Why do people have to get married? Can t you get married?

I feel the same way as you.

watched the people around me get married one by one.

I can't help but feel a little lonely.

It feels like they're all following the trend of social development.

Get married when it's time to get married.

Have a baby when it's time to have it.

I don't know if they have their own ideas.

But sometimes it's not wrong to calm down and think about it.

Someday we'll get married, too.

You will also have a family of your own.

Perhaps getting married and having children is an indispensable responsibility for you in this society.

This is what you have to fulfill.

In this way, the people who care about and love you feel worthy of you.

You also suddenly feel like you've accomplished a major event in your life.

has a wife who loves and a child who loves.

It's a very happy thing.

You will feel that you are fulfilled.

Since it can continue to this day.

It means that it is the most perfect.

Just like biological evolution.

Every animal has been slowly evolving to the best.

Including humans. Of course, there are also people with personalities.

In fact, everyone has their own pursuits.

As long as you feel worthy of yourself, worthy of the people who care about you.

If you can make yourself happy.

You can leave it unknotted.

An adult should know what they should do.

I hope you take good control of yourself.

May we all find happiness.

It's okay not to get married, can you be a monk! However, if you suffer your parents, they will be laughed at, and they will not be at ease. As the old saying goes:

There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great! Don't think about your parents, think about yourself, you are old, what should you do, you are bullied when you are old, and if you have offspring, no one will bully you, otherwise, you can only shed tears.

Of course. Marriage means that the two live together, two people who love each other will not be lonely, people, if they do not get married, there will be loneliness, even if there is no at present, fortunately, there will be one day, because friends, relatives, will slowly leave us, even close friends, relatives, may be able to talk about everything now, but slowly in the soul there will still be a distance. For example, although parents can say everything, after all, they are not people of the same era, and the spiritual distance is also obvious.

Good friends and other relatives may be fine now, but people will gradually have families, husbands and children. And no matter what time you can get along, even if you can, it's still as good as before, people are always busy with their own family and work, maybe they can accompany you here and there to relax, make friends, and after having a family, you may have to cook, pick up the children to and from school, accompany the children's husband, and so on. And you?

It's just a friend, I don't have any responsibilities to you, I can take time to accompany you when I have time, and you don't have anything to say if you don't have time.

Second, if you are on that day, are you still the same as before, there are many topics to talk about and things to do together?

Many years later, you will still be labeled as an older leftover girl by this society, and it is impossible for everyone in society to understand you, and people who don't understand may still look at you in a different light.

In short, these will make your mind more and more lonely. No one is not afraid of loneliness. You can tolerate it, for a long time, slowly the lonely person will deviate from the normal track in his heart, appear depressed, and so on.

I don't think the average person will get to that point, but they will slowly understand and get out of the predicament.

If you don't get married, boys should have a deeper understanding than girls, and if boys don't get married, they are singles, and girls are called leftover girls. A single person will be looked down upon in society, and so on, to bear a lot of psychological pressure, in contrast, girls are a little smaller, but the same people who are not married, naturally there are many similarities, but the pressure on the woman's side is a little less.

Can't you get married? Yes, let's play first. What you can't figure out now doesn't necessarily mean you won't be able to figure it out later. If you don't want to get married, in the long run, you can deal with people who don't want to get married like you.

Do you have to get married in life?

We are carefree and have a comfortable life, so why do we have to face the pressure of marriage in our 20s? As a girl, I don't think I need to pass on the lineage, and I don't need a man to love a woman, so what does it mean for me to get married? A person can be very happy, so why do you have to get married?

In fact, the meaning of marriage should be to make yourself happier and happier, and it is indeed a very happy thing to enter the palace of marriage with the person you love, but before you meet the person you love very much, marriage is not an absolute thing. We should not reject marriage, but we should not force marriage, when we meet someone we like, we will naturally want to get married, but if we haven't met someone we want to spend the rest of our lives with, why do we have to force ourselves to get married? Maybe in reality, too many people are under all kinds of pressure and helplessness to get married, and the days after marriage are also very unbearable, even worse than when they were not married, so what is the meaning of such a marriage?

