How to accept the criticism of others with an open mind, and what to do in the face of the criticism

Advice is contrary to ear, and those who listen sometimes feel that other people's ideas are too redundant, and they don't need to listen to them at all, just stick to themselves. However, after taking a lot of detours, I will regret it: if only I had listened to him.

Be open to the advice of others.

However, there is no regret medicine in the world. From not listening to dissuasion at the beginning to taking all the detours later, as long as you accept one, you must accept all of them. We all know Tang Taizong.

is good at receiving advice, so he is praised by the world. The dignified emperor can still accept the advice of others, what are your concerns?

Of course, people don't overrule other people's opinions for no reason. However, there is a kind of person who starts from his own face and feels that when others put forward opinions, they do not agree with themselves, and they do not give themselves face. The second type of person is the one who disagrees with the opinion of a particular person.

may be because the two of them had a holiday before, and this time the opinions put forward by one party were considered by the other party to be aimed at themselves, not sincerely, if they accepted it, they would definitely be fooled. The third type of person still thinks that his idea is good after seriously thinking about the other party's suggestion. They put their own opinions first, have an inexplicable insistence on their own ideas, and feel that other people's ideas are just not as good as their own.

The above three types of people can be summarized as narrow-minded people. It is difficult for a narrow-minded person to make a career. People who can really achieve great things are people who can accept other people's opinions with an open mind.

Tang Bohu. He was a famous painter and writer of the Ming Dynasty. At a very young age, he showed superhuman talent in drawing, and was once known as a "child prodigy". When Tang Bohu was young, he worshipped the famous painter Shen Zhou.

for the teacher. He was talented, diligent and hardworking, and with his love for painting, his painting skills soon improved greatly. In this regard, Shen Zhou often praised him.

However, being praised a lot by the teacher, Tang Bohu, who has always been modest, gradually became complacent. The teacher saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart, but he didn't say much on his lips. Once at dinner, Shen Zhou asked Tang Bohu to open the window, and Tang Bohu walked to the nearest place only to find that the window he wanted to open was actually a painting by the teacher Shen Zhou.

He was very ashamed, understood the teacher's good intentions, and humbly accepted the teacher's opinion, and was no longer proud.

Those who achieve great things will be open-minded. People who can really get things done also have extraordinary judgment when others give advice. That's what makes them different and why they're lucky.

It is impossible for a person who does not deeply realize his mistakes to accept criticism from others. Therefore, after deeply reflecting on one's own mistakes, one will accept criticism from others. Hope, thank you.

First, don't resist criticism from others.

In fact, many people have come forward to give us a wake-up call because they think about us. Therefore, when we face the criticism of others, we must not reject it in our hearts, but strive to accept it. After all, these people are actually willing to criticize us for our own good.

Second, don't get angry.

In the face of those who dare to criticize us, we must listen humbly, instead of listening to the more we listen, the more wrong our faces become. If we get angry when we listen to the criticism of others, they will definitely never dare to criticize us again in the future, and they will not dare to continue to give us advice, so we should accept criticism with an open mind.

Third, the expression must appear natural.

When some people hear words that are unfavorable to themselves, or words that criticize themselves, they often want to remain calm, but the unnatural expression of their expressions expresses that their hearts are very uncomfortable, which is caused by insufficient cultivation. Therefore, we should strive to do our kung fu well and improve our cultivation.

Fourth, the best advice should be taken to heart.

Friends are rare, if we meet them, we must cherish them; And if the other party's opinion is really good, we must accept it, so that we can better improve ourselves. After all, if we don't listen carefully to the opinions and suggestions that are beneficial to us, we are likely to be blinded and will not see our own shortcomings at all, and we will not know how to improve ourselves.

Fifth, when criticism is wrong, it should be encouraged.

Although some people think that it is for our good and criticize us, these criticisms may be nitpicking on us, or they may mention some things that we cannot do by ourselves, and we should just listen to these criticisms to motivate and encourage ourselves.

Sixth, he smiled at the malicious slander.

If some people's criticism of us is unfounded or maliciously slanderous, we just laugh it off, and there is no need to confront the other person, which will put us in trouble. At this time, we just walked away, ignored each other, and let the other party sing a one-man show by himself.

If there are shortcomings and mistakes that others have pointed out to you, correct them, and if they don't, remind yourself not to make the same mistakes.

Start by examining yourself.

Criticism is not groundless, there must be a reason, first of all, we must examine ourselves, whether it is our own reasons, whether we really have problems. So the first step of the review is very important.

Face up to the criticism of the past and don't run away.

Judge whether criticism is right or wrong.

