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People are connected by the same, and grow by being different. With this sentence as a premise. In our relationship, I have experienced the universal love of the universe, and our differences have made our human cavity so intimidating.

Feelings: If you still hold on, it means that you can't get over the hurdle in your heart, and if you are unwilling to let go, it means that you have learned to give up the things that should be given up, from grasping to learning to let go, this is growth.

1. "Harmony without difference" means: to live in harmony, but not to go along casually.

Pinyin: hé ér bù tóng

2. "Same but not harmonious."

"Hui" means to answer: to cater to other people's psychology, to echo other people's words, but not to have a harmonious and friendly attitude.

Pinyin: tóng ér bù hé

3. Source: From the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period Confucius's "Analects and Zilu": The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious.

Translation: A gentleman gets along with others in harmony, but does not go along with others casually. The villain blindly goes along with the words of others, but in his heart he is not friendly to others.

"Gentlemen are harmonious but different, villains are the same but not harmonious", is a Confucian thought, from the "Analects of the Zilu", which means: a gentleman can maintain a harmonious and friendly relationship with others in interpersonal communication, but he does not have to agree with the other party in his views on specific issues; The so-called "same but not harmonious" refers to the villain's habit of catering to other people's psychology and echoing other people's remarks in their views on issues. But deep down, he doesn't have a harmonious and friendly attitude.

1) "The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious" means that the difference between the gentleman and the villain is that the gentleman is frank, even if he has different opinions, he is broad-minded, can express his views amiably and fairly, and does not make small moves when asking each other, but the villain does not express when it should be expressed, and echoes it on the surface, but in private it is tearing each other down. If you want to be a fair person, you must dare to speak your own opinions, just like a gentleman, even if there are disagreements with each other, you can express them without selfishness. (2) "The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious" This sentence expresses the essence of the friendship between the gentleman and the villain, and the "same" on the surface of the villain does not represent "and", and "and" should be a virtue in a higher sense and more essential, which can reflect a person's quality and is also a high moral requirement.

3) "Harmonious society" should be based on the requirements of "harmony", and achieve a high degree of unity between man and nature, and between people. The harmonious society we are building now is a society in which people and society live in harmony, and the society we want to build is a real harmony rather than a superficial harmony, and a long-term harmony rather than a temporary harmony. Therefore, in the process of building a harmonious society, we should proceed from reality, use science to develop the best problems, improve our own quality, and strive to contribute to the construction of a harmonious society in our country, rather than doing superficial things.

If we can all adopt a gentleman's approach, harmony but difference, then our family and unit can not only be harmonious, but also continue to develop. If individuals and groups can achieve harmony and diversity, the construction of a harmonious society will be just around the corner.

In everyday life, it is perfectly normal for people to have different views on a certain issue. True friends should seek consensus by exchanging opinions and communicating ideas; That is, if it is not possible to unify the mind for the time being, it will not hurt the harmony, and it can be proved by the test of time whose opinion is more correct; Therefore, true gentlemanly friendship does not seek consistency everywhere and at all times; On the contrary, only by tolerating the other party's independent views and not concealing their own different views can we be regarded as sincere and honest with each other. However, this is not the case with those little people who live in a camp, they either hide their thoughts, or they have no thoughts of their own at all, and only know that everyone is like the clouds and sees the wind and steers; What's more, the party is the same as the other, and the line is drawn by people

Defend the opinions of "friends", even if they are wrong; Oppose the views of the "enemy", even those who are right. In this way, different circles are drawn between people and different gangs are formed. The true meaning of "friend" is gone.

Harmony and difference mean harmony, but it doesn't matter if you have different opinions. The same but not the same is the same on the surface, but the heart does not agree.

The former: the two have a good relationship and have different opinions.

The latter: the two have the same opinion, but the relationship is not good.

"Gentlemen are harmonious but different, come.