Whether it's marriage or life, it's about making us better people, not making ourselves worse! If you feel that it is painful, then it is better to stop the loss in time!

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate testimony of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a kind of shackles, which can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning

Either way, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness.

I like this sentence very much: Let's get married, I'm idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

Everyone has a desire for love, and the ultimate goal of love is to find someone who can give them a happy marriage. Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not.

You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life. There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave."

Therefore, many people are afraid of getting married, worried about being unhappy after marriage; But there are also people who believe that marriage is a continuation of love and the beginning of a happy life.

In fact, no matter what others think of marriage, it has nothing to do with your marriage, just like the truth of "pony crossing the river", marriage needs to be experienced by yourself to understand. Of course, you can learn from the experiences and lessons of others, which will allow you to avoid detours.

When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, it is natural that there will be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.

If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.

Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

Marriage is when two people are together, and the relationship comes naturally to a certain extent. It may also be for the urging of parents, for the sake of the family, and for the sake of inheritance. No matter what it is for, there is always a reason to get married.

It is okay not to get married, there are no laws and regulations that clearly stipulate that you must get married, enjoy the freedom of being single, and do not affect others.

So it's up to you to decide whether to get married or not.

Why do people get married? On a large level, it is the need for social composition, the need for reproduction, the need for the continuation of life, and the need for human physiological needs and the spiritual needs of individuals on a small level.

What will happen if people don't get married, it's hard to say, some people don't get married and end up living like beggars, broken cans, and some people don't get married but are chic and free and have dazzling brilliance like the sun. Everyone's thoughts are different, and the situation is different, some people want to get married and can't find the right person, some people are too poor, and some people like celibate at all, but no matter what the situation, as long as you like it, don't hurt the society and hurt others, it's understandable whether you get married or not, isn't it?

It's okay not to get married, but there's a lot of pressure to face, especially from your parents.

I believe that many people know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful, and it is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful, so we see that many people are very much looking forward to having love.

Especially when they meet someone they like, then many people will be more attentive, they will take the initiative to care about each other and love each other. Because they want to be able to be with the people they like through their care and love. In the end, it will also allow them to have happiness and a good love.

Even though we see a lot of people who like each other, eventually they get married and come together. But there are also some people who they can never find someone they like, so they have never married. So some people wonder what you want your life to be like in your old age if you don't get married.

Although most of them are indeed able to get married, a small number of them have never been able to find someone they like, so they have never gotten married. So for them, they also have to think about what they will do in their old age?

First of all, some people choose to spend their old age in a nursing home if they are not married. Because we know that nursing homes are very professional institutions, so that we can better care for the elderly. And there are many elderly people like us in the nursing home, so we can take care of each other.

Of course, we see that for more people, they still want to be with their families, so even if they are not married, they still want to be with their families in their old age, because this will make their old life better.

So in fact, each of us wants our lives to be happier and better. That's why many people will marry the person they like, but not everyone can find someone they like to marry, and some people have never been married, so they also have to think about what to do in their later years.

Some people will choose to go to a nursing home because a nursing home is a very professional nursing facility. And there are many elderly people similar to themselves, so that everyone can better take care of each other, of course, for more elderly people, they will still choose to be with their families. Because the family can better care for and take care of her.

I believe that it is precisely under the care and care of the family that can make the life of the elderly more secure, so that in the end, it will make the life of each individual more happy and beautiful in their later years.

Love is happy and sweet, and each of us hopes that we can tie the knot with the person we like the most and spend a wonderful life together. ......But in real life, it is very difficult to find an ideal partner, and many times we meet people who are in good condition in all aspects, but we don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.

Personally, I think that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find.

1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.

In marriage, the most important factor is the relationship between each other. ......Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.

And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.

2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. ......Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. ......If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and it is impossible for him to marry such a person.

3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.

Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. ......Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, and you can't simply use whether you like it or not. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and such a marriage can make you the happiest.