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Love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?
Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.
When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something. j
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Look at what people are you! I won't, will you?
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Yes, if it's true love, it's really heartbreaking!
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When everyone is frustrated and wronged, they will desperately think about their own "unfortunate encounters" version, the more you think about the right, the easier it is to spread, and a voice always echoes in your ears "Why are you... To me" "Why can't I ... Why...
These voices are persecuting you and suppressing you! Especially when you are in an extremely low mood, you have the idea of suicide! I feel that there is nothing in the world that I can be attached to, there is no motivation for life, there is no pursuit of life!
It's as if the whole world is dark, and you're standing in this pitch black environment, with only a spotlight shining on you! Everyone will have such a mood, it is not that you have psychological problems, but that your inner fragility has overcome your strength! According to different living environments, different social relationships, and different psychological hints, most people will commit suicide when they are sad, they are not psychologically problematic, but sadness has brought them too much mental pressure!
You're supposed to be a girl, right? Don't worry too much, it's normal to have this kind of thought, and if you think about why you want to die, you'll eventually understand what you're living for! You've thought about how many times you've died, proving that you've actually come back to life a few times!
Die, and just the heart stops beating, the brain is not working! Any kind of thought can prove that a person is dead, and when you continue to live in this world, it proves that you will live forever!
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I also thought about suicide, and one day in the morning, I was going to be late for school
If my father wants me to send me and he doesn't do it, and if I want to go by myself, I will be depressed. Cover your head with a pillow, and when you are almost out of breath, you take the pillow away. I think everyone thinks about death, but aren't we all alive and well now?
Every night my mom would tell me that "when I wake up, I will see the beautiful sun", so let's be happy!!
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This kind of extreme psychology has a little bit of negativity, if you feel too extreme, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.
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If you want to open a little, people are alive, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy?
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Everyone has helpless times, and so do I, but I can't die if I want to, I have 2 lives on my hands, hehe, joke, really, sometimes it's better to live than to die, even if there is no purpose.
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Me too. Life is boring.
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When a person is frustrated, either hurt others or hurt yourself, and you choose the latter. Everyone will be unhappy, everything has two sides, we may sometimes have to learn to try to see the other side of things, in the bad things to find something meaningful for ourselves. People who can't solve the problem and solve it by escaping it, such as wanting to die, there must be many such people in the world, you are not alone, but this method does not solve the problem.
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You're saying this too absolutely-
Not everyone is masochistic when they are sad. Of course, if you take it as masochism to distract yourself from watching TV, playing games, etc., when you're angry, there's no way to do it. When a person is sad, he abuses himself when he is upset, indicating that he needs to punish himself at this moment to make himself remember this lesson, in exchange for the reward of not making similar mistakes next time.
As for crying, he naturally cried because he was sad, and he couldn't solve this problem, so he wanted someone else to help him
Why do people get unlucky? Bad luck is also relative to people, there are some things you think are unlucky, but others don't think they are unlucky, maybe they think they are lucky. As for why you are unlucky, maybe it's because you don't have enough strength-
There are also some unlucky because you bump into it, for example, there is a banana peel on the ground, and you step on it and fall a lot, it's because of the accidental factor
Want to die? Because this person can't find a solution to the problem, and wants to escape the problem. For example, you owe a lot of money to someone, and that amount is astronomical to you, and you can't afford to pay it back anyway, and you want to run away from it, and you think it's useless to run away, so you have to die
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There are several reasons for this.
In many cases, the reality is terrible for people who are sad. Therefore, in order to escape, consciously or unconsciously, death is thought of, because death reminds us of an end, especially of painful ends. (Roughly speaking, this is the reason why many people commit suicide.) )
From some general perspectives, death is negative, negative, and no one can avoid it. From the individual to society as a whole, death is of great, if not terrible, importance. So, when we are in a low mood, we may think of death.
Wait a minute. Of course, there are many personal, more specific reasons for thinking about death. For example, if the father of a child (who has a particularly good relationship) dies, then you can imagine the impact of the concept of death or its embodiment on her. Death and suffering are inseparable.
