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Parents because of tradition, character, experience, education level are different, reflected in the attitude towards children are naturally different, as for strictness or care, just the focus and method of expression is different, strict does not mean not caring, care may also become doting. There is a degree to everything, and if it is exceeded, it will deteriorate.

What kind of attitude should parents use towards their children? Most parents feel very confused, and use a good attitude to educate their children, so that children do not realize the importance of this matter. However, if you treat your child in a bad way, it is likely to cause your child to be harmed.

After doing something wrong, parents should not be too excited, do not be irritable and explosive, treat the child with a peaceful mind, and tell the child that this thing is wrong, what should you do? If we always treat our children in a very irritable way, it may cause them to become a very irritable person, and the child will become irritable and explosive. It may be the same for other children and teachers to deal with things with a peaceful mind, which can also make children more rational.

Although we often say that rational people are very scary, we have to admit that rational people really have a lot of opportunities.

In the face of children's mistakes, we have to tell children that if you don't want your parents to be angry, you should take the initiative to correct this mistake, and you should also realize that your mistakes are in? In fact, many children know their mistakes, but after accidentally making mistakes, they are afraid that their parents will blame them, so they will choose to escape. At this time, we can tell our children that if we are brave enough to admit our mistakes, we can be forgiven by our parents.

When a child makes a mistake, we should be glad if the child can take the initiative to change and apologize to the parents.

What kind of attitude should be used to treat children, mainly depending on what kind of mistakes the child makes? If children are usually very well-behaved, then there is no need for us to treat children with a black face all the time. But if the child does something wrong, then we should let the child know the seriousness of the matter, but do not do anything harmful to the child.

Parents should treat their children with a caring attitude, because many times parents need to think from the perspective of their children, so that they can make their children more excellent.

Children should be treated with a praising attitude, because children are especially eager for their parents' encouragement, as long as parents can have an appreciative attitude towards their children, they will also make children happy to learn.

Parents should treat their children with respect, parents should respect their children's growth and development, never force their children to do something, be sure to understand their children's true thoughts, and do not put too much pressure on their children.

Over-protection, of course.

This behavior is not conducive to the child's interaction with others, and interpersonal relationships will be damaged. Parents have been over-caring for a long time, and the child regards him as a habit and takes it for granted to be cared for, which will make the child appear self-centered and have many problems in the process of interacting with others in the future. For example, always denying other people's opinions, you must let others follow your own opinions, and you don't know how to respect others.

Once someone meets his demands, this self-centered mindset will keep him from extricating himself!

And everything can not be completely obedient to him, if you meet someone who does not agree with his ideas, his heart will be greatly impacted, and his emotions will become uncontrollable, when all the people around him do not agree with him, he will doubt himself, unable to adapt to the surrounding environment, blindly choose to escape, instead of trying to find a way to solve the problem. When the difficulty of living expenses comes head-on, he will lose himself because he can't face it, and even go to the point of no return in life! The child is unable to take care of himself and is unable to be independent.

I often see that some children have already entered the first grade, and they can't even go to the toilet, and often some small things in life will stump these children, and some children even go to college, and they can't even wash their own clothes, which is really ashamed. Because parents were overly cared for when they were young, they didn't let their children do their own things, and parents helped their children do anything! When the child grows up and leaves the parents, he becomes a "waste person".

Children who have been overly cared for do not know how to be grateful. Excessive care will make children feel that this is a matter of course, and will feel that this is what parents should do, in turn, children will not understand the hard work of parents, and once they encounter unsatisfactory rough preparations, they will blame the head of the family Zen file, such things we often see on TV or on the Internet!

As a parent, you should give up the parenting concept of "over-care" and let go to love your children! Let children grow up physically and mentally healthy!

There are many reasons why parents are particularly concerned about their children during their childhood, probably because children are more dependent on their parents' care and attention in the early stages of development. At this stage, it is very important for the child to be accompanied and supported by the parents, and the parents usually spend more time and energy to meet the needs of the child.

However, Liang Chen, as the children grew older, they gradually showed more independence and autonomy. They begin to explore the world, build friendships with their peers, and learn new skills and knowledge. During this process, children may crave more freedom and independent space, and they may seek their own interests and hobbies.

Some parents may misunderstand their child's positive behavior, believing that their child no longer needs their care and support, and will show indifference when their child grows up. In addition, some parents may be occupied by work, career pressures, or other family matters, causing them to not be able to spend enough time with their children.

However, even though the child has grown up, parental care and support are still very important. Try to establish good lines of communication with your child, understand their needs and interests, and give them appropriate support and guidance, which is essential for your child's growth and development.

Do you think your children will not need your care and support when they grow up? However, this is not the case! As children grow, parents' concerns will also change, and many parents tend to ignore their children's emotional needs and difficulties.

So,How can we make sure that our children grow up healthy?

Parents wantPay more attention to your child's inner emotions and needsto give appropriate care and support to help the child build a healthy childRelationships and self-confidence。Don't feel like your child doesn't need you anymore just because they're older, parental care should be long-lasting.

At the same time, Cong Youlu should also pay attention to the actual situation and age of the child, do not interfere too much in the child's life and learning, and give the child appropriate freedom and space, so that they can learn to be self-reliant.

Parental care never goes out of style

The child does not grow up according to the expectations of the parents;

Parents have trouble working and living;

The parents had other children.

That's because after we became parents, I realized that it was not easy for parents.

When we were children, we always felt that our parents were too strict with our education and demanded too much money, but when we became parents ourselves, we realized that it was because we loved our children, so we would be more demanding and strict with them. I just hope that my children will be able to go further in the future and live a better life more freely, so parents will be strict with them.

Parents always love their children and don't want her to follow in our footsteps, so they will ask their children to study hard when they are young.

Parents are people who have come to understand the hardships of life and the difficulty of life, so they will be demanding on their children, and they hope that they can become talents as soon as possible, and they will not be ashamed to live a lifetime, and they do not want their children to follow their own old paths and regret them in the future.