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Be a person and do things at all times, but don't be opportunistic at any time.
With: Adapt. Chances: timing. Should: Cope. Improvisation means being flexible as the timing and circumstances change. It is a metaphor for people to be agile and flexible. It is also known as "the opportunity to respond to the changes of friends".
And opportunistic means to use unfair means for personal gain. It also refers to relying on small cleverness to take advantage.
That is to say, we must respond flexibly at all times with the change of time and circumstances, but we must not use improper means to seek personal gain or rely on cleverness to take advantage.
Keeping this sentence in mind, I think it will be good for my life and have a certain guiding effect, especially for someone like me who is not deeply involved in the world.
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Life, work, study, growth, entertainment, family, friendship, love...
There are so many things to face every day in life, and there are so many things that it is inevitable that you will be chaotic and then panic.
The Buddha said: To live in the present moment is to sweep the floor when you sweep the floor, to eat when you eat, and to sleep is just to sleep.
It may seem simple, but how many people can do it?
If work is just work, as simple as a factory assembly line, perhaps, we can't be distracted, but feel bored. It's not a matter of having a lot of thoughts, just chatting.
Eating is a first-class life event. There are also many people who are anxious to dismantle the two mouthfuls, especially friends who open shops and stalls to do business, and when customers come to the door, a meal may have to be eaten and stopped several times.
It's a rare opportunity to sit down and have a good meal, but I always have all kinds of problems on my mind.
As for sleeping, not being able to sleep at night and not waking up during the day has become the norm for many people. Wake up every morning, brush the circle of friends, and post a lot of insomnia.
All kinds of emotions, all kinds of emotions, in the dead of night, they are unscrupulously high.
When I couldn't get busy, I was also in a hurry, panicked, and the more anxious I was, the more I couldn't calm down.
I often tell myself, don't rush, take your time. If you are in a hurry, you lose.
The teacher said that you must act very violently and very quickly, but your heart is stable and happy.
What to do when there are a lot of things to do, and when they are messy?
Now I, first, will I calm down and see what things are going on in general. (Look at the big picture).
Second, prioritize (set the order).
Third, categorize things (you can do things together, which saves a lot of time).
Fourth, one by one.
There is only one most important thing, and every stage, every day, and even every point in time, there is a stage that belongs to the most important thing. I do my best to get what needs to be done at the right time.
It doesn't matter if you don't finish it. Just do your best, don't be too yourself.
In life, accidents are everywhere, and there is a plan, but you also need to know how to be improvised.
This requires us to spend some time every day doing important but not urgent things. Silently take root, accumulate, and cultivate a self that is ready to face anything.
Unhurried, calm and calm, steady happiness.
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1. Willing to live in the future, adaptable, free from the world, have their own expertise, save money, and make something out of nothing.
2. Immediate, chaotic, light but not tired, clean, for no reason, citing scriptures.
3. Sell well and flattering, have nothing to say, change the evil and return to the right, treat each other differently, once in a lifetime, and be different.
4. Silent, understated, hard-working, cautious, back and forth, self-deprecating.
5. Lawlessness, smiling in the south and north, loving money like a ming, courtesy, inexplicable, and low-voiced.
6. Dejected, a thousand words, clear, two cuts, how to be good, ungrateful.
7. Refer to the sky and the earth, build high debts, cover the sky and cover the earth, stop talking about the wind and the moon, be like-minded, and drill holes.
8. Fighting the heavens and the earth, shaking the heavens and the earth, from beginning to end, from beginning to end, as we all know, again and again.
9. The love of water, the most holy and bright, self-sufficiency, selfishness, sublimation, casting mountains and boiling the sea.
10. Respect the teacher, the target, the food and the soldiers, think left and right, sit and reap the profits.
11. Observe the time to raise obscurity, cure silk and benefit the body, bury yourself in the belly of the fish, bathe in the body and bathe in virtue, and the holy teacher.
12. Senior and respected, the matter is big, talking on paper, staying out of the matter, participating in killing, pointing to the mountain and talking about the grind.
Thirty-six strategies, also known as thirty-six strategies, refers to the ancient Chinese thirty-six art of war strategies in war and confrontation is very practical, substitute into the game of eating chicken can also wish you a helping hand "to win with wisdom", besiege Wei to save Zhao, this refers to besieging the capital of Wei to rescue Zhao. It is now borrowed to refer to the tactic of overtaking the enemy's rear to force it to withdraw. In the fourth row, if our side is in a fierce battle, we can let our teammates cover us with gunfire, so that we can break through to the rear of the enemy and kill the enemy, especially under the hill to attack the hillside, the terrain is not conducive to us, and it is easy to fall into a disadvantage if we force our side to attack, and after the sudden attack, we must not be seen to enter from the rear, and take him by surprise.
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