The villain is of the same origin but not in harmony". The bai gentleman uses "righteousness" to restrain himself and subordinate himself to himself

Starting from the interests of the party, the principle of "dao harmony" is adopted, so that the gentleman can listen to the opinions of others and put forward his own independent opinions. The villain is swayed by "profit", starting from his own selfish interests, he takes "same" as the principle, blindly follows and agrees with it, and is unwilling or afraid to put forward his own opinions.

That's what I understand.

Harmony and difference"It means that they are two different things, but they are not the same.

Same but not in harmony"It means that two things of the same type do not come together.

The gentleman and the people are integrated but not as good as glue, and the villains look like glue but have intrigue in their hearts.

"Because of the release of the tree and the plant, hope to get the rabbit back" Translation: So, the farmer put down his farming tools and stayed by the stump day and night, hoping to get another rabbit.

The rabbit cannot be recovered, and as Song Guoxiao. However, it is impossible for the hare to be obtained again, and he himself is laughed at by the Song people.

From: Warring States Han Feizi "Han Feizi Five Worms".

Excerpt from the original text: The Song people had cultivators. There is a plant in the field, and the rabbit touches the plant, breaks its neck and dies. Because of the release of its plowing and guarding, hoping to recover the rabbit. The rabbit cannot be recovered, and as Song Guoxiao. Now I want to use the government of the previous kings to govern the people of the world, and they all keep the trees and so on.

Translation: There was a farmer in the Song Kingdom who had a stump in his field. One day, a hare that was running fast crashed into a tree stump, broke its neck and died.

So the farmer put down his farming implements and stood by the stump day and night, hoping to get another rabbit. But it was impossible for the hare to get it again, and he himself was laughed at by the Song people. Now if you want to use the past statecraft to govern the people of today, this is all a mistake like waiting for a rabbit!

Translation: (1) So he put down his rake and went to guard the stump, hoping to get the rabbit again.

2) The rabbit could not be obtained again, but he became a joke of the Song people.

The source of the sentence:

The Song people had cultivators. There is a plant in the field, and the rabbit touches the plant, breaks its neck and dies. Because of the release of its plowing and guarding, hoping to recover the rabbit. The rabbit cannot be recovered, and as Song Guoxiao. - Han Feizi

Full sentence translation: There is a farmer in the Song Kingdom who is turning the soil in the field. Suddenly, he saw a hare scurry out of the grass beside him, hit his head on the stump of a tree at the edge of the field, and lay there motionless. The farmer walked over and took a look:

The rabbit died. Because it ran so fast that it broke its neck. The peasant was so happy that he picked up a fat and large hare for nothing, without spending any effort.

He thought to himself; If you can pick up hares every day, life will be better. From then on, he no longer refused to make efforts to farm. Every day he put his hoe by his side and lay down in front of the stump, waiting for the second and third hare to crash into the stump on his own.

There are so many cheap things in the world. The farmer, of course, did not pick up any more hares that had been killed, and his fields were deserted.

Appreciation: This is a well-known fable. The rabbit crashed and died on a tree stump on its own, which is an accidental phenomenon in life.

The farmer in the Song Kingdom mistook it for a recurring inevitability, and ended up in a barren countryside with nothing. If you don't rely on your own diligent labor, but want to live by good luck, you will not get good results. We must not be stupid people who "wait for the rabbit".

Guarding the stump because of this. Hope to get rabbits again. But the rabbit can't be recovered, and he has become a joke of the Song Kingdom.

So the farmer put down his tools and stood by the stump day and night, hoping to get another rabbit, but he tried to get more, and he himself was ridiculed by the people who gave it away.

He put down his farming tools and stood by the stake, trying to get the rabbit again. You can't get a rabbit without labor! You can't get it for nothing. Because he was very stupid in what he did, he was laughed at by the Song people.

The farmer put down his farming implements and stood by the stump day and night, hoping to get another rabbit.

Because it is its plow and guard, hoping to recover the rabbit, the rabbit can not be recovered, and as Song Guoxiao, it means that the farmer put down the farm tools and guarded in front of the stump day and night, but the rabbit could not get it again, and he himself was laughed at by Song Guo.

