What is it like to live in another city for a few years and then go back to the smaller city of your

During the Chinese New Year, I returned to my hometown in Jinan from Wenzhou. Particularly unaccustomed. The bus stops 200 meters away, and the driver drives slowly.

I was very uncomfortable, and I was half an hour late for the appointment with someone. Endless meals. Three or five friends meet for dinner and skewers are often in Wenzhou, but they were stunned on the first day of returning to their hometown.

At the beginning, there were three people, and later, there were more and more people, from the small table to the big table, and I didn't know the last one. And the vast travel is almost a game, and even three or four games a night. In addition to friends, Wenzhou usually meets to talk about things before going to dinner, and nothing starts here.

Although Jinan is the provincial capital, the economic income level is not high, but the comparison has not fallen, young people a month three or four thousand, five or six thousand at every turn is BMW, Mercedes-Benz Cadillac, all supported by their parents. Doing things is too much to keep in the lip service. What many people plan to do when they go back to meet is still an idea this year.

It's people's thoughts, most people think about things that aren't even trivial things every day, and Wenzhou people only have two words in their heads, make money.

Just returned to Changsha, Hunan from Beijing, to be honest, the difference is still quite big, back two weeks have not adapted, I hope to be able to adapt as soon as possible, in fact, Changsha and Beijing are compared, and the housing prices are lower than Beijing, and there is really no comparison with others. You can feel the difference from the moment you get out of the high-speed rail station. Transferred to the subway in Changsha, which was bustling like a vegetable market, crossing the road after the subway, and pedestrians did not look at the traffic lights.

Then the salary in Changsha is really low, four or five thousand are considered high technical salaries, of course, if you climb to the management, it will still be 10,000. I started looking for a job this week, I only have a college diploma, and I have a bachelor's degree after reading the online recruitment, and the company has a bachelor's degree to be a clerk. You have to have experience in everything, and the employment opportunities are really not comparable to those in Beijing, and I can't help but sigh with my friends, I really don't know how people living in Changsha survive with these salaries.

In the past, I didn't think there was anything to buy clothes in the mall, but now I don't dare to spend them casually when I come back, and I don't know when I can find a job that I am satisfied with.

Tell me about my experience. When I went home for the Chinese New Year in 2012, I had been in Beijing for four years. At that time, my father finally settled down.

In the city, there is a 60-square-meter two-bedroom house. When I stepped onto the land of the railway station in Pingdingshan (of course, Pingdingshan in Henan Province may not be eligible for the third-tier cities), a familiar feeling came over me. The memories of living in this land in those years go straight to my heart through the long and thick time.

In those years, it was this train that carried me from the town to the dawn of the town and arrived at the moment when the sun was shining on the earth. Everything here used to be the place I longed for, and it was also the place I used to run around when I was young. At that time, out of the west square of the railway station, walk along the avenue in front of the square (it should not be called this name at that time, it should be called Pingmei Avenue at that time), turn left, enter the railway station comprehensive market, and eat a bowl of fragrant chicken soup rice noodles there.

Or a bowl of fragrant and smooth sour noodles, accompanied by a golden fire with braised vegetables on both sides, is a great treat. ‍‍

I left Guangzhou for 8 years, is back to the native countryside, lived the rural people to go through, married, have children, work, but I am very strong in my bones, after two years of work, began the first entrepreneurial road in my life, do security business, in our relatively asymmetrical information in the small county, I spent 4 years from the initial 20,000 yuan to 500,000, but also earned the first pot of gold in life, but from this year's point of view, Security in our local small county basically has no big development potential, after all, the total population of our county is only about 400,000. I also rebuilt the house in my hometown this year, and I originally planned to buy a house in the county, but after careful consideration, I still cleaned up the house for my family first, and I plan to start my second business with the remaining money. In this half a year, I was helping at home while thinking about my re-entrepreneurship project, in September I went to a few big cities, verified some of the previous ideas, and re-adjusted my mentality, and finally determined the direction of my second business on the plane back, but I may invest a lot in this, and I only have the money to start this project, but I have a shortcoming that is that my self-confidence is too strong, and I will definitely do what I decide to do. Try to regret your money and don't regret it. ‍‍

In Shanghai for more than five years, I arrived at Shanghai Railway Station in a hard seat for 26 hours with 1,200 yuan. only to find out that 1200 can't even afford to rent a house. Staying at a friend's house, fortunately, the location is good, and it also gave me a lot of ideas that I couldn't have imagined.

For example, how to write a resume that will make it easy to get accepted, how to find a reliable job, and so on. I ran for half a month to find my first job, selling design software, running around in various decoration companies every day, because I am a big man in the north, and I don't have much money, I only eat about ten yuan per meal, I haven't eaten enough at noon and night, and I have been doing it for half a month. I have been in business for a year, and I chose to go back to my hometown to start a business, so I went to work in the county town to do catering, and I wanted to have a skill.

Overall, I was fortunate that this experience had a great impact on my later life and work. I also advise many friends to go out and break through, even if it was bitter at the time, but I will not regret it in the future. After coming back, I really feel that the whole person is different, and I may have the experience of working in a big city, and it is easier to find a job, and my thoughts are up, and I have something to talk about in communication, and I feel that I will be more knowledgeable than other friends.

I went to Zhejiang in 10 years and returned to my hometown at the end of 12. Accustomed to the rhythm of life in Shaoxing, Zhejiang: accustomed to the hard-working, conscientious work attitude over there, accustomed to the direct, not vain, tempered way of communication of the people over there, realistic, but also substantial!

But there, I will miss home, I will miss my friends, I will be full of guilt on my mother's birthday, and I can only say a happy greeting. When I get home, my pace of life slows down and my body relaxes.

