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This is not psychologically abnormal, maybe you haven't met the right person yet, when you meet someone who makes you desperate, maybe you want to fall in love, you want to get married, you're still young, your thoughts will change at any time, wait and see, life is still long!

This is not psychologically abnormal, it is that the pressure in this society is too great, many people have men and women, I am rice wine and a lot of money, even they don't want to fall in love or get married, they think that they are doing well, they feel that they are not yet capable, they can build a family with others and have children, they are not ready to rectify the implementation, in fact, if I am younger, I don't want to repair myself in the family, I think it is really troublesome. I can understand you.

Not really. Just haven't encountered it yet. The one you want to fall in love with, the one you want to get married, that's it. Wait until you do, no matter how old you are. You're going to want to fall in love and get married.

As long as you don't want to fall in love in your heart, then you don't have to force yourself. When you meet someone you like, you will naturally want to fall in love, or someone will like you, and when you confess, you can see if it is the person you like.

This is very normal, most people in society now don't want to fall in love! Because now there is too much pressure and too many things to worry about.

If it is too troublesome to fall in love, it means that you are impatient, and you should adjust your mentality to talk about a vigorous relationship.

Maybe you haven't felt the beauty of love and marriage yet.

Yes. Fear, avoidance of love, marriage.

It may be that you didn't meet the right person.

Nowadays, there are many young people who don't fall in love and don't get married, and some older people can't understand what kind of thoughts or psychology these people have, and what is the psychology of not wanting to fall in love and not wanting to get married? For people who don't fall in love and don't get married, there are now also special names, what is the name of a person who doesn't fall in love and doesn't get married?

People who don't fall in love and don't get married are called "single people", "diamond kings", "single princesses", "single dogs", "unmarried people", "nuns", "monks" and so on.

What is the psychology of people who don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, in fact, everyone's thoughts are different. Some people don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, not because they don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, but they haven't met a suitable partner, so they have been single, in fact, their hearts are also very eager for sweet love and a happy marriage.

Some people don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, but they have been hurt emotionally, because the last love or marriage left too terrible memories, so they dare not continue to fall in love and marriage, and they are worried that they will encounter the previous things if they continue to fall in love or marriage, so they would rather be single for the rest of their lives than want to fall in love or get married again.

Some people will regard "people who don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married" as a flood beast, thinking that they have psychological problems, so they don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, in fact, there is no problem with their psychology, it's just that their personal choice or fate has not yet arrived.

Personally, I think it's a normal state of mind, not a pathology, but I'm not saying that I agree with this idea 100% either. Why do you have this mentality? In fact, the most important thing is the consideration of personal personality, future thinking, economic and other factors.

1. Loss of freedom.

Falling in love is different from marriage. When we are in love, we can do a lot of things as we want, and it can be said that "one person is full, the whole family is not hungry", but if you choose to get married, it is an invisible constraint on you by a family, whether it is from the wife's "nagging" or the child's "waiting to be fed". In contrast, only falling in love or even living a single life is more in line with them, and they are more able to enjoy the joy of life!

2. The pressure increases dramatically.

When we are in love, we can play as much as we want, and we don't need to think too much about one factor. But if you get married, you need to think a lot, whether it is life, work, financial and other pressures will multiply. Why many people have the phenomenon of fear of marriage, this is also based on their own utopian dreams about some things in the future, invisibly creating a big net for themselves, and they are the one in the net, escaping the reality of marriage under this "delusional pressure".

However, these pressures are real!

3. Personality and ideological problems.

I myself belong to someone who just wants to fall in love, not to get married. There is a saying that "falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", but this hooligan is now playing with peace of mind most of the time! In my opinion, this is actually an irresponsible attitude.

4. Miscellaneous.

Of course, in addition to some of the above reasons, there is also the feeling that two people have not reached the level of relationship that is really inferior to married life, or they are used to idleness, and they can't adapt to married life, etc. However, I think that if you really love your girlfriend deeply, you should still give her a warm home, so that her heart can be more grounded!

From the perspective of real life, we have to admit that there is a difference between the responsibilities and responsibilities of the relationship and the marriage relationship. Because love is a matter of two people, you love me, and it is probably enough to talk about love; But marriage is a matter of two families, and in addition to your love and me, there may be more responsibilities in it.

Falling in love is indeed a dreamy process, especially after fierce pursuit, the two sides have reached a consensus, at this time the male and female lovers are in a sweet state, two people always want to be tired of being together, even if it is just to eat melon seeds together, they will feel particularly comfortable, and they are completely enjoying the process of love.

So far, I think that because of the imbalance between men and women, there are tens of millions more young men than women in my country, and many boys who can't find wives and are always single.

