What are the ways in which boys chat to make girls feel good?

Whether it's the first time you meet, or someone you already know, the way you chat is really a very important thing, although some people are not amazing, but they are very pleasant to chat with, which will also leave a good impression on the other party. And some people are super embarrassed to chat, which will make the other party quickly lose interest in continuing to communicate. So what are the ways that boys use to chat to make girls feel good?

I have summarized the following:

A natural opening

Some people start with the first sentence "Are you there", it really hasn't changed for 10,000 years, in fact, these two words are fine, but every day with this start, it's a little boring. I once met a guy who could start a different conversation, for example, when it rained there, and he would use that as a topic. There are many similar examples, if a guy puts a little effort into this, then it can make the conversation between two people get off to a good start.

Choose a time slot for chatting

Some people have a 10,000-year-old routine, fixing "good morning" in the morning, and then saying "good night" in the evening, such a routine chat method is really not popular anymore. You can gradually find the most suitable time slot for her to chat with according to the other person's work or study time. Some people are in a hurry in the morning, and if you say "good morning" and the girl replies with "good morning", there may be no time to continue chatting, so isn't it a pity.

Why don't you have a good chat after dinner and get to know each other better?

Sincerely

Whatever method you use, sincerity is the most important thing. It's important to chat with each other realistically, not babbling nonsense.

Talk about topics of interest and tell interesting stories.

Most of them are gifts.

As long as you are handsome, you can say anything.

It's the kind of humorous way that is more humorous.

Both men and women love humor.

Start with a girl's hobby, not pretentious or greasy.

1. Be brave and expressive.

Some girls are originally a talkative person, but in front of the person they like, they will suddenly become less able to speak, and the reason is that when facing the person they like, they will become nervous, and they will worry that the other party will not like to listen to what they say. It is recommended that you should learn to express yourself in life, you know, the more afraid you are, the less you will be able to speak, and the more you will not be able to talk to the other party.

2. Show your true self.

Many girls will instinctively disguise themselves in front of the boys they like, trying to shape themselves into a very perfect person, either wearing delicate makeup, or wearing too grand clothes, giving others a feeling of overexertion, which will not only increase the distance between you, but also directly affect the first impression of the person you like, just keep yourself in life.

3. Learn to take the initiative appropriately.

It's okay to take the initiative to talk to him, but don't always take the initiative. If he is too active, he will feel in his heart that even if he doesn't chat, he will take the initiative to find him, and he will not bother thinking about what to talk about, because this issue has already been considered.

4. The other party should be given the opportunity to make suggestions.

Don't talk about it alone, give him a chance to publish. If he is afraid that there will be nothing to talk about and keep talking, he may get bored. Chatting is a matter of two people, if he doesn't want to listen to it, he continues to say it, which may make him reluctant to talk too much next time.

You should let him say that you have something in common.

Tips for chatting with guys to increase favorability:

1. Good at being funny.

When chatting with boys, you should find some funny jokes to make the other party feel happy to chat with you, so that you will often talk about some interesting topics, and it will become a habit after a long time. If you don't talk one day, the boy will feel uncomfortable.

2. Ask open-ended questions.

Change a yes or no question to an open-ended question, such as watching a movie together, don't ask the other person if the movie is good, but ask the other person what the camera in the movie or what they think about the storyline. You can also use your own ideas on a topic to guide the other person.

3. Don't say that the other party is wrong.

The survey found that men all over the world are more disgusted with women saying "you are wrong" to themselves, so they should delete these three words from their three-character combination as soon as possible, adjust their emotions and thinking angles, and discuss things with each other with a discussion mentality, so that it is easier for the other party to open up to themselves and more conducive to harmonious communication with each other.

4. Don't just "uh-huh".

Some girls are shy and introverted, and every time they chat with boys, they reply with each other, and the other party will feel that chatting with them is not interesting, or there is a suspicion of perfunctory.

Be able to talk about some big-name stars in sports culture, fitness sports, and more. 2. Boys also like some wonderful movies (pose, scary). 3. The work of the other party and why they like it.

4. The one thing that boys love most in their daily lives and can't give up the most. 5. **During the holidays, the other party likes to stay at home or go out for tours. 6. What are the topics of chatting with boys?

**Some popular online games or mobile games, boys are basically very interested in mobile games, if you actively propose the game, then it will definitely arouse his interest. 7. Be able to have some vehicles with boys, today's boys seem to have a lot of scientific research on vehicles, and everyone can exchange different views on the same car.

1. The frequency of small talk with boys is not too frequent, everyone has their own daily life. 2. Discussions on some topics should be discussed after consideration, and there are some things that should be said and should not be talked about and should be carefully considered. As much as possible, it doesn't have to happen''I'm sorry, but I'm talking straight''and other sentences.

3. Praise the other party sometimes, moderate praise will make the two more intimate, and it doesn't look so different. 4. Prevent becoming a topic terminator among everyone, otherwise even if the other party is very interested in talking to you again, they will not want to discuss it with you again. 5. When the other party is speaking, it is very important to see his eyes with his heart.

Staring into the eyes of the other person is a sign that you value the other person and that you have a lot of care for him.

How can a boy brush up on a girl's favorability through chatting?

Dear, glad to answer for you. If a man chats with you like this, it means that he is not interested in you.1 Ignore a man who is not very interested in you, and generally can't reply to your information, or occasionally take the initiative to send you a few words, then this kind of man is not completely rejecting you, but wants to hang your appetite, commonly known as a spare tire. Give you a piece of candy, then cold you for a while, and when you give up, give you another piece of candy.