Because of the release of its plowing and guarding, I hope to regain the rabbit translation.

So the farmer put down his tools and stood by the stump, hoping to get the rabbit.

Another day the rabbit ran over, bumped, the stem of the rabbit on the stump broke, the Song Dynasty people saw it, went to pick up the rabbit that was killed, he put down his farm tools, next to the tree, hoping that there would be another dead rabbit, and then was laughed at by Song Chaoren.

So the farmer put down his tools and stayed by his side day and night, waiting for another rabbit to return.

So he put down his farming tools and stood by the stump to get another rabbit.

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Get it calmly: get things to be upright and bright, worthy of others, not to harm others and benefit yourself.

Lose indifferently: If you lose something, you should treat it indifferently and be indifferent to fame and fortune.

Fighting for the inevitable: It means that I can only insist on the necessity of reason, that is to say, the only thing that can make me argue and insist is the truth. Don't argue, don't argue unreasonably. People should be upright, uphold if they are reasonable, admit if they are unreasonable, and listen to the truth with an open mind.

Go with the flow: It means to conform to the natural development of things without human interference.

Calm means to confess, to be at ease, and to look calm. See Han Ruan Yu's "Writing Books for Cao Gong and Sun Quan": "The responsibility of Jiang Biao will be paid for a long time." High position, calm and considerable. ”

Indifferent, a Chinese word, pinyin: dàn rán Interpretation: careless, unconcerned. It is also described as indifferent to fame and fortune, indifferent, light color, etc. Nowadays, it mostly refers to a state of mind that pursues spiritual enjoyment and avoids worldly material desires.

inevitable: [ bì rán ].

1.Attribute words. Something is certain in the matter: the trend. Victory belongs to the strong-willed.

2.Philosophically, it refers to the objective law of development that does not depend on people's will: the replacement of old things by new things is a historical development.

Nature: [ zì ran ].

Not reluctantly; Not cramped; Not dull: the attitude is very . He was acting for the first time, but he acted quite well.

zì rán ]

1.Nature: Large.

2.free development; Without human intervention: Immunization. Listen to it. Yes. Don't ask, you'll understand when the time comes.

3.It is taken for granted: as long as you study hard, you will get good grades.

4.Concatenating clauses or sentences to indicate semantic inflections or additional remarks: you should be humble enough to learn from the strengths of others, and others should learn from your strengths.

These four sentences are all about how people should have inner cultivation and how to better adjust themselves in the face of the complex external world.

Get it calmly: to get things to be upright and bright, take them in the right way, not harm others and benefit yourself, and have a clear conscience.

Indifferent to loss: There must be gains and losses, we must look down on gains and losses, don't be complacent for what we get, and don't dwell on what we lose.

Fighting for its inevitability: It means that I can only adhere to the inevitable reason, that is to say, the only thing that can make me argue and adhere to it is the truth, not to argue, not to argue unreasonably, to be upright, to defend if reasonable, to admit if unreasonable, and to listen to the truth with an open mind.

Go with the flow: It means that all things have their own laws of development, and the world cannot be forced. In many cases, it is up to people to do things, and it is up to heaven to do things. For the experience and results of life, we must face it with a clear mood and always have a normal heart.

"Gain calmly, lose indifferently, and strive for its inevitability" means:

If you get it, you won't be too excited, and you won't be too sorry if you lose it, and it is inevitable to strive for its progress. "Miscellaneous Feelings".

Similar ancient poems: Song] Hui Kai Zen Master.

There are flowers in spring, there are moons in autumn, cool breeze in summer, and snow in winter.

If there is nothing to worry about, it is a good time in the world.

Enlightenment: For many experiences and results, we must face them with a clear mood and always have a normal heart.

In fact, these four sentences are all about how people should have inner cultivation and how to better adjust themselves in the face of the complex external world.