Of course, this kind of thinking is more negative. Everyone has sad and sad feelings or experiences, but thinking positively is one of the reasons why we should find meaning in our lives and try to transcend our limitations.
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First, it cannot be tolerated, that is, the bearing capacity is low. The second is that you want to use your death to make the person who caused you "sad and sad" "regret". The third is Mingzhi.
Fourth, sadness makes you lose the purpose of your life (this can be a monk, you don't have to die). In short, wanting to die is an unhealthy mind. Water comes to the earth, fire comes to extinguish water.
There must be a way.
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This is the psychology of people at work, the way of mentality to meet life, life is like this, the world is so unfair, life is precious, life is priceless, so casual to give up, you don't cherish yourself, who will cherish you? Only you love yourself, and only your family loves you.
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It is normal that death represents the end of this life and the end of all things, but for thousands of years of reincarnation, this life has to be a human body, unlike animals who only know how to swallow, nor like heaven and man who have no suffering, only human beings can experience pain and have the ability to think about the nature of life, how can such a precious opportunity be easily given up.
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Because when you are sad, you always think that death can solve everything and forget your suffering, but this kind of thinking undoubtedly makes it wrong and irresponsible
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Because you're too young to stand the cruelty of reality. It's good to take it too much.
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You are a manifestation of running away from the problem, feeling that you can't bear the pain, thinking that death can solve all problems, and you are not even afraid of death, what is there to be afraid of?
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Wanting to die is a sign of avoidance, and some things can be faced positively.
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You may be young, immature, or things have been too smooth. In fact, who wouldn't be sad and sad?
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Of course, this kind of thinking is more negative. Everyone has sad and sad feelings or experiences, but thinking positively is one of the reasons why we should find meaning in our lives and try to transcend our limitations.
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Your psychological quality is so poor Think about the war movies you've watched Those who don't want to die after going through the ordeal... And if you don't have a goal in life, if you change it, I'll say, I still have a lot of things to do, I can't die, I can't die...
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Actually, I do this sometimes, but you persevere through the day, and tomorrow you face it in your best state, so that tomorrow you will reap the fruits of that day... The main problem is that the reflection of adolescence ...
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That's something you don't realize you're holding dear thank you.
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The personality is not clear enough. Be happy, there's no chopping that you can't get by.
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It is a manifestation of your cowardice, be sober, face your shortcomings hard, transform them, this is not shameful, do not escape from your heart.
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Don't always think about death, think about the things that were happy and happy before, everyone will have sad and sad times, you can find good friends to talk about, you can read some books that open your mind and stretch your mood.
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You can find a suitable way to vent your sadness, you have to think that there are so many good things in your life, so many responsibilities... Taking a step back, you are not even afraid of death, do you think your life will be lacking in excitement...
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Because you're feeling hopeless, and without despair, you wouldn't want to die, and look at the past.
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Have a tendency to be depressed and need **.
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Because your heart is not strong enough
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Don't be so pessimistic, take a look at something optimistic, and the mindset will slowly change.
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Because you only have yourself in your heart, you don't know how to love others.
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That's because you're thinking to extremes.
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Low self-esteem, loss, emotional intelligence needs to be improved.
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Because you don't dare to face the facts,
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Mental problems ,,, easy to drill the horns,
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Look at the point, think about your family, your parents have worked hard to pull you up.
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Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him. I can't forget it, if you don't love him anymore. will forget and find a way to stop loving him.
Or try not to contact and recall the scene of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!! But if the person you love is the person you love deeply, maybe you have never forgotten him and want to forget someone in your life, maybe it's not so simple to forget someone, you don't want to forget him deliberately, if you deliberately want to forget, then maybe you won't really do it, right? If you want to forget someone, he may have hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your heart open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, this is also inevitable, right time will make you slowly forget If you really love him, you have to spend your whole life to forget, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.
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