A closer approach in terms of feelings?? Give some advice

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, don't make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Come to think of it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), and goodwill needs to be achieved with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity you want to develop further.

Think about it from the perspective of a girl: If you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure. If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you?

So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you're basically going to be stuffed back right away.

2. Start with a low profile.

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", originally an "ordinary friend", you want to be a "good friend", and if you have taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you If you don't chase her, how can you refuse you?!

This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don't be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be open, don't pester people all day long, whoever treats you like this, you will also get tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is the eight words "hot and cold, want to catch and indulge" (this is the result of many years of hard work by my classmates).

You pester people all day long and naturally don't think you're good, if you are properly cold for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits you are in.

Also, don't come up with the ambition of "you don't marry", it's too cheap, and sometimes you can play some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you're chasing someone else", and you need to get a chance to get close to girls, and that's when it's up to you to be creative.

You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait for the rabbit into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place, and if you really can't do it, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don't be careful: It's rude to give gifts to others.

Some people chase girls and like to often buy things to give away, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "no merit is not punished", if you give something to others like this, you are exerting pressure, and people will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back, and if they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask the girls to spend together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or find an expensive place to play together, and the girls can naturally see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together instead of being turned into something to take home.

Be realistic.

You can just be more straightforward. Are there any gatherings or anything like that?

Or you ask her if she's available.

In fact, which girl doesn't want to be asked out by a boy. What's more, your premise is.

The relationship is already good.

It's up to you to take it further.

Let's eat. The most cheesy. But it's still the most effective way to play.

Care more about each other, consider more from each other's point of view, and give each other more security, trust and respect.

If you want to make the relationship go further in the relationship, you should pay attention to some details. Two people can set up some romantic dates to enhance their relationship through such an atmosphere.

You need to think from the other person's point of view, you need to give each other a certain sense of space, and you need to create some romance and surprises in your life.