How to deal with the dull and tasteless marriage?

From time to time, give each other some surprises and romance, such as buying some gifts for each other, taking them to the park for a walk and talking, or going to entertainment venues to sing and dance. Or go to the restaurant to eat a big meal and chat, only when the mood is comfortable and happy, the life of the two is rich, and the marriage is boring.

Marriage needs to maintain a new feeling, and it is necessary to give each other some unexpected surprises. Tell more humorous jokes to liven up the atmosphere. Marriage requires mutual consideration, mutual understanding, mutual trust, and mutual cherishment.

It is not easy to come together in life, you must cherish each other, and your marriage will be sweet and happy.

It is important to express yourself at all times in marriage, on the one hand, love needs to be expressed, and everyone loves the sweet words of love; On the other hand, if there is a conflict between husband and wife, it is also necessary to solve the problem through communication. Couples should express their true feelings and needs, and build a good model for getting along with couples. In addition, no matter how long they have been married, couples should maintain some intimate contact behaviors, such as kissing and hugging every day, and maintaining the state of being in love to keep the relationship fresh. ‍‍

The two of them hold hands and hug, sit quietly together, reminiscing about your past, looking forward to your future, and you can also start communicating about each other's current work, mood, or children's problems, housework, etc., so that each other can feel that you are a whole and that you are the most important in this family system.

When a new child is born in an ordinary family, it will make a wave in the family. This newborn child will bring you a different life experience. He makes your old form of life disappear and makes you form a new way of life.

This will completely enrich your boring marriage!

The marriage is dull and tasteless, and after a long time, they are tired of each other, and they cycle to work, eat, and sleep all day long. Marriage requires communication between two people, and if there is no communication, the marriage will go wrong.

Birthdays, first acquaintance days, wedding anniversaries, Valentine's Day, every day must pass, create a little surprise every day, and create a little romance from time to time. We often look back on the wonderful chapters of the long and beautiful times, and constantly enhance the unforgettable memories of sweet love. Over time, each other's position in each other's minds will be firm, and there will be a kind of talking and doing things"I love you"of the subconscious.

In the middle of married life, you can have some romance and some surprises, occasionally you can taste red wine, and you can also go on a trip.

If you want to make a dull marriage tasteful, you must communicate more with your partner at ordinary times and give each other a small surprise, so that you can live an interesting life in your ordinary life.

To treat life to have a normal mentality, in addition to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, life should have a sense of ritual.

First of all, we must find a person with a good soul to marry, take care of the relationship between the two original families, have a child, nurture the child well, have enough economic foundation to live a petty bourgeois life, have common hobbies, and have a common life goal.

The best way is for two people to study hard and enrich themselves together, only in this way can a dull marriage become delicious.

Pay attention to the sense of ritual in ordinary life, and give each other some small gifts, so that you can add freshness to the ordinary married life.

My husband and I have been married for two years and have known each other for five years, and although our relationship is dull now, we are really happy. I often buy small gifts for my husband online, and my husband will often create some small surprises for me. After being together for a long time, I found that my husband is getting more and more handsome, so after the two people get married, they must find more advantages in each other, so that the relationship between the two people will get better and better, and the marriage will be delicious.

Many marriages that marry love are bland and boring. But I'm not happy with the status quo, and I can always add a little color to my marriage.

Not everyone's marriage is dull and boring, and every day is just to manage this wealth and oil and salt, and there are housework that can never be done. And men are always busy with work, and when they go home, the husband and wife don't communicate much. Each brewed their own tiredness all day long, and no one refused to save a little more, because no one would buy it.

Over time, marriage is like a glass of boiled water, bland and tasteless, and it can't make any waves.

I'm a woman, so I'm talking about how to change a boring marriage from a woman's point of view.

If you want to change a bland and boring marriage, you must first change yourself. The other party is tired of seeing himself like this, so don't just hand yourself over to housework all day long and be swayed by housework. What a woman needs is a colorful life, not an ordinary marriage.

God created women to decorate the world with you and make it more colorful. Instead of letting you just do the housework and be busy all day long. Therefore, women must dress up more and dress themselves up more beautifully, so that the unchanged self in his eyes becomes more charming and dazzling.

Don't always stick to the rules and choose your own look. You need to change your look a little more to make yourself vivid and varied. That way he would look at himself a few more times.

Then I will embellish your ordinary marriage with more embellishments and do something meaningful for you. Juicy and colorful women are sure to interest him more and more, because the more mysterious a woman is, the more men like it. Therefore, if you change yourself more, your marriage will not become dull.

If you want to change the dull and boring marriage, you must also enrich yourself more. Don't just surround your husband and children all day, they are not all you have. What you need is a more exciting life, don't bury yourself in the siege of marriage, you have to go out and let yourself see the world.

Learn to let yourself go to work, don't think that your husband and children can't live without you, you go out to work, they will still live well, and they won't live too sloppily because they don't have your care. You didn't marry to take care of them. You need to give yourself a little time to go out to work, to learn more new things, and earn more money, so that your status in the family will gradually rise, you will no longer be the woman who only does housework, and you will also earn money to support the family.

You don't have to reach out to your husband and ask for money. In this way, there will be a little more topic of conversation between you and your husband, no longer just children and housework, but also work, when you know a little bit about everything, your husband will also be happy to discuss work with you, so that there will be no topics to talk about between you.

Marriage needs to be managed, so don't be defeated by a bland marriage.

Marriage is light and tasteless, real marriages are very bland, and only in the blandness can you experience true feelings and family affection.

If you feel that the marriage of two people has become bland and tasteless. And the relationship between the two people has become more and more cold, so the two of you should talk about it well. You can travel together to increase the relationship between two people, and only in this way can your love be maintained.

Your husband is both unreasonable and unreasonable on this issue. He is a man, and he should be in charge of the outside affairs, not a woman.

If he says you can't do it, you can tell him to find a competent woman and you can give way.

Generally, there are no issues of principle, do not divorce easily, and if you really can't bear it, you can also choose to divorce.

The pedagogue Makarenko said a classic phrase: "Everything for the child, sacrificing everything, even sacrificing one's own happiness, is the most terrible gift that parents give to their children." ”

In fact, the impact of divorce on the children is limited. Daddy is still Dad, Mom is still Mommy. The reason why many children in single-parent families have problems is mainly because of the lack of love, high-quality love!

Therefore, as long as your care and love for your children remains the same, you can improve the quality of your love even more. I'm sure your current spouse won't be denied love for their children just because they're divorced. If he really doesn't care about the children anymore, it's not because of the divorce, it's because he has a problem in the first place.

For children, the living environment is the most important thing. A family with a bad relationship between husband and wife can have a great negative impact on the child, who will think that the marriage is painful. How much damage will an environment of frequent quarrels, violence, and cold violence have to the child's young mind, it is better to divorce and let the child have a peaceful environment.

You can let your child know that we can be brave enough to say no to an intolerable state of life. We can reject pain and choose our own happiness.