2 Single-word reply This often happens when you send him a bunch of words in a hurry, and even throw a few questions in order to be less embarrassed, you think that this can at least lead him to chat with you, but he just replies to you, oh. Kindness. Let's talk about it.

Compared to the ignorance we talked about above, this is obviously not very important, maybe he is just bored or just a brief reply to you for politeness.

<> "Make a guy have a crush on you through chatting? Quickly pull in the distance.

Girls with high emotional intelligence are "chatting" about Han like this! It's easy to get closer to each other!

Many girls say that they can't talk to boys, either because the conversation is awkward, or it is very bland, or it is very cold.

Because women's thinking is more rich and emotional. Linear thinking and goal-oriented thinking are actually the thinking characteristics of boys.

So, when you meet a straight man, they often speak simply and directly, and if you also reply simply and directly, you will never be able to spark love.

So, when you know the difference in thinking between men and women, you must learn to consciously enrich your words so that straight men can learn to answer.

For example, today you asked a nucleus and a guy out for dinner, and you liked him very much, but he didn't seem to be very interested in you, and he didn't mean to continue dating you.

At this point, you can take the initiative.

You can say to him, "You look good in this dress today."

Straight men will reply: Yes, thank you.

First, your emotions with each other are very flat, and second, your topic is over. ）

How should I say that?

You can say: Hey, I found that you are quite good at wearing clothes, and you feel that your body is very suitable for you today, and the overall temperament is displayed! "

At this time, you have aroused the boy's curiosity, and he will ask:"Haha, what kind of temperament? I don't know. "

Did he feel it, he was happy, and he was also very curious and puzzled. At this time, we mobilized each other's emotions.

Then you can reply directly to his merits, or you can detour:

Heck, you've got a pretty personal style, don't you really know? "

If the other party is really straight, they may say: I don't know, you can tell me, I want to hear it.

At this time, I will deal with it as if the other party really doesn't know.

Then the "fuzzy invitation" begins:

That's okay, it's okay if you don't know, just have good clothes, see that you have such a good eye, next time I go shopping, take you with me, you can help me refer to it. "

Basically, all boys can't say no.

First of all, you mobilize his pleasant emotions. He's already crushed, even if he doesn't at first, and your relationship can go straight from having a meal to the point where he can go shopping with you.

Actually, even if the other person only says thank you, you can also say:

You're so modest, but your vision is really good, next time I go shopping, I'll bring you to help me with my staff and staff!

Remember, when you meet a straight man, the task of mobilizing the atmosphere and enriching the language falls on you, before you speak, think about it, I said, how the other party will react, how to pick up, and bring each other closer.

When talking to unrequited boys, you must use sincerity, positivity, and attention to these three attitudes to talk about the topic. People must communicate with each other in the whole process of coexistence, and obtain the transmission of feelings in the communication process, so the attitude of speaking becomes very crucial. If the mentality of speaking is not right, it is likely to make the whole conversation more and more embarrassing, and the rough sale will not be able to get the actual effect required, and the more serious probability will be reversed.

The same is true for boys who deal with unrequited love, and even the method and mentality of chatting must be more cautious, because unrequited love is a very subtle situation, and the difference is to good friends, because the relationship is stronger than that of classmates; The difference is related to couples, because they are not at that level, so whether it is a face-to-face chatting mentality or an online communication mentality, you need to be cautious. One of the most important qualities of living with others is sincerity. If in the small talk session, both parties bring deception to small talk, then in fact this small talk is meaningless, because your gradual purpose is no longer simple, therefore, full of sincere concepts to discuss the topic, can make the boy feel your sincerity, feel that you attach great importance to him, that will make the boy will your friendliness increase, and then want to keep chatting with you, maintain small talk; On the other hand, if you are not sincere in the whole process of small talk, and only then do you quietly let the boy find out, and the boy is very disgusted with the feeling of being deceived, then this period of luck without gradual luck is likely to be fateless.

Show your liveliness and cheerfulness, and let your good side show the boys, and it's good.

Don't talk to the boy you like, don't be a dog, don't talk to yourself.

1. Don't emoji bucket charts

In the early stages of the chat, when the two people don't know each other well, my advice is that it's best to post fewer love packets. When an emoji is sent, often the other party doesn't know what to do, and the topic will be interrupted. Think about every time you don't want to reply to a message, do you choose to send a meme to end the topic less awkwardly?

2. Don't be a licking dog

With all his chats, don't surrender yourself to choose to be a licking dog. If there is a conflict of opinions, express your opinion tactfully. If he asks you for help and you don't happen to be convenient, turn him down.

You don't need to follow every sentence, you don't need to reply to messages in seconds, and you don't need to make him feel attractive and conceited enough to feel that he can control you.

If you want to attract the other party, you must know how to push and pull reasonably.

3. Don't talk to yourself

Because the two people don't have anything to talk about, they naturally don't have so many common topics to talk about. If every time you chat, you are very happy or can't help yourself from posting a lot of words, breaking up three or four sentences in a sentence. The content of the talk has people that the other party doesn't know, things that you don't understand, and stalks that you can't understand, anyway, after the bombardment, the boy basically just makes an expression or a ......

Even if people are interested in you, you don't know how to talk to them.