What do you do when a person is decadent because of you?

Life is your own, no matter what you do, becoming decadent and giving up on yourself is not the right thing to do. Because no matter how much your emotions diverge, this is a thing that outweighs the loss.

If there is a person who has become decadent because of me, then at the beginning, I should feel more guilty and unable to get over it, then in this case, I will definitely care more about the other person, encourage him and motivate him in various ways, hoping that he can know what he wants and what he should do, and then find his goals and ideas as soon as possible, and put effort and action into them. But if he continues to be like that for a long time, self-decadent and self-tormented, I may lose patience and become estranged from such a person.

If I had to motivate the other person to sacrifice my own will, I would definitely not want to. You can't say that the purpose of your decadence is to achieve the results you want, no one will care about your feelings and always accommodate you and compromise, so you can't help yourself by relying on others if you don't get up. So, if it doesn't work for me after a period of care and encouragement, I will really give up on the other person.

Because first of all, life is for oneself, not for others.

If you are self-decadent because of a little thing, you can't figure it out, and you can't get uplifted, then the comfort and encouragement of others can only be a drop in the bucket for you, and the symptoms will not cure the root cause. Therefore, no matter what, no matter what kind of setbacks and difficulties you encounter, please be sure to think clearly as soon as possible, find your life goals as soon as possible, and don't continue to be decadent, can't live with yourself, and hurt the hearts of people who care about you.

I will encourage him to cheer up, comfort him as a friend, and let him return to his normal life as soon as possible, otherwise I will feel guilty.

You can communicate with him, say that you don't like him like this, I hope he won't be decadent because of you, life is still beautiful, why is it easy to be emotionally affected by others?

I would choose to talk to him, thank him for his affection for me, and encourage him to get back on his feet! I'll be there for him.

I'm going to help that person get back on their feet, and I don't want to affect anyone because of me.

Method:

1. Think about the future. If you really want to save yourself, you should think about your future life, what kind of life you will live next, how you are going to plan your life, only by calming down and thinking clearly, you can completely change yourself.

2. Make a plan. If you have an idea, you must immediately turn it into a plan, because only a utopian ideal can not become a reality, no matter how beautiful it is, and if you want the ideal to become a reality, you must make a reasonable plan for yourself, and the formulation of this plan is combined with your own situation.

Adjust your mindset:

1. Don't drill the tip of the horns, and you can afford to put it down: In many cases, the main reason why we can't let go of difficulties is because we can't let go of our hearts, and finally we are depressed, and we are not active in doing things in a trance, which affects work and study. In fact, if you think about it, no matter how big the difficulties are, you still have to look forward.

2. Talk to friends: Most of us encounter difficulties, and we always nest in our hearts, especially men. I always worry about my own troubles, but in fact, I let go of many things when I say them.

You can talk to your bosom friends more and listen to their advice, real friends are willing to help you, not add fuel to the fire.

How to save a person who is decadent:

1: Self-hypnosis, to hate or even hate the person who caused the problem, can put many unnecessary charges on him (her). Take a leisurely time, look at the people and things around you like an outsider, and call yourself a third person in your heart, and you will see the effect, and the sequelae is that if it is so long-term, a second personality may appear.

2: Find happiness, find a reason or excuse to deceive yourself (a little ridiculous, the process is not important, just forget it), choose a hobby or two, and try to do something you haven't done before.

3: Face, the best choice, you can see it as a life-enriching experience from the outlook on life, at least it makes you unhappy, you should smile lightly for having this kind of memory, because, the positive side of things is called beautiful. Negative is called beauty, and beauty may be better than beauty.

If a person is decadent, he must be awakened by his will, and a motivated heart, if his own magic consciousness awakens him, then he is really hopeless, but if he is given one more meal, then he may soon be out of stock, and then find out such a dilemma.

There are always unsatisfactory people in the world, it is impossible to live a life with smooth sailing, and if you are decadent, you will cheer up, and you must enjoy the beauty of the world.

Help him make a plan, and if you have an idea, you must immediately turn it into a plan, because only a fantasy ideal, no matter how beautiful it is, can not become a reality, if you want the ideal to become a reality, you must make a reasonable plan for yourself, the formulation of this plan is combined with your own situation, only by calming down and thinking clearly, can you completely change yourself.

A person who has no purpose in life, or who is indulging in something that consumes his will, will be decadent, and only by giving hope in his life, finding motivation, and not indulging in unrealistic things will he be able to cheer up.

Communicate well with him, talk more about the expectations and opinions of the people he cares about or the people he cares about most, and the help and benefits of changing the status quo. You can also take him to see a professional psychologist and be counseled by a psychologist.

Let him realize that it is not good for him to go on like this, so that he can correct his mistakes and try to do his best...

It is not easy for people to live a lifetime, they must have ideals, even if they do not succeed, they must work hard, they cannot give up when they encounter setbacks, they will be discouraged, and they must cheer up their spirits to live a wonderful life.

A person is decadent and takes love to save.

There needs to be a reinvigorated spirit.

Summary. Make more positive friends. Nowadays, with the increase of study, work and life pressure, at a certain stage of life or a certain period of the year, some people have more or less anxious periods, and people who do not grasp well will also enter a state of decadence.

If we want to save ourselves and free ourselves from decadence, we can try to socialize more with our friends and colleagues who are optimistic and full of positive energy, and relieve the dullness and pressure in our hearts in communicating with them. You can also confide your worries and stress to someone you trust, asking for help and comfort. Even if you don't get effective help or relief in front of you, you can spit it out.

Hello dear. Make more positive friends. Nowadays, with the increase of study, work and life pressure, at a certain stage of life or a certain period of the year, some people have more or less anxious periods, and people who do not grasp well will also enter a state of decadence.

If we want to save ourselves and free ourselves from decadence, we can try to socialize more with our friends and colleagues who are optimistic and full of positive energy, and relieve the dullness and pressure in our hearts in communicating with them. You can also confide your worries and stress to someone you trust, asking for help and comfort. Even if you don't get effective help or relief in front of you, you can spit it out.

Set yourself small goals to accomplish in the near future. The key point is that this small goal is not to make 100 million ha. This goal must be strong and clear indicators and timelines for completion, and the goal should not be too difficult or too simple.

The original intention of setting goals is to let yourself out of depression, and in the process of completing the goal, we must let go of the ideological baggage, abandon the haze in our hearts, take one step at a time, be down-to-earth, and gradually move towards the result of victory. It is worth mentioning that in the process of accomplishing the goal, we must always boost our perseverance, and we must not lose confidence and courage because of some setbacks in the middle.

Both of these methods are good, oh dear.