What does long term love depend on? What does it take to last in love?

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it does require both parties to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, consideration and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

Although material things are important and the future is important, the character and comfort of the other party in a relationship are the most important points for whether love can go on for a long time. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke believes that contentment is the eternity of love.

Love does not rely on your mouth, but on your actual ability, dedication, and a life guarantee, so that love can last for a long time

The most considered thing in love should be whether the other party loves you, whether the two of you have a good mode of getting along, about career, this is a guarantee of life, as long as the man is down-to-earth, he can do it. In de facto love, you should not intersperse too many things into it, be innocent, be honest, pure, preferably, you love her and she loves you, you can meet the necessary expenses of life, such as rent, food, commuting, communication, etc., and it is best to have a part of the balance, which can be used relatively freely, or stored to deal with various unexpected problems.

In general, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan in second-tier cities, and a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan in third- and fourth-tier cities can almost meet the above requirements.

Indeed, with the basic living guarantee, there are conditions to talk about comfort.

For example, if you earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but you have a salary of 996 yuan, and you have a goal of buying a big house in Beijing, then most of you will not be comfortable, but will easily become angry and complain.

Another example is that you earn a few thousand dollars a month, and in a second-tier city, although you live in a tight position, you are optimistic by nature and do not have much ambition, and at the same time, your work is very easy, you have a lot of leisure time, and you may be able to live a quiet life.

It is difficult to satisfy people's hearts, when you first work and share a house with others, you feel comfortable in a small room, and after a few years, the salary goes up, and you don't want to live in a house without a bedroom and a large living room.

The income is high, and the eyes are also picked. The poor have their suffering, and so do the rich.

Therefore, Shu Bulaokai is comfortable, and the key lies in the state of the heart.

In this life, it is inevitable that people will encounter unsatisfactory times. If you have a good attitude and live a relaxed life, you will be more comfortable.

Everyone understands this.

What really makes people happier and healthier comes from good relationships.

And in all relationships, it is the quality of intimacy that plays a decisive role.

Facts have proven that a marriage full of conflict and emotionless is not good for health, and may even be worse than divorce.

And living in a good, warm relationship is protective.

People in relationships who really feel like they can rely on another person when they need to have a clear memory for longer.

People who feel that they really can't rely on another person in a relationship will have memory loss earlier.

This shows that the quality of intimate relationships has a direct impact on a person's mental state.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not strong, no matter how good the mentality is, it will collapse one day.

Therefore, the quality of intimate relationships determines a person's state of mind to a certain extent.

Love excites Sun to pay, love needs humility, love needs a lie of good intentions, love also needs the foundation of money, and love needs two people to maintain it for a long time!

Long-term relationships depend on mutual understanding and support. In a relationship, it can be difficult to maintain a long-term relationship if both partners are unable to understand each other's needs and thoughts, or if there is a lack of support and love.

Understanding means that we try to put ourselves in the other person's shoes and imagine how we would feel if we were in the other person's position. Sometimes we may encounter some contradictions and disagreements, but as long as both sides can understand the other party's position, we can find a solution to the problem.

Support means that we need to give help and encouragement to the other person when they need it. In the face of all kinds of difficulties and challenges, we can work together with our lovers to deal with them, and overcome them together. At the same time, we need to encourage and support each other to make each other feel that we are always behind him.

In the process of long-term relationship, we also need to be tolerant and tolerant of each other. In some small things, we can tolerate the other person more, understand his shortcomings, and strive to improve our own shortcomings. In this way, we will be able to slowly develop a solid relationship and make our relationship better and better.

When we start a relationship, we all look forward to the beauty of the relationship, but we don't know each other very well, so it's better to take it gradually.

We all have to know that direct expression and roundabout expression are just ways to express love, so the point is that the other half you want to find is the other person? Is it you the other half that the other party wants to find? Shirt leakage sedan car.

If you choose the wrong person, then no matter what way you take, you will not feel happy, why do you have to be entangled? It's because neither you nor the other person are sure if the relationship will last long.

You will be afraid that if you express your heart directly, the other party will not give you the satisfactory answer you want, so you will choose to express it in a roundabout way.

Therefore, finding the right talent is the key, followed by the strategy of falling in love. The reason why the relationship can be stable and beautiful is that both parties care about each other, like each other, and are willing to pay for each other.

When you have a psychological partner, you go to contact with each other is different from the feeling of just a stranger at the beginning, you will be willing to be with each other, willing to have sex with each other, I have a friend who said very well: sex is the natural expression of two people's love to the depths, is you have me, I have your expression of love.

My friend had this understanding of love and sex four years ago, and he is now in a relationship with his girlfriend he met in college, and the relationship between the two of them is very stable.

Feelings can go on for a long time, it really doesn't depend on appearance and figure, and stable feelings are not there from the beginning, but both people need to have mature thoughts, so that they can better understand themselves and others, and the relationship can go on for a long time.

Two people can stay together for a long time, relying on the attraction of thoughts, not the man's abdominal muscles and the woman's beauty. But to attract ideas, you must have good thoughts.