Is there a moment that makes you feel that marriage is particularly boring?

Husband and wife quarrel, especially one of the spouses crying and crying for divorce, and fighting for child custody.

That's what marriage is all about, when everything becomes a habit, everything becomes a matter of course. Both parties actually pay a lot for the family and marriage, but unfortunately, everyone may focus on the part they give. Contradictions followed.

There are two things that can be seen from your description: one is that you have been comparing, comparing the changes before and after your husband, comparing your own changes, and maybe comparing other family ......The second is that what you have been expressing is that it is not worth it. Because you feel like you're giving far more than you're getting.

I've definitely been together for almost a decade, and neither of us has a common language, so I don't think it's interesting.

Marriage is originally a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, maybe it was a desperate love at the beginning, but slowly became a relative, although it feels like white water now, but the people here are indispensable, so cherish it while you are young.

Learn to be considerate of the difficulties of both parties. After all, marriage is a lifelong affair, and everyone's focus is different at each stage of love and marriage. When you are in love, everyone is young and energetic, and the impulse and desire of youth put love in a very important position, and the sweet feeling is naturally spontaneous.

After getting married and having children, men change from little boys to big husbands, and from sons to husbands to ......fathersWomen have changed from big girls to little daughters-in-law, from women to women to mothers......This kind of role change and conflict is completed within two or three years, and the discomfort and change of mentality in the process of role change should be said to be understandable.

It's now, I cried all afternoon, now I can calm down a little, the feelings are too complicated, the human heart is also complicated, the person you love the most can't be believed casually, the person who was once closest is the most piercing knife, this is my despair and cold, but also because I always hold on to hope to have this kind of despair, discouraged about life, from the fantasy out of the force to accept reality, and then a knife to the heart.

Once, when I worked overtime until midnight and didn't eat, and when I came home, my wife didn't leave any food for me, and I felt that marriage was particularly boring.

I went to attend the 10th anniversary party of high school graduation, classmates sent me and my children home, when I was about to get to the gate of the community, the one at home called ** to ask why I haven't arrived home yet, I said to the door of the community, when I picked up **, I saw that my classmates were about to open over, I hurriedly shouted casually, paused, and then hung up**, after arriving home, he asked me in a weird way, you still shouted pause, what are you doing in the car? I suddenly felt that it was time for this marriage to end.

When both of us are at home, and I am cooking alone, he will feel angry and angry when he watches TV, and he will think about what he got married for.

To be honest, I have never felt that marriage is particularly boring, and I feel happy every day with him.

Home is supposed to be a place where people can relax, not a place where I feel stressed and nervous, but I have become more and more uncomfortable, and I often regret getting married. When I found out that I didn't love him that much, and he didn't love me, my marriage became pitiful, and that was when it was time to be cold.

After more than two years of marriage, more and more quarrels and parents in the middle, I suddenly didn't understand the meaning of getting married in the first place, and I couldn't figure out what the meaning of this kind of life would only go bad. Marriage is the grave of love, and all kinds of lessons from real life have made me believe in this sentence, I have always felt that marriage is meaningless, just a certificate.

When I have less and less time for myself, I dedicate everything to this family, but I still can't run well and can't make my husband better, I really feel that I am digging my own grave and getting married to find myself guilty. That's when I felt that there was no point in this marriage.

The two of us met on a blind date, and got married in less than four months because of the urgency of the family, and slowly found that they didn't like each other at all, although there was no quarrel, but there was no emotion for an empty shell marriage, it really didn't make sense, and now I was thinking about whether to leave.

Of course there is! And not at once. I think it's a normal thing. Marriages are not perfect, and neither is everyone. We need to learn to be tolerant and understanding.

Not for a moment, but for a long time!

1. The true meaning of marriage is to live a happier life.

The real meaning of marriage is to live a happier life after two people form a family together. If the life after marriage is not happy, then the meaning of marriage is lost. The true meaning of marriage should be a happy and contented life, a happier life than when you were single before.

The essence of marriage is to make people have a better life, so after marriage, we must live better, in order to find the true meaning of marriage.

