Do you want to leave your work to spend time with your children?

In my experience and experience, I do not approve of parental accompaniment.

Children generally enter high school at the age of 16 and have enough self-care and independence skills, so they don't need to worry too much about their parents. Even students with poor self-care skills, parents should also let their children exercise.

Students with strong self-care ability and independence have a strong ability to adapt to the environment, most of them have a healthy psychology, and have enough ability to resist blows and pressure, which is exactly what is needed for the cruel college entrance examination preparation. They will have an excellent preparation mentality and can successfully pass the selection of the college entrance examination.

For example, I have a student in my class who has very good grades and is very self-reliant. Approaching his third year of high school, his parents went back to the countryside to open a supermarket, leaving him at home.

This has not had any effect on the child, at least on the surface, in terms of learning. It wasn't until I talked to him one day that I learned that he had been at home by himself, eating breakfast and dinner in the school cafeteria, buying some for lunch and going home to eat, and sleeping at home at night. Suddenly I felt that this child was so pitiful, other people's children were all delivered by car, and breakfast and dinner were delivered to the classroom, but this classmate was completely fighting alone.

I told him, "Let your mother come home and accompany you, at least cook for you."

The first point I would like to make is that it was not a wise choice for parents to give up their jobs to spend three years with their children in high school, and we were faced with such a choice at the time, and as a result, our choice was to have our children boarding in school.

First of all, students spend most of their time in school. Even if the student is a day student and does not live in a dormitory, then most of his time is spent in school. If the student lives on campus, she spends less time with her parents.

Therefore, we say that the main responsibility for educating children is school, and the main time for children to learn is also in school. Parents simply don't play that big of a role. Giving up work to accompany children is not necessary, and the gain outweighs the loss.

In my opinion, there is no need to make such sacrifices, there is not so much need, it is still necessary to pursue what you like in your heart, so that life will be meaningful.

It's better not to. If you don't have a job, what can you take to support your children, if your current work is too busy, you can try to see if you can coordinate, or change to a more relaxed one.

It is necessary to put down your work and spend time with your children, but you do not need to put all your energy on them.

This is where a suitable point is found. Accompanying the child's growth and lack of self-support for the child will also make the child's life relatively difficult; When children leave their hometowns, they lose the care of their parents, and the problem of left-behind children will also arise. Therefore, no one chooses the best way for you, only you know your own situation best, if you are at home, as long as you have enough life**, love for children is the most important; If the funds are not forthcoming, it is imperative to provide adequate funds for the children's education.

If it were me, I would choose to work, I want to give him a better life, because now the pressure of social competition is increasing, the population will only be right after the decline, and when it comes to the later development of intelligence, it may be a competition for family strength, and then I can help my children.

I have struggled with this kind of problem many times before, and the final answer is that if you can work while taking care of your children, of course, it is the best, children come to the world, you can't do without the company of your parents, but because of family reasons, we have to earn money.

Every parent is very distressed about their children, they care about their children's healthy growth, and they care about their children's family education.

But they have a hard time balancing family and work. Sometimes parents often neglect their children in order to work, leaving their children at home, early or the children have been in a lonely state, sometimes without the company of their fathers and mothers, they will even have a rebellious situation, as parents have no choice but to bear this sadness and helplessness.

If they can, what parent doesn't want to be able to accompany their children at home and watch them grow up, but they have no choice but to work hard to earn money in order to give their children a rich life. Adults will bear a lot of sadness and helplessness, in the face of a lot of suffering, they will endure not to say, will not behave in front of children, sometimes the pressure is great, a string suddenly breaks, it is inevitable that they will not be able to bear it. The burden on adults is too great, and in addition to supporting their parents, they also have to accompany their children, and it is difficult to balance their relationships.

As a parent, don't always work hard to earn money to give your child the best, your child doesn't necessarily need the best, maybe you just need the company of your parents. Parents should not work too hard and be too serious when working, what is the use of promotion and salary increase? There is not too much companionship around the child, there is a lack of a lot of growth stages, and there will not be a lot of love as a child, so as a parent, you don't have to give your child the best, you can simply raise a child, be able to accompany your child, and give your child more love is the most important.

It is impossible to balance work and family well, once you work very hard, you will neglect your family, and once you take too much care of your family, you will lose your job. Only by finding a balance can we find a better balance point in order not to lack the growth of children, and to ensure the work that is now quietly open. Many children don't need to give them much money, they need more love, and without the love of their parents, everything is a fantasy for them.

Therefore, parents must not miss the growth stage of their children when they are young, otherwise, parents will drift away from their children. Parents should take more time to accompany their children, do things at work, never do things at work after work, strive to accompany their children, educate children from an early age, teach them to behave and do things, have correct values, get used to accompanying their children, and fulfill their responsibilities, then, children can have a better attitude and character towards life.

At this time, parents can ask their parents to help them take care of their children, and they also need to solve the problem of taking care of their children before going to work.

It depends on the family situation.

01. If the family conditions are superior, you can do this.

With the introduction and rise of various parenting concepts, this has led to more and more attention to the issue of accompanying children. People's time is limited, only 24 hours a day, if you want to be busy with your own career, your own work, basically the time to spend with your children is very little.

Therefore, in most cases, it is necessary to choose one to accompany children and work hard in their careers, and in the face of such a choice, I personally feel that I still need to consider my own family situation.

If your family conditions are good, you have a house, a car, a good savings, and you don't have too much pressure in life, then I can put down some work and spend time with my children, of course, this is not for parents to completely give up their jobs.

