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This requires you to calm down and slowly adjust your mentality, you don't lack anything more than others, but what you have more than others. You have more experience than others, which is an experience that trains you to grow, and you will encounter more difficulties in the future, so this is just a small experience. I believe that I will be able to overcome this obstacle.
And you have to encourage yourself more, if you can't get over such a small difficulty, then your life is still far away, and there will be more difficulties waiting for you in the future. With some encouragement, you'll slowly change.
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It is indeed difficult to eliminate the psychological shadow formed since childhood. But you can look at the problem from a different perspective and try to think about it, if you become the father or mother of your child one day, are you willing to let him have an inferiority complex because of your factors? If the answer is no, then from now on, make yourself strong for the sake of the children you will soon meet.
Because sometimes giving love makes people stronger.
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I've been a little like this, but I've always thought to myself: no matter if I can be a little less inferior, I can't raise my child to be an inferiority person. Be harder, be positive, and keep it up
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To tell the truth, there is no way, and if such a person becomes a family in the future, it will also infect this psychology to children, in fact, it is better for such a person not to get married, and not to harm others, well, such a person is me.
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We should interpret our own experience with another attitude, for example, when some disaster movies are rebuilding after the disaster, they often say that "we have experienced bad things, we have lost relatives and children, but this also makes us more united, and we will become stronger after experiencing this", and see the positive aspects. While this does not offset the damage caused by the disaster, it can give us some comfort and hope.
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Yes, my family raised me poorly when I was a child, and then I was more inferior. At this time, it is very helpful to communicate with others to adjust your mindset. The most important thing is to have one or two true friends.
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Enhance self-confidence, test your judgment more, compete boldly, be unyielding, believe that you are a talent, do something stronger than others, and throw the word inferiority to the Pacific Ocean.
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Cultivating a taste for wellness. A healthy taste for life can effectively eliminate inferiority complex, and use leisure time to study a subject. Or learning a skill, or writing a diary, listening to **, practicing calligraphy, or planting grass and raising flowers and pets, etc., are all conducive to eliminating inferiority.
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You must first be self-reliant and work hard: this is the capital that allows you to maintain your independence in the face of the outside world. It's not about anyone, it's not about any background, it's not about any upbringing.
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To improve self-awareness, first explore your strengths, a piece of paper, a pen, write down, your strengths and weaknesses, everyone has. To improve negative perceptions, generally speaking, inferiority complex does not exist at any time, it will always appear in some specific situations, or comparison, or when there are problems in work and life, then, people with low self-esteem usually have such a psychological process, both through denying themselves to trigger inferiority, thus producing a lot of negative emotions. Then, in this process, mindfulness should be trained, both by encouraging oneself to build confidence.
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Secondly, you must face up to the experience of childhood: it is not your fault that your family has changed and you are destitute. Looking back, it must have been very difficult.
The good life is gone, and you have to endure the beating of your parents, you are scared and overwhelmed, but no one can take care of comforting you. But thankfully you came from that time and walked well. Until now, you still dare to look back on the original years, and you have not been frightened by it, and you have not pressed it into the depths of your memory and turned it into a terrifying switch.
So, you're great.
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Read more books to enrich yourself, and one day when you look back, your inferiority complex is ridiculous! You've grown up and matured!
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People who have an imperfect childhood or lack the love of their father and mother are not healthy in their hearts and can only rely on self-regulation.
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Buy more psychological and positive books, read more, and find some ways to reconcile yourself. There must be no problem. This is completely up to me, and no one else can help me.
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Read more chicken blood books, it will change, of course, the three views must be correct, and you can't use arrogance to cover up inferiority.
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Rest to sleep, right one no.
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Does a parent's behavior make a child feel inferior? My answer is yes.
1. Facing the child's physical defects.
1. Inform me from the bottom of my heart that the child is complete and has no physical defects. Whether he grows into a person with or without "physical defects" in the future depends entirely on your gaze and mentality. The problem you have to deal with is not in the child, but in your own heart.
2. Don't care about other people's eyes, people actually have no bad intentions, some people see a little girl with very big eyes, very beautiful, and they will say it casually, which is the same kind of surprise. I am strong and peaceful inside, and no outsider can hurt you and your children.
Second, over-the-top doting.
A child who has been spoiled by fire will find that the world is different from the integrity of his childhood experience when he grows up, and because what he said before was a "holy decree", he will compensate for his loss in other ways, such as not eating well at school, making loud noises, etc., to attract the attention of teachers. Therefore, when the child is young, parents have the obligation to inform the child: what the world really looks like, and you are not omnipotent.
3. Excessive neglect.
Children who are not cared for by their parents when they are young, and who are neglected by the fire, usually grow up with low self-esteem and withdrawn, most of them do not know how to get along with others, and they will not take the initiative to care for others.
In practice, the child is very sensitive, and he can feel the subtleties and whether you can really care for him. Many people, after having children, always sigh that the time that belongs to them is gone, and they are all given to their children, so I want to ask: your time is not yours, whose time is it?
It's just that you treat companionship as a burden. I advise parents to think more about whether their behavior is appropriate when educating their children, and don't let your behavior make your children lose self-confidence, resulting in the psychology that I am inferior to others and have low self-esteem. Don't pay too much attention to your child, especially if you have an inferiority complex. Parents must first do a good job of themselves, and the good work and life of parents themselves is to give their children the best example, that is, the best education!
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Parents often cry poor in front of their children, parents are very busy with work and can't accompany their children, parents often quarrel in front of their children, parents are particularly strong and always morally kidnap children, and they especially like to swear in front of their children, these behaviors will exacerbate children's inferiority complex and make children develop bad habits.
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Parents often beat and scold their children, parents always say that their children are unproductive, always compare their children with other children, like to laugh at children in front of outsiders, and do not respect children's privacy will exacerbate children's inferiority complex.
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Parents often hit their children, parents often scold their children, parents often quarrel, parents often belittle children, and parents often do not accompany their children, all of which will exacerbate children's inferiority complex.
The family often goes out for a walk. Take the kids with you.
Of course, the family environment has a great impact on people's learning, because everyone is born to live in the family, and then grows up to a certain level before going to school. Since I go back to my family after school, I have a lot of impact on the environment at home. Personally, I think that everyone is born blank, and the education and environmental influence in the family will directly affect the values and outlook on life for a long time. >>>More
Parents are the child's first teacher, the influence of the family in the child's enlightenment stage is crucial, living habits, words and deeds more or less have the shadow of the parents, the child is small, imitation is the first nature, the poor family environment is bound to cause the child's personality deformity, which will undoubtedly bring negative energy to the road of growth. Therefore, keep smiling in front of the child as much as possible, encourage more, don't easily deny the child's advantages, don't interfere too much with the child's freedom, in the child's young heart, the sun will be brilliant, and the bad habits will be dark, cultivate the child's ability to distinguish between right and wrong, so that the child from the family must be the best.