2. The real meaning of marriage is to resist the ruler skin together and protect against the wind and rain.

The true meaning of marriage is that two people work together to withstand all kinds of ups and downs in life, and when you encounter difficulties, you face them hand in hand, and after going through the wind and rain, you will embrace the most brilliant life together. The real meaning of marriage is to let two people continue to grow in the process of going through ups and downs, and finally continue to tolerate and understand, and two people become the most tacit comrades-in-arms.

3. The true meaning of marriage is to identify with each other and to recognize love.

The true meaning of marriage is to identify with each other and with the love between you. Marriage without love certainly has no real meaning, when two people make the choice to get married, you must fully identify with each other, and you must also love each other deeply, so that marriage is meaningful. After getting married, life is very meaningful every day.

Of course, it is the hail that makes the happy marriage rotten that makes it interesting to be hungry.

Two interesting souls meet.

is the pinnacle of life.

1. Economic contradictions: Compared with singleness, the economic pressure after marriage is undoubtedly huge, after all, from one person to feed the whole family and not hungry to raise a baby and a car to live. Men suffer from not being able to earn enough money, women suffer from not having money to buy, buy and buy, one does not understand and the other is aggressive, and the poor economy will make you scratch your head.

2. Contradictions in family relationships: contradictions with mothers-in-law and fathers-in-law, contradictions with scumbags, poor wives and parents. is excited for a while, and if it is ugly, a real "family is like a leather ethical drama" may be staged.

You think you are an outsider in his family, he thinks you don't know how to back down, and what's worse is that the relationship between the three is difficult. 3. Sharp contradictions between husband and wife: living a life of firewood, rice, oil, and salt are all practices, and the tension and contradiction surge will inevitably become a problem for both husband and wife.

Many disputes and many contradictions are actually extended contradictions of these two contradictions, which may accompany you for a long time, making people headaches and helpless. At the end: "There are thousands of sad marriages, but happy marriages are more or less the same."

For some helpless things, we have to be calm; For things that cannot be controlled, we have to go with the flow; As for family conflicts, we must understand and learn from each other, as long as we communicate well with each other and work together, I believe that it will always get better."

When you have a conflict with your other half, you feel very sad, the other party can't understand you, and this kind of thinking has not been able to communicate with the other party, staring at the two He Sun people together relatively have no topic, and can't understand, when you quarrel, then Kai will feel that his marriage is very sad in an instant, and he is unfortunate to find a person who can't communicate, not only will he not care about you, but also he doesn't have any language. Such a marriage is deplorable.

is full of emotion, because a quasi-newcomer who has been running for 10 years is forcibly broken up, how sad and ridiculous, his marriage is actually something that he can't control.

I guess there are many similar experiences.

1 single information that is being pedded, as long as you reach the appropriate age, your holiday book will be arranged on a blind date. And it's the kind of payment, of course, I don't think it's to criticize those matchmaking or other forms of fees.

I sigh that you have actually become a resource in the hands of the other party, and there is also a high-quality distinction.

2 The fate of marriage that was affected by customs, in the middle finally met a girl who had nothing to say through relatives and friends, some gossip and some customs and taboos told you that "you Danqin is impossible, don't even think about it".

3 The sorrow of being married and marrying, forgetting why I got married. Seeing more than 10 people a day, each of them came to watch a movie, eat, and go to the park-style "date", and quickly worked hard to tie the knot, some people did become victims of "marriage", and their acquaintance and acquaintance process was as short as "7 days".

You may have objections to why your marriage is not under your control. I have also thought deeply about this kind of question, and the answer is whether two people "get married or not".

For example, elopement is good. You could leave everything behind, but about her? There is no denying that there are successes, but I personally believe that the guarantee of happiness and stability is extremely low.

What is even more sad is that too many Chi Xian people in the state actually accepted this kind of "swayed" arrangement and accepted such a "marriage".

Marriage, everyone's life stupid town has appeared in the mind countless marriage failures are sad, sometimes when you encounter a matter of personal disagreement, you think that one thing is Jingming right, but the other party does not understand you when you will have this feeling, but think about it carefully, maybe it is the communication of Fang Liang's file announcement is wrong.

