The relationship between sensory traits and safety

The so-called sense of security.

It is the psychological need for stability and security.

A sense of security is a premonition of possible physical or psychological danger or risk.

and the individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

First of all, a sense of security is a feeling, a psychology;

It is the feeling that comes from the performance of one party to the other; It is a kind of speech and behavior that people can rest assured, can be comfortable, can be relied on, and can be trusted.

Second, whether or not we can produce a sense of security comes from many factors, both subjective and objective. Here we will mainly talk about the subjective aspect. The first thing to do to make the other person feel safe is to make the other person believe in themselves.

It is not easy to make the other party believe in themselves, and it must be reflected in speech and demeanor, such as: speaking must count, what you say can be done, and don't promise if you can't do it; often talk to them about their hearts, talk about their thoughts, and often greet and care about their lives; No matter how busy you are, don't ignore them and often surprise them; Don't be too nice to them (the opposite sex), talk and act the same; Willing to break bad habits for them.

Third, a sense of material security. If you want to really reassure them, you must also have a specific sense of material security, that is to say, you must make them feel that they don't have to worry about what they need to live, and they don't have to worry about living without money, which is actually a very important factor.

Psychological security refers to "a sense of confidence, security, and freedom from fear and anxiety." Maslow believes that a sense of security is the most important factor in determining mental health and can be seen as synonymous with mental health.

A sense of security is a sense of confidence, security and freedom from fear and anxiety, a feeling of satisfying a person's present and future needs, a premonition of possible physical or psychological dangers or risks, and a sense of the individual's powerlessness in coping with the situation, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

A sense of security literally means the feeling of being safe and secure. It is the psychological need for stability and security. It belongs to the inner spiritual needs of the individual.

A sense of security is a premonition of possible physical or psychological danger or risk, as well as an individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

The sense of security in psychology is to give people the communication of the heart, to build, the heart, the wall to understand the other person's thoughts well.

The sense of security in psychology is like a person who is very afraid of being poor, and then he works his own and has money, he will feel comfortable and not afraid. ** to your own thoughts.

Psychological security actually refers to the environment, which is similar to humans and animals, and they will feel uneasy in an unfamiliar environment, while they will appear much more at ease in a familiar environment.

Hello, psychological security means that your own safety has been guaranteed, and other above safety has also been guaranteed, so this is a sense of security, I hope mine can help you.

A sense of security in psychology should refer to the feeling of being comfortable and free from burden.

It is the feeling that the performance from one party brings to the other party, and it is a kind of speech and behavior that people can rest assured, can be comforted, can be relied on, and can be trusted.

It can only bring a certain amount of satisfaction to oneself, or have a great psychological guarantee for one's own life.

It's all about what a person does, and everything will be full of security, without negative energy, which makes him feel very at ease.

Psychological security means that the person has an objective sense of security about the things around him.

1. Do what you say: A sense of security is not to deceive, don't cover everything with lies, even if the truth is cruel, then tell the truth tactfully. Do what you promise, otherwise don't make promises, so as to build a sense of security step by step.

2. Preference: A sense of security is a preference for the other party, no matter how the outside world changes, choose to be single-minded and die-hard.

3. Disclosure: Disclose the identity of the other party in the circle of friends, so that you will feel that the relationship between men and women has been determined, so that the circle of friends will be more purified, and there will be no other people to entangle. It is a great psychological security for the other party.

I think it's stupid enough to be stable enough in this relationship, and the sense of security lies in not feeling like losing this relationship. The love that the other party gives you, and the sense of dependence on you buried by the ants, that is, the certainty and controllability of the future.

A sense of security is a sense of confidence, security and freedom that is free from fear and anxiety, a feeling of satisfying the needs of a person's sleepy present and future, a premonition of possible physical or psychological dangers or risks, and a sense of powerlessness in the individual's coping with the situation, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and a sense of controllable suspicion.

1.Money and financial situation: Financial instability can cause people to worry about the future, worrying about not being able to meet basic life needs or achieve life goals.

2.Health problems: Physical health problems, whether one's own or one's, can make people feel anxious and helpless.

3.Relationships: Relationships with friends and family can affect a person's sense of security, especially when faced with conflict, disagreement, or alienation.

