The relationship between the two for a long time will really break up because of the bride price?

Yes, and the problem is still very serious, there are many couples who fail to get together because of the bride price.

Yes, because many girls feel that if the other party does not pay a bride price, it is disrespectful to themselves, and she will have no status and no right to speak in that family in the future, so she attaches great importance to the issue of bride price.

Yes, after all, this is a real problem that everyone has to face, and many couples have a falling out because of the bride price issue.

I think the relationship between two people will really break up because of the bride price, and many couples finally break up because of the bride price.

I think it will, if the man doesn't give the bride price, the woman will feel that the man doesn't care about herself, but she lacks a sense of ceremony, and if the parents intervene, it is very likely that there will be discord.

Regarding the bride price, I will tell you a fact that you have made up your mind. The two broke up with a bride price, and they were destined not to go together, and they had been in emotional counseling for many years. Because breaking up with the bride price is not a bad thing, as long as you break up in the marriage theory, it is a blessing.

To tell the truth, a friend of mine resolutely opposed the act of accepting gifts before marriage, and when he got married, he should not put gifts, houses, cars, and family members in harmony when he got married, and his mother-in-law praised his daughter-in-law for being really sensible, and her husband was also happy to set up the image of "Our Lady" in the man's house, but after marriage, her mother-in-law advised her husband to pay a salary card and want pure love, but marriage is different.

It can illuminate your true weight in his heart. But if you really don't want anything, he probably won't be grateful. And you'll take it for granted.

So it is not the bride price that destroys your relationship, but the illusion of love. Expect too much from each other. Everyone, many men hold a bride price over there, so high, why not mention the dowry?

Objectively speaking, a man's bride price and a woman's dowry are both start-up funds for building a new family. After all, the money was spent by itself. You think the bride price is too high.

You can ask a woman for the same dowry. People who want a bride price talk about marriage and say that they are not ready to give a direct bride price, what they don't want to give is to look at your flash, don't want a bride price, and the bride price should also be married.

The point is that I am afraid that I don't have any merit and don't want to marry my wife by just relying on ceremony. Do you think that the bride price is a test for your husband and her in-laws, do you think your husband did not score points when he fell in love at what economic level? It can be reasonably considered.

Blindly unwilling to have too many in-laws, there will be many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, and those who have no problems are destined not to say it. Because the affection for money is not destined to last. Both sides are always thinking about their own interests, always thinking about deficits, and they can't go.

If you get married, you will get married, others will do nothing, do not do things that are sorry for others, do not take money and run away, live well, and do not care about gains and losses, you will be happy. Girls don't have to talk about money when they fall in love.

Marriage must be discussed, otherwise you will get married and have children. You will find that love cannot compete with firewood, rice, oil and salt. Medical expenses cannot be reduced.

I think it's okay to get married. Can't be together. Can't be together.

The bride price and the like can only tell stories, break up if it doesn't make sense, don't dwell on this kind of meaningless thing, love yourself a little more. Do you want to continue to talk about the relationship of the breakdown of the bride price? Look at the woman more gifts you can't give me.

It's your right, and if you don't get a gift, I can't marry you. This is not much free money, what is the concept of this money for your family, can collapse because the man does not think that the couple is a family in his heart, but because the man and his mother-in-law are a family, they think that their fiancée is an outsider.

There is no need to go on, because two people can't agree before marriage, and they can't even handle something as simple as the bride price, so there is no need to continue to be together.

Of course, there is no need to go on, because mentioning money is particularly hurtful, and the two have already made such an embarrassing quarrel, even if they continue to be together, they are not as sweet as before.

In fact, it doesn't matter who pays, you can invite friends to dinner, you can also accept friends to treat, you can AA system, you can make a part. As long as everyone can talk, they can have a good time.

However, if you are stiff and fall out because of the problem of paying the bill, is it still necessary to eat this meal?

Marriage is the same, the bride price is not necessary, but it is not the original sin, as long as the two parties can negotiate, how much bride price to give or not to give the bride price is not a question at all, but if the negotiation collapses for money, the marriage is not concluded. Don't argue about right and wrong, there is no right or wrong!