The husband is inconsiderate, his life is stressful, and he has to support the family.

You try to fight for it, and the other half only keeps complaining and denying.

1. People who are overly romantic.

They have high expectations of married life and excessive demands on their partners.

2. People who are overly dependent on their parents.

This type of person is not mentally mature, and whenever any problems arise in their married life, they will ask their parents for help and will not work with their partners to solve them.

3. People who are overly dramatic.

Such people react violently to joy, anger, sorrow, and sorrow, not only to the other person"Aggressive"and often after the problem occurs, the opportunity to turn around is lost due to overreaction, and the result is that the marriage is declared a failure.

Fourth, people who are overly accommodating.

This kind of person is overly accommodating and spoiling his partner, and he does everything for him, but he is afraid that he will not be careful, and after many years, he will form a natural habit. If it's by chance"Poor service"It becomes the fuse of conflict and friction.

5. Chattering people.

This type of person is unable to make the other person have a relatively quiet environment, and over time the other person will become bored.

6. People who are excessively lazy.

This kind of person is too dependent on his partner, everything is done by the other party, and he enjoys the service of his partner with peace of mind like the lord and wife, and after a long time, the other party feels that this is a burden, and he can't taste the warmth of life, and thinks that marriage is boring.

7. Overly critical people.

This type of person constantly makes sharp criticisms of any thoughts and actions of his partner, which is unacceptable to the other person.

8. People who are too stingy.

Such people are not only frugal in their own lives, but they also do not allow their partners to make slightly unconventional consumption, and they are deprived of the entertainment or enjoyment that should be enjoyed in life, and there is no joy in life.

9. Sentimentality"Disease"of people.

This type of person is more common in women. They keep imagining something for some"Disease"Complaining and complaining to the husband in the hope of getting his husband's caring attention is often self-defeating and unbearable.

10. People who demand perfection.

This type of person demands the highest standards in his mind for everything. Due to the high requirements of oneself or one's partner, both parties are under great psychological and spiritual pressure, and it is not easy to maintain a good marital relationship.

It's all interesting to think about the family.

It's not that you suddenly don't understand him, it's that he's changed, he's having an extramarital affair, and doesn't such ambiguous information prove something? In this case, maybe the marriage is really not interesting, but you have to make him interesting, this is just the beginning, if this matter is handled well, your relationship will be stronger, if it is not handled properly, it will be over between you, and it will eventually disintegrate. I suggest you secretly find out the facts first, and then talk to him at the end.

In the face of the facts, if he still quibbles, or if he still doesn't change after that, then he is hopeless. In this case, it is not a disappointment in the marriage, but to take the matter calmly and resolve it slowly. Got it?

Hope you can grasp it. Save your marriage.

When there is a quarrel and a divorce is said.

My husband and I are both quick-tempered people, and it is a luxury to be able to talk well, once the opinions of the two people do not agree, then they quarrel directly, quarrel and scold directly, if the quarrel is more serious, and the fight starts directly, this is not counted, I have to say divorce, at that moment, I really want to divorce, I have to get a divorce certificate, and there is really no way to continue.

This kind of situation has been encountered more than once, basically every time, once this happens, I am very cold, I can't wait to complain to myself hundreds of times, how to find such a man, let alone divorce, anything can be done, I will be crazy with anger.

I think it's normal for two people to have such a situation, although there are also more harmonious couples, but most of them will still quarrel, and if they quarrel, they must be divorced, I think what I met should be the same as what other people have encountered, but I don't think it's necessary to calm down.

It's not easy for two people to be together, they have fought, quarreled and loved, maybe this is the real marriage.

Therefore, the next time two people quarrel and quarrel, don't talk about divorce, don't divorce when you're in a bad mood, two people will encounter a lot of things in their lives, so don't worry that you won't be able to bear it, what you should think about is to make yourself happy, at least you won't be so tired, you have to know that marriage is hard-won, don't feel that there is nothing bad about losing it, you have to think about your life, your family has to think about your parents, your decision is directly related to the mood of the people around you, They are like this because they are worried about you, don't think it has nothing to do with them, you better calm down, calm down, and let yourself calm down when you are uncomfortable and angry.