You can choose a job that is not very intense, or even a job where you can fish. Change the focus to a situation where children are the first and career is secondary. However, accompanying children is also a science, and accompanying children is not only about spending time with children, but also about helping children grow up in the process, guiding children to slowly get in touch with the outside world, and establishing correct concepts for children.

02. If the family conditions are not good, you still have to focus on your career. Not every pair of parents has such a choice, and many parents also want to spend more time with their children, but they have no choice. There are many families in this world who are not very wealthy, and can even be said to be relatively poor.

For parents in such families, their family circumstances do not allow them to spend too much time with their children, and they need to go out to work and work their own careers to support their families.

After all, compared with accompanying children, it is the most important thing to let children be fed and able to study, which has also led to the phenomenon of many left-behind children, whose parents go out to work and children are taken care of by grandparents.

Of course, it is okay for a superior family not to give up their careers for their children, after all, many people take the completion of their careers as the meaning of their lives, but it should be noted that even if they work hard for their careers, they must spend a certain amount of time with their children.

With children, we should put down our careers to accompany our children, because the companionship of parents is very important for the growth of children.

I don't think it's worth it, maybe I would feel more selfish when I say this, some people say that children in childhood without the company of parents will make children by an incomplete childhood, first of all, you have to know:

1. You are not all of your child's childhood.

Children before the age of 3 are still infants and toddlers, and they need to be carefully cared for by adults, and adults need to sacrifice their own time, which is understandable. So at this stage, I think it's good that you want to devote yourself to taking care of your children.

But after the age of 3, the child begins to go to kindergarten, and in his world, in addition to his home, in addition to his mother, there will be schools, teachers, and classmates, which are also the companions of his childhood.

2. Your child's childhood is not all you have.

Don't spend all your energy on taking care of your children and spending time with them. Because children are not all of us, we are all independent individuals, and we all need to go through our own work and life. Only by enriching oneself with work while taking care of the children can one's energy be balanced.

Otherwise, when you are in a bad mood or encounter setbacks, you may also put pressure and negative emotions on your child. It's not fair to them.

You should accompany your children, because your child's childhood is very short, and this time is precious, so you should put aside your career to accompany them for a while.

From the psychological aspect, parents want to manage their children well, which also shows their current life pressure. In the psychology of parents, we can't control our children when we go to work. Perhaps parents lack the inspiration to educate their children.

From a life perspective, the most important thing is how long it takes to educate a child.

1.Each age of a child requires parents to analyze their child's psychology from different perspectives. The state of the child is different at each stage, but the parents must be in a hurry when they say this.

They don't really know their children, so they don't know where to start, whether it's learning or living habits. Children need to develop independent thinking.

To face the world bravely and do what you love, parents need to help their children to truly establish values. They don't get to catch their children every day.

2.If you don't know how to educate your children, you can't educate your children if you don't go to work. If you want to understand, even if you don't meet your child in **, or your usual life status will have a subtle effect on your child's brain, you have to be a parent who is proud of your child, not proud of being rich.

Your words and actions will affect your child's attitude towards life. Every child is good, but how to open this lock requires you to carefully observe and understand the state of the child.

3.Take care of your child as much as you can. After all, you can live well with more money, and you can have a good time with less money.

It doesn't mean that the child should always be by his side, but just give him more care when he is around, and cultivate the good habit of being independent and strong from an early age. When we were younger, we could only see our parents once a year, but now we are older! Parents are a mirror.

You just want your children to know that life is not easy. You want your children to feel your love, and you want them to have love. Galaxy cram school.

There is a saying that parents all over the world are worried that their children will be eliminated from society.

If you can't juggle work and children, take care of them first. You can't miss out on your child's growth. If you miss it, no matter how much money you make, it can't make up for the growth process that that time period should bring to your child.

Parents should work together to take care of their children and find a light job, and the other half should also share the burden after work.

Parents may need to find a balance between family and work, and try to take care of both.

Learn to manage things with schedule management. There is a psychological experiment in which subjects are asked to do 22 simple tasks, half of which are allowed to be completed, and the other half are prevented and forcibly interrupted when they are not done. After doing the experiment, ask the participants to recall what work they did.

We can think about this by taking the following steps:

1.Define the meaning of "being yourself": Being yourself refers to the pursuit of personal goals and values by an individual in terms of life, career, and values. In other words, being yourself is not only about pursuing personal gain, but also about having richer life experiences and values.

2.Consider the risks and implications of giving up your job: If a mother decides to give up her job to care for her children, she will lose some of her income and face uncertainty about her career future; At the same time, she may face a further erosion of her perception of the value of her work, which may affect her career development and personal achievement.

3.Consider the importance of spending time with your child: The importance of spending time with your child is self-evident, and spending time with your child can help them grow, foster intimacy, and strengthen parent-child bonding.

As a parent, it may be even more important to spend time with your child, especially when they are young or facing challenges in learning and life. In this case, it may be a reasonable decision to give up your job and become a companion mom.

4.Finding a balance: Spending time with your children and being yourself are not opposites.

Spending time with your child doesn't mean giving up on your own developmental goals. Before making a decision, parents need to consider factors such as the family's financial situation, future development prospects, their own values and family roles to find a way to accompany their children and pursue their personal career development. For example, you can bend to choose a more flexible work pattern or schedule to balance work and family time.

Therefore, whatever decision is chosen, it is necessary to find a balance between the importance of spending time with children and the right to respect and self-fulfillment, so as to achieve better outcomes for family, children and personal development.