After the mother gave birth to a second child, why did the big one have to let the small one?

Because the younger one is young after all, there are many things that are not as good as the eldest one, so when the eldest is the eldest brother, he should let the younger one be like an elder brother and sister, and it is also a traditional virtue to respect the old and love the young.

This is because the small ones need to be cared for, and the big ones let the small ones feel cared for, and then they can grow up healthier.

Because the child will be able to understand his mother's words when he is older, tell her that she will understand her mother's words, and she will not understand anything when the second child is just born, and it is in vain to tell her, and the big one will let the small one reduce the burden on the mother.

In our lives, many families will have a second child, but with the arrival of the second child, there will be contradictions, and there will often be fights between Dabao and Erbao, which makes many parents distressed.

First of all, we must know that children are independent individuals, if parents in life, to let Dabao let Erbao, then Erdabao will feel very unfair, they think that parents are very selfish, and parents do not love themselves only Erbao, which is very bad for the growth and development of children, but also will make children more resentful of parents, inspire children to enter the rebellious period in advance, at the same time Dabao will also be more and more disgusted with parents, and when a certain time will break out with the conflict between parents, Therefore, parents must always pay attention to Dabao's emotions in life, and if Dabao's emotions are abnormal, they need to attract parents' attention. In addition, we must know that children are coming from a young age, at this time, many children will also have some bad behaviors, parents must correct Xiaobao's bad behavior in time, and at the same time educate Dabao and Erbao in life should help each other and care for each other, so as to prevent the occurrence of some fights.

In addition, parents should not be too eccentric, although after having a second child, parents' attention is on the second child, and often snub Dabao, which not only causes some damage to Dabao's psychology, but also some unfair treatment of parents, so that Dabao is completely disappointed in his parents, so when a certain contradiction breaks out between Dabao and Erbao, parents first have to ask whose fault it is, and then punish it, so that Dabao and Erbao are very fair at the same time, It will not make Dabao feel that his parents only favor Erbao.

In addition, in life, parents can also always tell Dabao to love their younger siblings, and also tell their younger siblings to love their older siblings, which can reduce the occurrence of some fights, and also benefit the relationship between the two children.

No, because this will have a certain impact on the child's psychology, and boys and girls should be treated equally with the big and small.

Yes, the big ones should indeed give way to the small ones, so as to promote the cultivation of feelings and promote the sense of atmosphere in the family.

No, when two children get along, they should let the children deal with this issue, and it also needs to be decided according to the actual situation.

Straight to the point, after giving birth to a second child, the big one doesn't necessarily have to let the small one.

First of all, we have to know that children are not independent individuals, if parents in life, to let Dabao let Erbao, then Erdabao will feel very unfair, they think that parents are very selfish, and parents do not love themselves only Erbao, which is very bad for children's growth and development, but also will make children more resentful of their parents, inspire children to enter the rebellious period in advance, and Dabao will also become more and more disgusted with parents, When the time comes to shout, the conflict between parents will break out, so parents must always pay attention to Dabao's emotions in life, if Dabao's emotions are abnormal, they need to attract parents' attention. In addition, we must know that children are coming from a young age, at this time, many children will also have some bad behaviors, parents must correct Xiaobao's bad behavior in time, and at the same time educate Dabao and Erbao in life should help each other and care for each other, so as to prevent the occurrence of some fights.

In addition, parents should not be too biased, although after having a second child, parents' attention is on the second child, often snubbing Dabao, which not only caused some damage to Dabao's psychology, but also some unfair treatment of parents, so that Dabao is completely disappointed in his parents, so when a certain contradiction broke out between Dabao and Erbao, parents should first ask whose fault it was, and then punish it, so that Dabao and Erbao are very fair at the same time, It will not make Dabao feel that his parents only favor Erbao.

It doesn't have to be for the older children to let the younger ones go. As parents, we must pay attention to this.

When the eldest child has a second child, the eldest in the family may be suffering from great psychological pain, he is afraid that his parents will not love him, he is afraid that his parents will not care about him in the future, etc., all of which will make a child become troublesome, picky, and beating, because he wants to get the attention of his parents and want more people to see him.

If you let the boss let the little one go everywhere, the boss will feel more unbalanced in his heart, and the little one will rely on the love of his parents and become disrespectful to the boss. We should guide the eldest to love the younger, guide the younger to learn to respect and love the eldest child, and respect and love each other is a good brother-sister relationship.

Usually we should also pay attention to language, so that children can learn to respect, learn to abide by the rules, and learn to love each other. You can't let the boss tolerate and compromise everywhere because of the arrival of another child, which is also not good for the boss's physical and mental health. Therefore, as a parent, please uphold a fair and fair heart in Jianzhong to treat different children and love them equally.

It has to be! At this time, the parents are the referees, blindly letting the eldest baby let the second baby be infinitely squeezed, and at the same time it is an unreasonable spoiling of the second baby. In the end, the balance is out of balance, and it can only be exchanged for suppressing the cowardly, or irritable and irritable boss, hating the injustice of his parents, and strongly lacking love, and at the same time giving a lawless, arrogant, and unruly second child.

Second-child families, you must not say to the two children, "Because they are small, you are big, let them be a little what", this will be the most devastating and lethal **, it is not an exaggeration to say that it may destroy the lives of the two children! What you have to do is to love both times, big is not wrong, small is not a privilege! All things are equal, reasonable, have rules, and judge fairly, then they are happy and self-contained.

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The answer to this question is obvious to most people, so I'll share my opinion.

The answer I give is yes, I think the older kids have to let the younger ones go. But this concession is moderate.

What do you want to let for Spike Rock Ants? As the older brother or sister of the younger child, it is understandable for the older child to love the younger sibling. Older children have more knowledge of the world than children, for the second child family, treat the first child, the whole family will often guess and be careful, the eldest child is born with the company of the family, when playing games and toys, parents will let him, and when the child is born, the attitude of the parents will change subtly, it is this subtle change, will more or less ignore it.

The little ones need the big love to make up for some of the love that is missing from their parents.

At present, the common two-child family is made up of the eldest to take care of the younger one when the parents are busy with work, and the older one lets the younger one love them.

But love can not be superimposed infinitely, the big child must let the small one without any fault, but this is a matter between two children, if the parents prefer the small, and the big child everywhere let the small one, then distort the love between the siblings themselves, the small one should also bear the mistake if he does something wrong, and he can't let the big one bear it because of the presence of the big one.

Parents treat two children, always be their guide, and can not be a bystander referee, the growth of the two children is complementary to each other, not the so-called competitive relationship, do not let them feel the pressure they should not have in childhood, real happiness is the treasure of their growth process.

Some children don't know how to share, don't look at the child's small, in fact, they know in their hearts that in a family with a second child, the child will be jealous, and all the things will be handed over to the sensible child to do housework, because the big one will carefully miss the conversation to take care of the emotions around the returning brother.