Tell me about your relationship with your college classmates.

I was in college, in the eighties. It's been 30 years. At that time, they exchanged hearts with each other and talked about everything.

In addition to reading books at night, it is to talk. One person, one story, turns. Whoever can't say, go buy buns.

There are eight roommates, and they are in a row. Brothers are commensurate. My sixth brother and I had loose mouths, meat and vegetarian matching, and laughter continued.

There is only one younger brother, who seems depressed because his parents are divorced. Alone, sitting and reading, talking to people less.

The relationship is very good, and I think college was the happiest time I had during my school years, so I am grateful for meeting them. Our friendship is for a lifetime. I really want to get together, I really want to go back to my college days, I miss them very much.

In fact, the college roommate relationship, to a certain extent, also depends on luck, bad luck, 6 people in a room meet 5 two hundred and five, even if you do your best, it is difficult to improve the roommate relationship. University interpersonal relationships are not limited to the dormitory, not limited to the class, and not limited to the school.

The university is okay, with mixed dormitories, one dormitory with two girls, one in Hulunbuir, and one in Chongqing. Although I am a man, I have never felt embarrassed, and I have never thought anything wrong. It's hard to get the kind of pure friendship that college has to do with me.

It's not so pure, it's a little complicated, I also have such a roommate around me, I always forget to owe money to others, but if you owe him money a little later, he remembers it very clearly, it's weird, selective amnesia ah this is, speechless.

We had a great time in my college. Needless to say, I have a good relationship with my roommates, but they all come from different places. In the past four years, we have had a little quarrel with each other.

Work and rest with your roommates. This is difficult for most people, but you should also try to be consistent with most people and not disrupt the routine of the dormitory.

The freshman year is like a sister, the sophomore year becomes a takeaway brother who helps them bring food, the junior year becomes a nodding friend who gets up, and the senior year goes to the east and there is no contact.

Eight of us in the dormitory are too good to be good. It's all very easy to get along with, and everyone has some minor problems, so it's good to be considerate of each other.

I have a good relationship with most of my classmates.

Have a few friends, have a few good friends, have a few friends who are willing to help, have a few friends who are willing to give you a real smile, and a few friends who occasionally "trouble" you.

How to build a good relationship with classmates in college. First of all, we have to know that after entering the university, getting along with classmates is equivalent to a small social circle, some people will be very familiar, but some people will be very unfamiliar, even if they are classmates, they may not have much intersection in four years, and they may not even be able to name them, which is a very normal thing. In terms of integrating into university life and interpersonal relationships, you must manage it with your heart.

Here are a few things I think need to be aware of.

First, treat others with sincerity, honesty and trustworthiness. When dealing with people, don't always have a jealous and guessing attitude. It's a long time in school, and a lot of times, we need help from our classmates, so when you are sincere with others, others can feel it, and most of them will treat you sincerely.

If you promise someone something, you will do your best.

Second, don't be greedy for small gains. It is always said that greed for small and cheap and big loss is always said. When getting along with friends and classmates, don't be overly careful, sometimes you do a little more than others, or others do a little more than you, this is a very normal thing, and everything is calculated and then implemented.

As a student, it is still more sunny on campus, which is more conducive to self-improvement, rather than thinking about getting benefits from others every day.

Third, have good living habits. This is especially important when getting along with roommates in the dormitory. After entering the university, the dormitory is like your own small home, but you live with classmates, so you must pay attention to personal hygiene and your own living habits, not to mention correcting your bad places, try not to affect others, and do not trouble others, so as to ensure that you live in a warm environment.

Fourth, make friends selectively. This is the most important point in my opinion, at the same time, selectivity here does not refer to the selection of people, but refers to through getting along with a certain person, if you feel like-minded, then manage this friendship with your heart, and there are some completely different from your living habits, three views, etc., then there is no need to echo or even change yourself.

There are many ways to have a good relationship with your classmates, and you can also slowly experience it through making friends yourself, and I hope everyone can get along happily and have a rich university life!

First, treat others with respect at all times. Learning to respect others is the foundation of our relationship with others, and it is also the first step for us to be able to get closer to others. Learn to respect others, enter the university for the first time, everyone is a new face, everyone comes from all over the world.

Everyone's living habits are different and they have their own preferences, if we don't understand some of the behaviors of others, don't take the initiative to object, what may be incomprehensible to us is a commonplace little thing for others. Whether we want to have a good relationship with our classmates or not, we must always respect others, which is the most basic etiquette for socializing with others.

Second, learn to care for others. Everyone has left the cradle of the family and come to a completely unfamiliar new environment to study and live, and they must learn to take care of themselves. Under such conditions, if we want to have a good relationship with other students and make good friends, we must learn to observe carefully, be a person who can take care of others, and be considerate.

When a classmate is sick or misses his hometown and needs the attention of others, we can be by his side to help him relieve his mood and lend a helping hand when he needs it most. In his heart, I am a person worthy of trust. Naturally, our relationship will be good, and we will become good friends.

Third, participate in more group activities. If we want to have a good relationship with our classmates, we must have the opportunity to have more contact and more feelings. It is difficult for college students to have assemblies except during classes, so we need to participate in group activities, such as sports meetings organized by the school, or volunteer activities for college students.

When we participate in more group activities, we have the opportunity to meet like-minded classmates and have a chance to get to know each other. This is an opportunity for us to have a good relationship with our classmates. Communicate more and communicate more, and you can gain different friendships in every group activity.

