost losing money, and losing the original intention of witnessing various happy events with relatives. As long as you are thick-skinned, it will be difficult for those who want to make money through wedding receptions.

Those who want people to lose money, take their children to eat hard, or even want to change their red envelopes, it is better not to go. Such a wedding banquet is of little significance.

Banquets, or on the grounds of major events, for the purpose of family reunion and witnessing, other thoughts will become cold banquets, or will not be entertained, and people are not stupid.

In some rural areas, there are more and more "cold banquets", and in the past, people were not courteous, and now they are not courteous, mainly because the pace of people's lives is accelerating. Relatives and friends have less contact with each other. There is a phenomenon of weak family affection.

Because nowadays, most people use feasts to collect wealth and make money. When the banquet was first prosperous, there was no such thing as collecting money from the auction booth, and the general public congratulated the Lord's family with sincerity, and these people often took the initiative to buy some gifts to wish their blessings.

Nowadays, more and more people in society like to live a minimalist life, and they don't like the superficially empty communication of Tuanxian or Pihuan, and they are simplifying their circles, so some banquets in the countryside are slowly becoming less and less.

Whether you admit it or not, the human touch in the countryside is really getting less and less. Many ancient traditions and customs that have been passed down from generation to generation in rural areas are also changing with the development of society and the changes in people's living habits, as well as the change of people's concepts. Banquets in the countryside have also changed.

It turned out to be a gift for a banquet, and the whole family came; Later, people did not return from other places, but simply brought gifts. Now, more and more villages are holding banquets, and people do not come, and they do not follow the ceremony.

In the past, everyone held a banquet, and the guests were all guests, and no one cared about the gains and losses. But now, there are also people in the countryside who hold banquets, blindly compare, and even make money by holding banquets. Now the gift money in the countryside is getting bigger and bigger, and I am embarrassed to take out one or two hundred yuan.

Over time, everyone was very disgusted by so many messy banquets. In the past, people didn't give money for the sake of face. Now, the older generation is getting older, and most of the new generation is working in other places.

Rural feasts have always existed. When I was a child, the happiest thing was to eat alcohol, because not only could I eat big fish and meat, drink all kinds of drinks, but also play in this lively environment. It can be seen that even the current banquet is also a paradise for children, with all kinds of laughter and even crying, which is the liveliness of the rural banquet.

In the early days, there were not many people who went to work in the countryside. Everyone lives in the village, and when they go out, they can meet acquaintances and have something to help each other. Whoever has a banquet is also between neighbors, relatives and friends help each other.

But now, with the change of people's attitudes, this acquaintance relationship is becoming weaker and weaker. Everyone is busy with their own lives. Now people live at a fast pace, and they really don't have time to take care of the relationship in the village.

There are often things in the village that I can't come back to attend. As the older generation gets older, people nowadays are less and less connected to each other because they work outside the home all year round. Relationships are getting weaker.

Nowadays, the atmosphere of the banquet is getting more and more eerie. Some people often hold banquets under various banners and invite relatives and friends to come and sit down. Holding a banquet is disgusting to many people. After all, it is not a tradition to return empty-handed, and it is not afraid of offending people, which makes many rural people very distressed.

In the past, the main reason why people didn't come was because everyone was busy, but everyone would still send gifts to express their hearts, but now if they don't give gifts, it's because everyone thinks that there is no need for such people to get along in the future, so they don't care.

They feel that the current human feelings are not as important as before, and many farmers have gone out to work, and they have no time to attend banquets, so they want to save time and money.

Nowadays, the peasants are basically going out to work, and the relationship between them is not particularly good, so there is such a trend.

Hello, people are reluctant to go to the banquet now, because sometimes individual family wedding banquets three or four times, and now people are working faster and faster, there is no time to attend the wedding banquet, and now that the standard of living has improved, there are many fewer people who eat and drink. So now many people are reluctant to go to wedding receptions. I hope you are satisfied.

The main reason is that everyone is getting busier and busier at work, and there is no time to go back to the banquet, and everyone feels that there is no need to have too many interactions and waste time.

Many people don't live in the countryside anymore, and now the population in the countryside is not particularly large, and the amount of the gift is getting higher and higher, and many people can't afford to pay it.

I think this is mainly a gradual fading of the relationship between each other, and after a long time, many people no longer want to maintain this relatively weak relationship, so it will change slowly like this.

Because everyone is in the city, there is less contact with people in the countryside. I think this is normal, after all, the gift is because of a good relationship, and there is no need to maintain it if you don't contact it now.

Because the rural people are much less friendly than before, and many people do not live in the village, there is no need for etiquette in many cases.

In fact, there are more and more people in rural areas, and it is not normal for people to not be courteous.

There are fewer and fewer people in the countryside.

