What is it like to love to reach the seven year itch?

Personally, I feel that the seven-year itch is unavoidable for people within the walls, and it is just heavy or light. If a family wants to go on for a long time, it needs more art of getting along with husband and wife, more understanding, more tolerance, and more responsibility, regardless of men and women! I hope you all have a good time through the seven-year itch!

Hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son! is a plain sentence, but it expresses the true meaning of preserving love. I love you, so I would like to treat every year we have together as the year of our first acquaintance, so that we can always remember the throbbing of love at first sight and the happiness of countless firsts; I love you, so make every day we spend together as if it were the last, so that I can love you with all my strength every day until the sea is dry and the earth is desolate.

The seven-year itch is the "ups and downs" of life that every man and woman who has experienced family marriage must experience. This is the "only way" for the long years of life. If you get out of this "bumpy" road, you will really grow up, mature, and know how to face life, look down on the disturbances in life, cherish the "minutes and seconds" in life, and cherish the warm friends you have.

That's because they don't know how to run their own marriage. Marriage requires two people to manage, and there are ways to manage it. The seven-year itch shows that you have not yet settled down, and you must work hard to overcome it.

The freshness and beauty of love and married life are slowly lost, and there are more and more uncomfortable and unhappy places for each other, and there is a significant sense of tiredness about marriage and each other. But if you settle down and enjoy life slowly, you will get a beautiful love. I've been married to my partner for ten years, and I still feel like I'm in love with her.

If you manage love well, every day is fresh, every day is facing a new girl, and the freshness will always exist.

In fact, it is better to say that the seven-year itch is better to enter the run-in period of marriage and the beginning of the two people. Two strangers go from acquaintance to acquaintance, enter marriage after a short period of understanding, and two people in different circumstances live together. Common ground needs to be found, but it won't happen overnight.

It needs to be run in little by little, and if the run-in is good, it will become a family, and if the run-in is not good, they will part ways.

There is a certain truth to the seven-year itch, but the husband and wife should be aware of these situations, always strengthen communication, and always pay attention to each other's understanding and care, mutual trust and understanding, so that they can continue to manage their marriage and family harmoniously.

I'm a failure, I'm not seven years old. At that time, maybe I was so willful when I was weak, thinking that love would be love, and hate would be hate, and when I was young, I wrote with a pen "Old age and death do not get along." Chickens and dogs don't smell each other.

This is probably the most painful part.,Because I always feel that my partner is not what I used to be.,It's getting more and more boring.,But I can't give up for the sake of my family.。

That's just a legend of history, it's itching in a year now. The truth of love is what others say, the people inside want to come out, and the people outside want to go in.

I think that when both husband and wife enter about 7 years of marriage, they should pay attention to each other's emotional exchanges and pay more attention to the quality of marriage!

I haven't experienced it, but I've been entangled with someone for seven years, been together for a year, and waited for him for six years. I thought he would always find out what was good about me and come back when he had had enough, but I kept waiting, and it was indeed his wedding to another person. Love is really hard to come across.

To be able to talk about a seven-year relationship, you must have the following conditions, first of all, you have common interests and hobbies, and the two people who are in love are very young when they establish a relationship, and they can grow together so that they can maintain a longer relationship. The reason why there is a seven-year itch in love is also because as time goes by, each other is too familiar and has no freshness, but if each other has been improving, this can be well avoided.

Falling in love also needs to be approved by both parents, and you can only persevere in the relationship if they give you enough support. Therefore, it is very important to be a good match, and even if the parents of both sides get along very well, it can also drive the relationship between the two families, on the contrary, if one of the families is poor, then they will feel inferior, and they will also instill this psychology into their children, and the other party even if they choose to tolerate, they will also have a sense of superiority from the inside out, and over time, this contrast will gradually increase, and it will also become an obstacle for two people to come together.

The stage of growing up together is the best, because they encourage each other and make progress with each other, but few people can grow up after adulthood, or even after their 30s, so this age must be relatively young, and it is best to be each other's first love, because this beauty has always existed and knows how to cherish it more. In addition, they all have a certain degree of self-motivation, and they spend their minds on striving to improve themselves, and they will not be disturbed by other members of the opposite sex. Of course, the best situation is to have common interests and hobbies, when you do something more happy, you can't help but think of each other, and over time you form an attachment.