So material continues? Because the end of the money is a stop loss, she doesn't love you she loves money more.

There is no need for this relationship to go any further, because the two of you can't agree on the bride price, and you've already broken up, and even if you barely get back together, the relationship is not as good as it used to be.

There is no need for this relationship to go on, even if it is a marriage after the end of the mistake, because of the bride price, there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage.

We don't know if they will be happy, but what can be seen from this is that these two two people who fell apart because of the bride price should not be happy together, but fortunately they are separated, aren't they.

Why do I say that they will not be happy together, because if it is because the boy thinks that the bride price is too high, for example, the girl only needs to be less than 100,000, and the boy feels that the bride price is too high, and feels that the girl should not ask for the bride price, the love between the two people is so deep, and after talking for so long, at this time the marriage to ask for a bride price is to insult their love, what he thinks is that the girl should not have a penny, and then marry into his family, it is best to bring some dowry, then such a boy may not really love this girl.

Because if he loves a girl, he will understand that a girl wants those bride prices, but because of the procedure, and is this really expensive, not expensive, right, the reason why he is unwilling to pay is just because he feels that the woman he has slept with for a few years is not worth it to spend money to marry back in the end, so he is unwilling to spend money, so he does not love this girl as much as he thinks.

And if a girl knows that the boy has no money, or even if she knows, but she asks for a ** when she asks for a bride price, such as a bride price of hundreds of thousands, do you think this girl loves this boy, she doesn't love it, because if she loves, she knows that there are too many bride prices, and there is no way for this boy to take it out, she is just embarrassing the boy, and it is normal to separate in the end.

In my opinion, those couples who are separated because of the bride price may be because of insufficient love, or maybe because they face reality for the first time, so they will easily fall apart, and people who really love each other, men are afraid of not giving enough to girls, afraid of giving too little to girls, and girls are afraid of wanting too much, and girls are afraid that they want too much, and this will not happen.

Definitely not happy, their marriage is based on money and material. Some parents can sacrifice the happiness of their children for the bride price, for the sake of money.

In the end, their marriage will not be happy, it will become a shadow of their married life, and they will often take it out to talk about things, which will have a great impact on the emotional life of two people.

will not be happy, because this matter will be a thorn in their hearts, and from time to time they will think about it and prick their hearts, affecting the relationship between husband and wife.

I think it should be unhappy, because because because of this incident, the two people have been estranged, so when they are together, they will always quarrel because of this matter.

Because the bride price did not come together, I have to say that it is really materialistic. But life is like this, it all needs to be supported by money, and I believe that this kind of person's marriage is generally okay.

Yes, in the end, it was all solved through communication.

1. In the final analysis, bride price money is a custom, a form, and the money is also for you in the end. But it's not cost-effective to affect the relationship. Communicate calmly, find a way that is satisfactory to both parties, and take a step back.

You don't get married for the bride price, but because you need the bride price because you want to get married, and you can't put the cart before the horse. Because money affects the major event of marriage, isn't it that your relationship can't withstand the polishing of the details of life, how can you live together in the future? You know, there are many problems that can arise in life.

2. Calm down, it should be love to walk together, love to understand each other, take care to do things, as long as money does not look at people, that love, there is love and tolerance, the bride price left by the social atmosphere, there is not much, fight their own ability to look at the bride price, do their best, understand each other and discuss it, tell her that she is not as she wishes now, and she can also honor the elderly after marriage.

3. Communicate more with your family If you are ready to get married, the amount of bride price proposed by your family is relatively high, which makes your boyfriend's family unacceptable, at this time, you can communicate more with your family. You can let your family appropriately reduce the amount of the bride price, or choose other ways to pay the bride price.

4. Find a mutually acceptable plan. For example, if your economic conditions allow, try to meet the woman, and the woman should also understand that the bride price is not the standard for marriage, let alone the standard for measuring love, so you should understand the man, and it is the best within the scope of what he can bear. So take a step back from each other, and the problem is solved.

There is no need to quarrel over this, is it true that feelings are not as important as money? Right.