1. Remember to smile. In college, it is of course important to have a good relationship with your classmates, and a good social circle can give you high-quality motivation to study and maintain a calm mood. First of all, it is important to smile at them, not to put on a straight face, so that you can receive a response.

2. Be tolerant. Tolerance is not to agree to be polite to everything, but to be tolerant of the contradictions in the small things in life, such as accidentally kicking down your boots, losing the borrowed pen, making a little loud noise when playing with your family, etc., these things don't have to be particularly entangled, of course, continue to challenge your bottom line, you also have to be brave to say no

3. You can play games together, find some common topics, and even go out together on weekends, etc., there are many people in the university who deliberately go alone, this may be their way of life, some things you don't understand, let him go with the wind, and don't deliberately do a good job in classmate relations, this kind of thing still depends on the sky, everything goes naturally.

In fact, this is not only a problem for college students, but also for our connections in life and work.

First, to have a good relationship with classmates is to make more friends, we should make friends at the same time to improve themselves, as the saying goes, close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black, the more high-quality yourself will be able to make better friends, therefore, the first step to a good relationship with classmates should be to improve yourself, only you yourself are valuable others are willing to make friends with you.

2. How do we take the first step with our classmates? Be sure to take the initiative, only the initiative has a story. You can do more influential things, such as competing for class president, league secretary, and organizing class team building, preparing gifts for students on holidays, and doing a good job of human care.

Or you can join more clubs, and people in the same circle have common interests and hobbies, so they can talk together.

3. Finally, treating people sincerely and being kind to others is always the first thing to get along with classmates and friends, and self-confidence is also a necessary condition for breaking the ice with classmates.

Compare your heart to your heart, be more tolerant, understand more, and help others more.

A friend of mine who has a very good relationship is very popular, so let's call her x here. We met in club activities, X knows a lot of people in and out of school, and the people she knows have a good evaluation of her, "outgoing, enthusiastic, enthusiastic, capable, etc." ”

Let's talk about a few things that stand out to me.

Once, we did a "big homework" of the club together, X was the group leader, and one of the students had a very casual attitude and was not very active, until the day before the deadline, that the student sent the part he was responsible for to X, and that part was almost not required to make up the number of words and stroke. Then X stayed up until three o'clock to help his classmates finish the correction, and then handed it in before the deadline, X was still sick in those days, and X was still a cadre of the student union and had other jobs.

I was so angry that there was such an irresponsible classmate in the group, and I even wanted to directly accuse him of such behavior in front of everyone in the group.

I complained to X, and then X told me, and I realized that out of the 8 people in the group, almost all of the parts that were not up to the requirements were not met, and she almost changed them all over again.

Relax and help others.

Maybe that's fine.

But don't go without a bottom line (not talking about x) to help people who don't deserve help, good luck!

In fact, it is mainly based on their own needs.

The need here may be a little mean, but it's not literal. We have just arrived at the university, and we are basically facing new faces, and getting along with your classmates is important, but don't worry, because time will let you see the people and groups you really want to meet, and what you think is real. In the beginning, the roommate may be the closest person, but that doesn't mean we have to hang out with the roommates, and after a short period of time, we will find ourselves not wanting to continue, and sometimes we may be at an impasse and uncomfortable for a while.

It takes time to find out what kind of people we are and what kind of people we want to get along with.

Personally, I think that one of the saddest moments I have encountered in college is the moment of separation after graduation. After studying and living with my roommates for four years, we went to class together, went to self-study together, went to dinner together, played sports together, and played together, and had a deep relationship. Some of the students cried a lot when they were separated, which is still fresh in people's memories.

College is not as good as junior high school and high school, and at that time we will definitely know our classmates. We live in a group, work in a classroom every day, and come into contact with that group of people every day. And for such a long time, we will always know each other.

But knowing these people doesn't mean that we will get acquainted with them, everyone still has their own games. Because of the difference in personality, there is a deviation in ability. Therefore, introverts are often silently in the corner to be a quiet beautiful man.

For those who have a warm and cheerful personality, he may know all the people in the class, but there are only a few really good friends.

But when we get to college, it's different, because we only choose people who can play with them, and we don't even say hello to those who can't. Therefore, the relationship during college is a kind of spontaneous finding, and this kind of feeling will be more profound.

Some people may not even be able to name all the classmates in college, only know the ones in their dormitory and those who are more familiar with the class leaders, and they can't figure out who the others are.

Because college is not as close as in high school, there will be no special roll call, nor will there be a discussion of so-called knowledge points, but only those friends who have similar interests.

The relationship between college roommates is very important. After we entered the university, apart from talking about boyfriends and girlfriends, I felt that the most intimate and longest-staying roommate was my roommate, and as a college student, I really felt it.

In college, in addition to the dormitory, I go to the cafeteria to eat, go to the classroom, and sometimes I want to go out on weekends with my roommates. For example, from the time I first entered college to my junior year, I spent most of my time with my roommates at school. Because college life is not as liberal as high school.

So, I think the relationship between college roommates is very important, but there will always be a situation where there is a disharmony in the dormitory, and I have experienced similar examples. In fact, each person's thinking or way of doing things is different.

It is inevitable that there will be a little contradiction or friction in ordinary life, but in this case, we should communicate in a timely manner, think about the other party's bigger ideas, be able to be impatient, think about the problem from a different angle, and look at others with a relaxed attitude, so that some contradictions may be avoided, so as to make the relationship between roommates more harmonious.