How afraid of wives were men in ancient times? Which dynasty of men was most afraid of their wives?

To say something unexpected to you, men in ancient times were more afraid of their wives than men today. Probably many gay men and lesbians don't understand my words, so I'll talk about it in detail.

In ancient times, the marriage process was the words of the matchmaker, and then there were three books and six ceremonies, and then the man and woman could become officially recognized by the law. And this process of marriage makes the family match the primary condition for men and women to get married. First of all, when men and women reach marriageable age, their parents will ask a matchmaker to say goodbye.

Matchmakers generally classify marriageable men and women according to conditions such as family background matching, family style, the status of men and women in the family, and whether men and women are married for the first time, and then come to the door one by one to say goodbye. After the parents of both parties agree to the marriage, the process of three books and six ceremonies will be held, and then the children of both parties will become husband and wife.

After reading the above paragraph, I think careful friends have already discovered the strangeness. That's right, the first marriage of a man and a woman is also the most important condition for marriage. In ancient times, remarriage of both men and women would be regarded as innocent of family history, which had a great negative impact on the family and the reputation of the family.

Therefore, the first marriage of a man and a woman can require both parties to be a good match, but remarriage can almost only be married and married, to be precise, it is said that the next marriage and the next marriage. Even if the one in the family is a Hedong lion, the men almost dare not divorce their wives. This is very easy to understand, if we are a member of the court and marry the right match.

If we divorce our wives, not only will we offend our wife's mother's family, but our in-laws will become enemies, and we can only marry again, and the new wife's maiden family is very different from our own family, and it will definitely not help our own career. Comparing the two sides, as long as the brain is not broken, the men know how to choose. This is not a simple man who loves his wife and is afraid of his wife, but the real law of real gold ** and real fragrance.

Therefore, it is really difficult to say which dynasty of men is most afraid of their wives. As long as it is a dynasty that pays attention to family and reputation, men are almost afraid of their wives. If you really want to say that you are not afraid, most of them are the kind of men who have nothing.

From the perspective of strength alone, men have an advantage, and there is no such thing as being afraid of their daughters-in-law.

So from a psychological point of view, is a man really afraid of his daughter-in-law in his heart? I don't think so, men should not be afraid of their daughters-in-law in their hearts. Marry a woman you are afraid of, I don't think most men will be so stupid.

So why do people think that men are afraid of their daughters-in-law?

Personally, I think that men who are afraid of their daughters-in-law are not really afraid of their daughters-in-law, but respect their daughters-in-law in their hearts, and are unwilling to worry about their daughters-in-law. In today's society, men care and love women more, and many times, outsiders will think that men are afraid of their daughters-in-law, but in fact, how can the happiness between them be visible to outsiders.

Take me as an example, my daughter-in-law and I are in free love, she is a southern girl, has a small temperament, loves to lose her temper, but I love her very much, we often quarrel because of some trivial things before we get married, but she really rarely bows her head in front of me, every time I reconcile I take the initiative to admit my mistakes, as long as I take her to eat a hot pot there is no contradiction, so I gradually developed a habit, that is, in front of my daughter-in-law always seems to be submissive, others say that I am afraid of my daughter-in-law, But I just want to maintain our relationship. When my daughter-in-law slowly felt that I was "afraid of her", her heart had been captured by me. Later, I got married to my daughter-in-law, and I still love her very much, and I still won't get angry with her in front of outsiders, and if I don't do things well, she will still say that I'm not in front of outsiders.

So even my parents thought I was afraid of my daughter-in-law. In fact, I'm not afraid of her, I just don't want her to be wronged in front of outsiders, after all, I am her only support in my mother-in-law's house, I often compare with my daughter-in-law at home, and sometimes she will apologize to me.

In short, I think most men are not afraid of their daughters-in-law.

I think the vast majority of men are not afraid of their daughters-in-law, but they love their daughters-in-law more, so they are afraid of their daughters-in-law.

The vast majority of men are still very afraid of their daughters-in-law, because daughters-in-law are also for the good of the family, and they will become very nagging, and men will be afraid of their daughters-in-law.

That's because the current daughters-in-law are very strong, in fact, it is also because the current boys want to have a happy family, so there will be such a situation.

No. Although some men say that they seem to be really afraid of their wives, it is because this man loves his wife very much, so he knows how to endure his wife.

Yes, and these people are not really afraid, it can only show that these people like their wives more, and their emotional intelligence is particularly high, and then they also know how to maintain the relationship between two people.

I don't know if you have also discovered that with the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, more and more men are now very afraid of their wives in their lives, but we have found that most of the reasons why men are afraid of their wives are these three reasons, are they really beneficial to marriage?

Anyway, I have seen men all over the world, only Chinese men are most afraid of their wives, our neighbors Japan and South Korea, the family is dominated by men, women can not be presumptuous, Chinese men are afraid of hard in their bones, and it is this kind of character that only a Wu Zetian appeared in ancient China, and there is no denial of women's contributions to society and contributions to the family, just on the facts.

Chinese men are not afraid of their wives, they have a tolerant and generous heart, and tolerate and tolerate their wives for the sake of family harmony, which is also the virtue of traditional Chinese men.

First-class men are afraid of their wives! She was not happy that the whole family was cloudy!

The problem of women's education is also from generation to generation!

It's not fear but love, you're single, right? You'll find out when you get married!

That's not called being afraid of your wife, that's loving your wife

That's not fear, that's love, silly boy.

A man who is afraid of his wife is his wife and cannot understand men.

Yes! In ancient times, the fear of wives was called fear of guilt!

Song Su Shi's poem "Sending Wu Deren and Jian Chen Jichang": "Longqiu monks are also pitiful, talking about empty talk and sleepless nights. Suddenly, I heard the roar of the master of Hedong, and the cane fell into the palm of my hand at a loss. "It's written that my friend Chen Ji is often afraid of his wife. The roar of the lion in Hedong is a metaphor for a jealous wife who makes a lot of noise with her husband.

I think there was also this custom in ancient times, after all, the management method of each family is different, and it should be available in any family, not that only modern people are afraid of their wives, this method has been passed down for many years.

A woman who doesn't listen to herself, a woman who looks down on herself.