First of all, in today's rural areas, the phenomenon of population loss is more serious, and hollow villages have appeared in many places, and the villagers have embarked on the road of the big city, everyone is engaged in different positions, and they can only go home once in a few years, and many people have settled and lived outside.

It is the perennial lack of contact, there is no emotional intersection between each other, even if they are notified to go to the banquet, they will not participate, let alone post the gift money on it, otherwise it will be difficult to recover the money, and it will be a big loss at that time.

There are also some people who have already returned the gift money one by one, which means that they do not owe each other a favor, and there is no need to go with the gift.

It's not easy to be considerate of others.

There are now young and middle-aged people who are working outside, working more than 10 hours a day, so as to make a lot of money, if you ask for leave at will, it takes 3 days to come and go, and at least 500 yuan will be delayed.

The reason why farmers don't let people give gifts is also because the gift money is too heavy, and they have to pay 100-200 yuan with the gift at every turn, which costs thousands of yuan a year.

The human touch has faded.

In the past, when people in rural areas met each other, whether they knew each other or not, they would say hello, and when they saw familiar people, they would take out a cigarette to communicate with each other, smoke a cigarette, and say everything they wanted to say.

It's very close and doesn't need to be careful.

There is no reward for helping each other, and you can get a few packs of cigarettes and a few good meals for a few busy days, and you will pay far more than you will return. Even so, everyone will not complain about anything, and everyone will talk about "courtesy exchanges".

This is normal, but it is not easy to be considerate of others.

Because there are fewer and fewer people in the countryside now, there are more people who go out to work.

1. There is no contact.

In today's rural areas, the phenomenon of population loss is even more severe. Hollow villages have appeared in many places. The villagers have taken the road to the big city. They work in different jobs and can only go home once in a few years. Many settled outside.

It's a long period of non-contact, there is no emotional overlap between each other, and even if they are told to attend a banquet, they will not attend, let alone put a gift on it, otherwise it will be difficult to recover the money, and then they will lose a lot.

There are also some people who return the gift money one by one, that is, they don't owe each other a favor, and they don't need to go with the gift.

2. The human touch has become weaker.

In the past, in rural areas, people would greet each other whether they knew each other or not. When they meet acquaintances, they take out cigarettes to connect with each other, smoke a cigarette, and say what they want to say.

When we're together, we always ask: How are your parents? Is it hard to work outside? Stressed?

It seems like a simple greeting, but it is an intimate relationship between people. Nowadays, when the villagers meet, it is a completely different style of painting: are they making a fortune? How much is it a month? Are you married and have children? Did you buy a garage? There are tens of thousands of commercial houses?

The same greeting, but the latter is offensive, and the favor dissipates, and many people can only avoid acquaintances, or simply do not go home.

When you hear who has a banquet, you don't ask them to take time off to go home, which means that there is less favor.

3. It is not easy to ask for leave, and the gift is too heavy.

Today's young and middle-aged people are working outside the home. They have to work more than 10 hours a day so that they can earn a lot of money. If they ask for leave at will, it will take three days to come back, and there will be a delay of at least 500 yuan.

The reason why farmers don't let people give gifts is that the gift money is too heavy. If you can't move, you'll have to pay $100-$200. It costs a few thousand dollars a year. The pressure on everyone has increased, and they are not involved at all.

Now the rural salute is relatively large, and it is also very grand.

There are now more and more people in rural areas, and it is not normal for people to not be courteous.

The feasts of our rural people are still relatively rich.

In today's rural areas, the phenomenon of population loss is relatively serious, and hollow villages have appeared in many places.

I think the main reason is that there are fewer and fewer people in the countryside now, and people in the countryside basically move to the city and basically settle in the city, so few people go to the banquet in the countryside, because it is sometimes very inconvenient to return to the countryside, and some people feel that the gift money has arrived, and the heart has arrived, and there is no need for people to go again. And now people in the city are very busy, even if people in the countryside go to the city to work, there are certain restrictions, the work is really very busy, there is no time to go back to the countryside to participate in the banquet, so the rural banquet is becoming more and more cold.

Now the concept of rural people has also begun to change, and they don't care about any excitement at all, and some people think that the gift money is enough. Then I don't care if people don't get there. So that is to say, rural people are not willing to go at all now, so they are not willing to go to the banquet at all, and it is very troublesome to participate in the banquet, and they have to drink or something, and now the rural people are not willing to do this

In fact, some people who have made appointments in big cities don't care about banquets or anything at all, only rural banquets are held for a lively time.

Especially in the countryside, when encountering anything, the family will hold a banquet and call the whole village to come, so that the whole village will also know who has something big going on in the family, but now people have less communication and contact, and people in the countryside rarely meet at all because they work outside or work outside, so they have no feelings, and they are not willing to participate in the banquet at all, but out of some friendship and etiquette, they must give some gifts.

Give some gift money, you can better express your heart, and some people think that even if they can't get it, they don't care about the problem that people can't reach it.