For people who are in love, seven years is a very long time, because both parties have never entered the palace of marriage, and have not let this relationship blossom, and there will be a lack of security in their hearts, and many people will lose their upward motivation because of the stability of the relationship, which will also lead to a great reduction in your image in the other half's heart, so don't give up learning at any time.

A good love can always last for a long time, so what kind of love is it that has lasted for seven years? Why is there a "seven-year itch" in love?

1. Trust each other.

If a relationship can last for seven years, it must be that both parties care about each other very much and trust each other, if it is two people who don't trust each other, they will break up long ago after quarreling once or twice, especially for long-distance relationships, it is estimated that many couples are also difficult to accept long-distance relationships, but we have found that long-distance relationships can last for a long time, and there are indeed many examples of marriage. However, the example of being able to live in a long distance and get married for seven years is even more admirable, because the most important thing in a long-distance relationship is trust, which shows the role of trust in couples.

Second, like each other, go both ways.

A seven-year relationship can not be said to have been smooth without quarrels, normal couples are constantly improving and constantly running in a relationship, only really like each other, two-way running is the most beautiful look of the relationship, if it is only a one-sided effort, love can not last long after all, so mutual like each other, take each other seriously is the most important.

The three-year itch is a test.

Love is also facing a lot of tests, after marriage there is a seven-year itch, then falling in love also exists, seven years is not long, not short, officially a stable critical period, experienced the run-in stage to maturity, the process must be full of setbacks and thorns, but this is also a test for couples, from the hot love period to the stable period, and then to the normal period, it is difficult for many couples to get used to each other, and even have the idea of not wanting to get married, unlike the kind of people who have been talking about marriage for a year or two, Their hearts are full of more hesitation and doubts, more cautious, but once they choose to get married, then the whole life is each other, so the seven-year itch is because of this reason, many uncertain factors are full of emotional parties, but also a test for each other, the emotional two sides can only cherish each other and give each other a sense of security in order to go to the end and meet a happy tomorrow.

This makes the relationship more durable. The seven-year itch is because in the long-distance love run, many people can't last that long, and it's not new to get acquainted with each other.

If you can talk about a seven-year relationship, you should be together during your studies, and you will work for two or three years after graduating from college, and you will talk about a seven-year relationship when you get married when you are stable.

There is love between middle-aged couples, and in their eyes, such love is more of habit and dependence. When you are together, you feel very down-to-earth, small quarrels are the spice of life, and even sometimes, you don't feel like a husband and wife together, but more like friends. Very tacit.

I once saw such a scene on the street, about a pair of grandfathers, grandmothers, grandfathers playing and singing on the street, grandma dancing exaggeratedly next to them, every time the audience applauded, grandpa would always look at grandma from time to time, his eyes were full of tacit understanding and sweetness as if there were no others, envy others, and the audience stopped a**.

Compared with sometimes seeing a lot of couples arguing on the street, because some trivial things are red-faced, it really can't be less tolerant and considerate than the love of young people compared to the love of middle-aged people. It is said that twilight love, twilight love, manuscript grinding, but who knows that as long as you are middle-aged, you really understand love, it turns out that you need someone who can always accompany you. Some data show that the marriage rate of young people nowadays is far less than the divorce rate, and they are all fast-food love.

Yu Xiuhua's poem writes that I have also had the prime of desire, and I have had many nights of intense body and mind, but I have never exiled myself, I want my heart to be as clean as my body, although so, it is not to see you. Whether you are middle-aged or in the prime of your desires, you are eager for the arrival of love. In middle age, love is more nuclear like an unsweetened American coffee key fight, bitter and worth recalling.

Middle-aged people don't ask for much in love, they pay more attention to personality, interests, temperament, they can talk less, they have fewer choices, and they <>

Middle-aged love is precious, and it is the most sincere and pure love after being polished by time. Compared to family affection. Friendship is the most enviable among other relationships.

Their love has been considered and is trustworthy, and the seven-year itch does not exist in them, it should be called a golden wedding.

This is indeed the case, because after 7 years of marriage, the husband and wife have accumulated a lot of relatively small contradictions, and there is no previous freshness to each other, and they will also feel that married life is particularly depressing.

After 7 years of staying together, there will be a period of exhaustion, when love will be converted into something else.

I think this is a very normal thing, two people will have different emotions after getting along for a long time, and they will feel bored, because the time is too long, there will always be contradictions, and we must know how to resolve and communicate, so as to get through this period.

I think love is more than 7 years of itching, if love is right, people can fall in love for a lifetime.