After all, love can't withstand the passage of time, even if the hot love will cool down and fade, even if you don't get married for decades, in fact, you have invisibly moved towards marriage, just a ceremony and a red paper with the official seal. Unless you keep changing the object of your relationship and changing your emotions, you have to go through the additional conditions that come with marriage.

For girls who don't want to get married, and are still ambiguous with many boys, it can be seen that she is more casual about her feelings, the purpose of this kind of woman who doesn't want to get married is very simple, that is, she hasn't played enough, and when she has played enough, she will find an honest person to marry and find someone who can take care of her. Men don't want to get married, there are many situations for this, now marriage definitely needs a house, as well as a car, not to mention the rest, these two must be there no matter where they are, for men who don't have these two, they are more inferior, and they are more sensitive to marriage, after all, men don't want their future wives to suffer, so they can only not get married.

A large number of young people who are unwilling to get married or who have no plans to get married are only children themselves, and they have been spoiled by their parents since they were young, but they don't know that excessive pampering has caused distortion to the psychology of young people.

This sentence is about boys, you are talking about girls, it should not be appropriate. Or maybe she didn't find the right boy, maybe no boy really did it to her. can only hold the psychology of dating first, waiting for the arrival of Prince Charming in his mind. Everything is conjecture.

In the early days of our relationship, we often regard each other as our idols or admirers, once we enter marriage, there may be some things that coexist with elegance and vulgarity, so many people are afraid of marriage, pursue beauty, and worry that marriage will destroy the beautiful artistic conception, just like a person who is dreaming of spring, he is unwilling to wake up.

To be honest, I really have a lot of such thoughts, at first I was rushing to get married, so I wanted to have a romantic relationship. I hope that after meeting the right person, I will fall in love with him for a few years, and then we will enter the palace of marriage together, have two children, have a warm and perfect little home, and work hard as a family to live a good life, what a happy picture it is. This image has been in my mind for a long time.

But after talking about love for several years, I will find that I really don't want to get married now, because I think it's good to live like this, if I get married, it will inevitably change the way we get along now, because it will not be the life of two people in the future, there may be a little more children, and the participation of the elderly on both sides. Surely we will not live as freely as we used to, many things will be forced to change, in the past, my lover may only have me in his eyes, but after having children, the elderly, and a family, he may focus on them.

And I think having children and having a family is a terrible thing, which means that we have to take on more responsibilities, but I don't think I can take on so many responsibilities now, so I don't dare to get married. I don't know if that means I don't want to be with my lover and continue our relationship with him, but I think I still love him a lot. I also want to be able to stay with him and I don't want to be separated, but I really don't want to get married.

I don't know why I think this way, and I don't know if anyone thinks the same way I do. Everyone's thoughts on marriage and love are different, if you have other hearts, we can talk about it, see what kind of mentality I have, although I see others sometimes a happy family, I will be very envious, but really let me choose, I really feel a little scary, I don't want to face it.

I have that idea too. At the same time, because of the pressure of work or life, there is not enough material foundation to enter into marriage.

In the concept of the older generation, everyone needs to start a family and have children, and marriage is a necessary stage in life. But young people in modern society are more individualistic. Rather than entering married life in their twenties, they are more concerned about realizing their personal value and eager to pursue freedom and personal space.

Including myself, I will think more about getting married. Therefore, it is not uncommon for people who do not want to get married and just want to fall in love, and there is no need to worry about it. If you don't have a suitable partner, or you don't have enough trust in each other's feelings, don't get married in a hurry, so as not to regret regrets.

Second, young people have a lot of pressure in their work and life

The confirmation of a romantic relationship only requires the same heart. Marriage is not so simple, in addition to love, it also includes more sense of responsibility, sufficient material conditions and so on. Modern young people are generally under great pressure to live and work, and they are not willing to rush into married life before they earn enough money to ensure their quality of life, or they are psychologically ready for marriage.

Because after marriage, you need to take on the burden of a family, for most young people, they don't have that ability for the time being, and they are not willing to let themselves go into an unknown predicament.

All in all, whether it is for personal future planning, the pressure of life and work, or other reasons that cause everyone to have no plans to get married, it is not something that needs to be overly anxious. The most important thing is to have a personal idea, know your own needs, and not blindly follow the herd. Marriage has a different value and meaning for everyone, just choose according to your own wishes.

I have such thoughts, because after a long time, I will be very hesitant, feel that this relationship is not particularly unreal, and I will face a lot of problems after getting married.

I don't, you guys have been too long, all the enthusiasm and feelings have been consumed, so the enthusiasm for marriage has declined, two people have a good talk and solve the problem in time, otherwise it will be very bad for both parties.