4.Jobs & Careers: Unemployment, job instability, or hindered career advancement can be unsettling and worrying.

5.Family life: Family conflicts, breakdown of intimate relationships, or questions about children's education can make people feel insecure.

6.Social environment: Aspects such as social security, political stability, and the social welfare system may also affect a person's sense of security.

7.Natural Disasters and Unexpected Events: Natural disasters, accidents, or other unforeseen events can cause people to feel uneasy and worried.

8.Psychological factors: Psychological problems, such as anxiety, depression, or phobias, can cause people to feel uneasy and insecure in their daily lives.

To feel safer, try seeking professional advice, building a stable social support network, learning ways to cope with stress and anxiety, and focusing on your physical and mental health.

At the end of the day, security is a "conviction" and insecurity is a fear.

If a person has a strong sense of security in an intimate relationship, she will have a "sense of confidence" in her partner and herself, and you believe that you call him ** and he doesn't answer because he really has something to do and not an excuse; You believe that he is really the first to sell on a business trip, not to sneak up on you behind your back; You believe that he will not love you one day and will not love you the next day.

And if a person is not secure in an intimate relationship, what she experiences inside her is the "fear" of losing the other person, and this fear makes people prone to gains and losses. If he doesn't pick me up, isn't he chatting with other girls? If he says he's going on a business trip, isn't it possible he's lying to me? Although he said he loves me today, will he not love me tomorrow?

Our sense of security in intimate relationships is formed by a part of our innate temperament and our interactions with our nurturers in our early life. You may be surprised why intimacy is linked to parent-child relationships.

Because in these relationships, what we experience is a deep "attachment".

Our attachment to another life means that we open up the weakest and most vulnerable parts of ourselves to the other person. And this requires extreme trust and the certainty that you will survive even if you are injured.

People with anxious attachment are usually more sensitive to potential threats in intimate relationships, that is, to the "possibility of abandonment and loss", and this sensitivity and fear may cause anxious attachment people to make a lot of "confirmation" behaviors in intimate relationships, such as repeatedly asking their partner to tell their love, repeatedly confirming their partner's whereabouts, etc., because only a variety of commitments will calm the anxiety of "loss".

However, excessive "confirmation behavior" is likely to wear your partner out, and if he happens to be another person with an avoidant attachment, then it is easier to want to escape the relationship.

1. What exactly is security? A sense of security is a psychological need for stability and security. It belongs to the inner spiritual needs of the individual.

A sense of security is a premonition of possible physical or psychological danger or risk, as well as an individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

2. How to build a sense of security? (1) Improve your own inappropriate behavior: Find the points that the other party minds the most, and improve them one by one""Cost-effective" is higher, and it seems that your improvement fluctuation will be greater, and the effect of filling the other party's sense of security will be more obvious.

2) Give more gifts, talk more about love, and spend more time with the other person: In short, do more things to stabilize her emotions, and make the other person feel that they are cared for. Insecure people are not afraid that you do "exaggerate."", but I'm afraid that you will do too much.

3) Ask for detailed and specific explanations. Insecurity is often due to uncertainty, and uncertainty leads to doubt, which makes us immersed in pain but unable to stop. When you have any doubts, don't dwell on yourself and ask him why you're doing this.

I feel bad and think I'm not valued by you, right? Honesty about your doubts and vulnerability, and confession of your worries and fears, there is nothing to be ashamed of, it will only make the other party feel that you are a sincere and straightforward person, and will let the other party know that it turns out that he does not reply to WeChat for half an hour, which will make you so cautious and uncomfortable, and will let the other party know that you really care about him, and he will also know how to better care for you and love you. After asking, after being sure, all insecurities will disappear naturally.

4) Establish chat rules and habits. It's not safe because you're not sure, you're not sure when the other party will contact you and reply to you, you're not sure when he'll come to see you, and most of the time you reply to messages on the same day, but what's going on if you don't get it back this time? At this time, it is very necessary to establish certain contact rules and habits.

We want the other person to contact you, how we want the other person to be able to say it directly, how you want to contact each day, how long it takes him to reply to your messages, how often to meet and so on. Establish rules and habits that are acceptable to each other, and follow each other, and you will feel more and more secure.