Is it really okay to give up on the relationship for four years?

Personally, I think that since you will have someone else in your heart, I think you are just a kind of spiritual sustenance to your current boyfriend, and you are just used to having someone by your side, because after a long time, the so-called love has also become family affection. If you can fall in love with someone else, it means that you don't love your boyfriend at all now, and your current boyfriend already feels it, so why be together? If you don't have each other, it's a waste of everyone's time, and if the relationship fades, you will break up sooner or later, you have to be realistic.

Even if you can't let go of the relationship for the past four years, but I think even if you are together, you will definitely regret regretting that you didn't separate at the beginning, the person you fell in love with him didn't love you, you are too unstable, if I don't love you either, you obviously have a partner and still love others, so is it fair to another person? Is it possible that you have not taken care of your own affairs and want others to accept you? If you are really in such a state now, I advise you not to do it alone, it is better to live a good life yourself, you may meet a more suitable one in the future, you are not yet 24 years old to talk about feelings too early, you get your career up first, it is important to think about something else, it is better to believe in a man than to believe in yourself, and you have to work hard if you believe in yourself.

I'm a little bit unpleasant, but it's all true.

It's been 4 years ·· Sometimes feelings can be really selfish when you get serious, I think if you've ever been crazy, he's kind to you from the bottom of your heart, then you'll regret leaving... Because 4 years is really not only about love! There will be family affection, and romantic love will fade over time, and we don't have that much time to create romance! Even if the person you like likes you, so what?

Is he better than your boyfriend? If you're a realistic girl, then I don't have anything to say, just choose someone who you think is worthy of TOEFL.

I said, feelings are not responsibility. If you really don't like it, you can't drag it out.

Try to give up if you really don't feel for him.

Or wait a while to see if falling in love with someone else is an impulse. If the relationship is getting weaker and weaker for a long time, just let it go.

Even if it is painful, it is better than love without feelings.

The people you love and the people who love you... A problem for the ages... Since people don't love you, then give up. Why bother to find hardships by yourself... Let's choose a boyfriend. He's been nice to you, right? It would be better to choose this kind of person.

Now the key is to find someone who loves you in order to be happy! Oh, you don't hate your current boyfriend, sometimes distance doesn't produce beauty, oh, if I'm a boyfriend, I'll come to you, it's better to say it in person than 100 **! Take advantage of it, or you should go to your boyfriend's side.

Life is like this, there is always a certain gap between what loves you and what you love, I hope you can make a decision in a short time and don't let yourself be in a panic all the time....

Doesn't a woman want to have someone who feels sorry for herself If the person you love now won't feel sorry for you, how do you know that it's love You just like the feeling of loving someone.

But you can't ride a donkey to find a horse, that's not good.

A three-year relationship should be able to let go.

First, the initial pain and sadness may gradually diminish over time. Time can help people gradually accept and adjust to lost feelings and eventually let go. Second, after a long relationship, people may learn a lot about themselves and their relationships through this experience.

This growth and learning can help people better understand their needs and values, making it easier to let go of past feelings. Finally, communication and support with friends, family, or professionals can help people process and release their emotions. Their understanding and encouragement can help people to face lost feelings more slowly and let go gradually.

The practices to maintain a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship are:

1. Communication: Maintaining good communication is the most important point in a relationship. Listen to each other, express your feelings and needs, and respect each other's opinions and perspectives.

2. Mutual respect: Respect each other's personal space, values and decisions. Avoid criticism, accusations, and arguments, and instead treat each other with respect and understanding.

3. Support: Provide support and understanding when the other person needs help or encouragement. Pursue goals together and support each other's dreams and efforts.

4. Common interests: develop common interests and hobbies, participate in activities together, and enhance the intimacy and emotional connection between each other. <>

The three-year relationship can actually be let go, but when the two have just separated, they will be very sad and very sad, but time is the best antidote.

But it's not easy to let go of the three-year relationship, but if the two are not particularly happy in the past three years, but have more quarrels, then they should also let go, and then choose a new object, and when they enter a new relationship, they can naturally let go.

Benefits of letting go of feelings:

You can calmly accept new feelings, many people can't let go of the person in their hearts, so they can't have a new life and new feelings. I always think that I can't love anymore, and I don't believe in love anymore. In fact, it is not difficult to find that it was just an impulsive idea.

So understand that in fact, letting go of the past and forgetting a person can make us start again, live harder, love ourselves more, and love the people around us more. And this is the most beautiful feedback that a relationship brings to us, and this is also the best growth of ourselves. <>