Judging whether criticism is right or wrong, everything is not absolute. If the content of the criticism is to reflect on it, and it feels really right, then you must learn a lesson seriously, learn to correct it, and thank the person who gave you the criticism. It is because of their criticism that they can find problems and correct them.

If the content of the criticism is biased and not very right, then you should have a sense of proportion in your heart and go in the right direction.

The mentality cannot be extreme.

When criticism is biased, we will definitely be very aggrieved and sad in our hearts, so at this time, we must learn to speak for ourselves, speak for ourselves, express our own opinions, and change our bad image in the hearts of others.

Face with a smile and don't make a lot of noise and lose your manners. Speak elegantly for yourself, and your mentality and tone must not be extreme.

In summary: don't act indifferent or impatient when arguing with others to criticize you, this will make the other person think that you are arrogant and rude, after all, many times it is the elders or your seniors who will criticize you, which will make you lose the opportunity to get valuable advice.

The following attitude should be adopted towards the criticism of others:

1.Rational thinking: Don't argue that you should be emotional because of the criticism of others, think calmly and rationally about the content and reasons for criticism, obtain useful information from it, and reflect on whether your behavior needs to be improved.

2.Express your own ideas: While accepting criticism, you should also express your own ideas and opinions, communicate and communicate with critics in order to better understand the other party's position and point of view.

3.Accept constructive criticism: For constructive criticism, you should listen carefully and try to implement it, from which you will get opportunities for improvement and growth.

4.Ignore malicious criticism: Ignore malicious criticism and don't let it affect your emotions and self-confidence.

5.Seek support: While accepting criticism, seek support and help from friends, family or professionals to relieve psychological stress and boost self-confidence.

In conclusion, dealing with other people's criticism correctly requires a rational, tolerant and positive attitude, drawing useful advice and opinions from it, and constantly improving one's own behavior and performance.

Faced with this situation, I usually respond in the following ways:

1.Stay calm: First of all, I will stay calm and not let my emotions affect my judgment and response. Rational thinking is the key to solving problems.

Accept feedback: I am open to other people's opinions and criticisms and look for room for improvement. Everyone has different perspectives and opinions, and by listening and learning, I can improve my ability to express and respond.

3.Respond rationally: When responding to other people's questions or criticisms, I will respond with rational language and facts, avoiding emotions or arguments. By responding clearly, logically, and in a structured manner, I can better explain my position and opinions.

Seeking support: If I feel devastated or confused, I will seek support and encouragement from friends or relatives. Their support helped me get back on my feet and gave me more confidence and courage.

In short, in the face of the experience of being poured cold water, I will face it with a positive attitude, learn from it, and continue to grow and improve. Hope you find these experiences helpful! If you have any other questions, I'm always available to help.

Summary. This statement is very true. Of course, it can be unpleasant to hear others criticize you, but as the saying goes:

Good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for action. Often, some harsh criticism can help you understand yourself better. On the contrary, some pleasant and beautiful words tend to lose oneself.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Sometimes when people get lost in their own chess game, someone next to them may point to them, and it may suddenly dawn on them that the person who does not want to accept the guidance may not.

People who can deal with criticism correctly cannot make faster progress. Therefore, we should approach criticism with the right attitude.

During the Anti-Japanese War, Southwest Associated University was established in Kunming, and many cultural celebrities in the society gathered in Kunming at that time, and there was a cultural feast in Kunming that was rare in history. Among the many guests who came to Kunming, there was one guest who was not welcomed by the Yunnan people, and he was Li Changzhi, who was called "deported by the Yunnan people" by the writer Shi Yucun. Why was he deported?

It was because he made some valuable but unpleasant opinions.

Humility to accepting criticism from others is conducive to our progress.

This statement is very true. Of course, it will be unpleasant to hear others criticize you, but as the saying goes: good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for action.

Often, some harsh criticism can help you understand yourself better. On the contrary, some pleasant and beautiful words tend to lose oneself. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

Sometimes when people get lost in their own chess game, someone will give them pointers, and they may suddenly realize that people who are unwilling to accept guidance or who cannot treat criticism correctly cannot make faster progress. Therefore, we should approach criticism with the right attitude. During the Anti-Japanese War, Southwest Associated University was established in Kunming, and many cultural celebrities in the society gathered in Kunming at that time, and there was a cultural feast in Kunming that was rare in history.

Among the many guests who came to Kunming, there was one guest who was not welcomed by the Yunnan people, and he was Li Changzhi, who was called "deported by the Yunnan people" by the writer Shi Yucun. Why was he deported? It was because he made some valuable but unpleasant opinions.

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