On the one hand, I felt sad about this strangeness, and on the other hand, I was moved by my father's intention to get some old things that I was familiar with so that I could find the feeling of coming home. Along with the city, what is familiar in memory, remains.

Soon, however, I found that I couldn't interject and continue. ‍‍

At that moment, a familiar and unfamiliar feeling came to my heart. When the taxi arrived at the community, that was the first time I saw the community. Everything is so foreign.

Strange places, strange people, strange buildings. Then when I saw my father waiting at the door to take me home, I felt a sense of familiarity in my heart. Stepping into the house, the new, beautiful and unfamiliar room was covered with the sheets I used when I went to school and the pillows I used when I worked in Nanyang.

There are even old clothes that I left at home when I left Nanyang. A feeling of familiarity mixed with strangeness alternately appeared in the heart. It's a hard emotion to put into words.

I will feel very nostalgic, familiar and unfamiliar, and after a long time, I will feel a little uncomfortable.

After living in Zhengzhou for a few years, and then returning to his hometown of a small county, I feel that there is not so much pressure, and life seems to be more comfortable, but there will also be some unwillingness.

They can eat and drink in their hometown without worrying about it, and they don't have to pay rent.

I think that life after returning home is very nourishing, because they work hard in the big city and accumulate enough capital, which allows them to live comfortably in their hometown.

Those who have been working in big cities for more than ten years may not adapt to their hometown at first, and they will gradually get bored, because the pace of life in big cities is fast, and the pace of life in rural areas is very slow, and it is difficult for them to accept.

If you are accustomed to the big city, when you return to your hometown, you will feel that the pace of life has slowed down, and you will feel very comfortable. There is not so much pressure, and the body and mind are more comfortable.

Many young people are often lonely in big cities. Rent a bachelor apartment and live alone. In order to save money and cook at home, I want to treat myself to cooking two or three dishes at each meal, but there is always some leftover.

When I was sick, I went to the hospital alone to see a doctor and get medicine, and no one could help me check when I bought clothes, so I listened to the clerk and said against my will that this one looks good, this one suits you, and this one is not bad.

If you are working abroad, the feeling is even more profound. Imagine that before the Chinese New Year, you still talk to others in English about work. On the plane, you watch the smiling service of the beautiful flight attendant and rejoice that you have eaten a delicious in-flight meal.

When you return to the small county town in your hometown, you find that your family has already sent someone to pick you up on an electric car. When you say hello, your first reaction is not English or Mandarin, but a native dialect that you haven't spoken in a long time. You thought you had forgotten the language, but it still smelled like that when you opened your mouth.

It seems that through this hometown dialect, your time is pulled back to the time it used to be. After returning to his hometown, the whole family was happy. At the dinner table, you talked about a bunch of non-nutritious topics, but everyone was happy, as if they were happy once a year.

Some people are outside with unlimited scenery, and some people are still struggling and struggling in big cities. Every time they return to their hometown and see their parents getting older, they always put themselves under a lot of pressure. The dilapidated old hometown, every place will make you want to cry.

The parents are still so simple and simple, and even so hard. You want to tell them to stop working, and go with you to the big city to take them to retire and take them to travel all over the country. But the balance in the bank card makes you unqualified to say these words.

In big cities, everyone has their own things, and there are very few true friends you can make. It looks like a bustling city, but few people really seem to care, but you experience the freedom of not having your parents around. When you go back to your hometown, your parents will discuss with you about parental reasoning, no matter how old you are, you still have to discipline you, these things make you feel annoying.

In the big city, facing endless challenges, all day is a life of sorrow. From the affairs of the company to the washing and washing at home, I have to do it myself, and I am very busy every day, and time flies quickly. When I was in my hometown, my parents did a lot of things for me.

Because they rarely see each other throughout the year, the parents are very happy, so they are also sympathetic to the hard work of their children and are reluctant to let them do the housework.

It doesn't matter how busy and tired you are out and about, or how beautiful it is in a big city. In the eyes of your parents back home, you will always be a child. When everyone returns to their hometown, they just need to turn themselves into a big child and help their parents with the housework.

Very comfortable.

Big cities are stressful.

A small apartment for two people sharing 3,000 may not be expensive to some people, but it is really a bit stressful for me to be a newcomer to work. And our hometown rents a house, only a few hundred a month, and the space is also large.

So when I go home, I always feel that my money is worth a lot and I feel very comfortable.

I went home for the Chinese New Year this year, my home is in the mountains of Sichuan, and I am really not used to going from Beijing to the mountains.

My hometown feels quite kind, I stayed for half a month and was not irritable, probably since I was ten years old I began to study with my parents in other places, although I have not been in my hometown, but I think that the place where my parents were born is my hometown, and it is normal to feel kind.

I felt quite good when I returned to my hometown last year, at least I have a sense of belonging to the big city, and I think that as long as I have a good mentality, I don't compare myself with others, find a job that is not bad, get married, have children, and start a family before starting a business. Cultivate the ideals you have set, re-establish the path you want to take after running in with reality, and your life will come out of this stumble.

I especially want to accompany my mother in my hometown, but the salary at home is always unsatisfactory, and I like the leisurely and comfortable good time in my hometown, delicious food, and the fast pace of life in the big city.

I just returned to my hometown last month, I didn't feel it, but when I arrived, I found that I really missed here, and the night I first arrived, my uncle and aunt in our village brought me a lot of delicious food, and sure enough, it was from my hometown, and I felt good.

I don't like to come back home, I have lived in Shanghai for so many years, and the greetings from my hometown have become a lot more rusty, many people can't remember, and every time I go back, I am very embarrassed to ask some lukewarm words, or I don't feel good.