Since two people have reached the point of talking about marriage, it means that they really want to live with each other, if the other party's bride price is not excessive, I think as long as they show sincerity, they can win back the other party. In ancient times, there was a custom of marrying a bride with three books and six rites, it is difficult for a family to raise a child, and the woman's family wants a bride price, just hoping that the man's family will give a respectful attitude, every parent hopes that their children will live well, and hope that the man will give the woman a bride price, which is just a kind of etiquette, and the parents will also give the bride price to their daughters to marry in the past, so if the bride price given by the woman is not excessive, the bride price needs to be given. It is a kind of etiquette, but also a kind of respect and attention.

This situation cannot be generalized. Since the rejuvenating sparrow broke up because of the bride price, they can only find their own partners. The man will definitely not regret it, because he can't afford it. I regret that I can only miss the early woman, and I feel that I want too much.

Because of the bride price, the relationship between the two families is very stiff, how should this relationship be carried out? Let's break up. It does not mean that the feeling of the bride's ** negotiation breakdown cannot continue.

The point is that after the negotiation about the bride**, if you still care and are willing to pay the bride**. The two sides eventually reached a Cold War stalemate. You can find a relative or friend to act as an intermediary for mediation.

If you get to know each other through blind dates, you can also facilitate this by communicating with the feeler. Have you ever heard of a couple leaving because of a wedding gift? In fact.

In real life, when it comes to marriage, it's hard to talk about the bride's. If you talk about it, it must mean that both parties are satisfied. This opportunity will be even better.

If both parties are not satisfied, then there will definitely be some dispute between the two people, and if it is for the bride's **, can we reconcile? Let's look at today's young people who are free to fall in love first and then get married. If two people have a deep relationship, even if they fall because of the bride's **, as long as they still love each other, they can recover.

If the two are on a blind date and have no emotional basis, then it is unlikely that they will recover after surpassing the bride's **. If you want to restore the relationship, the above practices are all tricks. From a behavioral point of view, you're not pulling the other person closer, you're pushing the other person away.

These behaviors are your instinctive reaction, so you don't look at the cause of the fall. How do we sustain a breakup due to a disagreement with the bride**? Even though the bride's ** embarrassed him, he eventually got married.

But you don't know if there is a sequel in the sequel.

None of Palmer left a behind-the-scenes message saying that her child was a full moon. Before your mother-in-law wants to give up her son, you should first propose to the couple who are ready to get married. If you really feel like you're a good fit for each other, you have to do your best to discuss marital issues.

Because whether the dispute over the bride can be settled depends on the specific cause of the dispute. If both parents disagree, they can do a thought work for their parents, take a step back, and move on to talking about marriage. If they disagree with the bride's ** and don't want to give in to each other, it will be difficult to recover.

in their faces.

Love is not fragile, and what is fragile is not love, what is really fragile is human nature.

The so-called love, is just our wishful thinking to summarize the inner feelings of a concept, in fact, you can't see or touch the existence of love, this is just an inner experience, if you take it as an eternal thing then wrong, in fact, love will change, if life is only as first seen, maybe this is the truth, often the beginning of love is the best, at that time you are willing to give everything for each other, but when you have personally experienced love, Or after you already have the other party, you will find that love is just like this, and you are not willing to pay for each other for free, the most terrible thing is that when you find that the other party is not willing to pay for you, you are even more unwilling to pay for the other party, so at this time there is a relationship of interest and calculation, rather than simple and incomparable trust.

Most of the collision between reality and love, the winner is reality, because reality is the most test of human nature, in front of reality people often think of their own interests, he will stand on his own position to ask the other party, for example, the man will think, since you love me, then why can't you give up the bride price and marry me? And as a woman, she will think, if you really love me, why can't you even give up a little money? Frozen here, since you are all for love, why don't you stand on each other's standpoint, but only consider your own interests from your own standpoint, this is human nature, so many times we are defeated by human nature, not because love is really fragile.

In other words, love needs bread after all, love without bread is unsupportable, without bread you have no face to ask for love, and bread without love seems to be tasteless, and there is always a confusing dance between the two.