What should I do if I suddenly have no idea of reading, and I urgently ask for everyone s help

Teach you a way, don't you don't want to read, or don't have the motivation to read? Don't know what reading is for? That's easy, you take a month off from school, and during this month, you go to see how your parents support their family, and if your parents work well, you go to the grassroots level to see, to experience, not only to experience, but also to work.

In the case that you have no academic qualifications and no social experience, look at how you live during this month. Of course, this idea must be discussed with your parents first. Seriously, I was also born in the 90s, but at that time, like you, I wanted to study and had no goals.

I only know that if the grades are good, the parents will be happy and have face. Hehe! Because there was a rebellion at the time, it was just not easy to read, and in the end the victim was himself...

Listen to me, there are not many opportunities to read. Cherish it ...

Actually, this kind of psychology. Maybe it's normal to be ruthless. After all, they've all been there.

What about you, think about it. Teachers and classmates used to have a lot of hope for you. Also, three years is a long journey.

Finally, do you want to give up the success after a failure? Think about it. The teacher is like this, it's not that he dislikes you or what.

Perhaps, you should also change yourself. I should tell myself that since the teacher treats me like this, then I will show him. I can.

Shouldn't you tell yourself that you can work so hard. Why can't I. Yes, and I will do better than them.

Isn't it, everybody, you can. You can too. Think about it, these three years.

It's not easy. All the wind and waves pass through Lak. Are we still afraid of this kind of wind and rain?

First of all, according to you, there is a bit of potential for OCD.

I don't know if you've heard the story of the axe, it's a person who lost the axe, and everyone looked like he stole the axe, and then the axe was found, and I felt that no one looked like he stole the axe...

So sometimes the pressure of learning has to be released and adjusted by yourself, and there is no time to at least give yourself a psychological holiday, so that you can study easily, it is good to have pressure, but too much pressure can only be a burden, depending on how you grasp the scale.

Suggestion: Talk to the teacher about it, maybe it's all your own idea, I believe most teachers are still good for the students. If you have any pressure, talk to your good friends or parents, don't carry it alone, it's tiring.

It is recommended that you communicate more with your parents, and reflect your real situation and inner feelings with the teacher, and ask the teacher to help you find your impulse to learn.

It's a pity that I'm too stupid. The first 3 is to endure it. Now I think it's a joy to learn without getting tired at all. Just don't take it as pain. You'll also find the joy of reading.

As a sophomore, I want to tell you, come on high school! When you fill in the application at the end of the college entrance examination, you will realize that you will regret and be annoyed if you do poorly. That's when the importance of scores comes in.

Also, when you get to college, you will miss your high school life very much. It's hard and tiring, but it's real. High school has your wonderful teachers, and there are a lot of classmates around you who are very open-minded.

And when it comes to college, there will be a lot of free time, and eighty percent of the people will spend it in decadence. So, don't complain about being bitter and tired now, and enjoy your good time now!

If you go to a prestigious school, you won't choose to go abroad and dream about the future.

Regret is just because you can't keep up with your homework, and you're a little anxious inside. This is not something that can be solved in a while, you usually work hard in your spare time, study carefully during class, mark down what you don't understand, and ask teachers and classmates between classes. You have a great advantage in being able to study in such a good school, if you go back to your previous school, yes, you can understand, but how about the college entrance examination, the college entrance examination is not selected within your school, but nationally.

Learn from each other's strengths, rather than the phoenix tail, not the chicken head.

Besides, you don't want to go to school not because you don't like to study, but because the pressure is too great, the difficulty is too great, and sometimes you really can't stand it, and you will have the idea of giving up. But come to think of it, nothing is smooth sailing. Even if you don't study, go into social work early, do the lowest job, others sit in the office for eight hours a day, seven or eight thousand a month, and your electronics factory is twelve hours, and you work hard every month is only three or four thousand, then you will feel that the society is unfair, but at that time you think about it, you were given a chance before, and you are not sure, how can it be unfair.

In fact, when I was in high school, I also had this thought, I was reprimanded by my father and barely graduated, and now I regret my lack of study after working, if I work hard, it will be better now.

You're not wrong, but you're forward-looking. Actually. Reading was useful in the past few years, but now it's useless to read, and this society is not suitable for reading.

Need technology In fact, after reading so many books, I found that if you don't want to be a government institution. Don't go to undergrad. A junior college is much better than an undergraduate.

Age is also an advantage. After all, there is one more year of undergraduate. It is best to choose a major based on your favorite industry.

Interest is the best teacher. Scores are important. But the profession must know how to be proficient!

At the same time, the score went up naturally.

No, knowledge changes destiny, if your family is not rich, you don't have much energy, you don't have the ability to study hard.

Try to do something else, like learning a new language, as if it were of some other use. Reading is still useful, it's really lacking, it's better to change some magazines to read, of course, it's just a supplementary meal, and you have to eat a main meal!

That's because you don't have a place to use it yet, and when you work, you'll want to go back to school and study a little bit.

Hey, useful, believe me, I regretted it first.

As the saying goes: there are very few books to use! Don't think that everything is in books when you read a book, go to school, and do everything.

In fact, there is a lot of knowledge needed in real life and work, but I often feel that the knowledge I have learned is not very useful, which is practical. But we have to have a good mindset and show the value of our learning when we really need it. Reading is not for nothing, and it is impossible to do without knowledge in today's society.

If you think you read it in vain, have you ever wondered what it would have been like if you hadn't read the book for 12 years? When you go to society, you will know the difference between those who read books and those who do not, and the difference between those who read more and those who read less. So you don't say it right now:

You've been reading for 12 years. All right?

When you work, it shows that there are a lot of people who are not as good as you.

After all, we are highly educated, and our overall quality must be higher, so we should not be too inferior.

I'm a college student, and to be honest, I also have your current feelings, but what can be done? It's been like this for more than ten years, and there is a saying that you have heard that the young man is sad if he doesn't work hard. It's still time, as long as you work hard, the bread will still be there.

It's not that you have nothing, it's just that you don't discover the hidden value of what you have, and these things can only show their value in what you do. All you have"Everything"It may all be your future wealth. Go for it!

People sometimes think that way. In fact, there must be a return for paying, but in a different form. Books are hated less when they are used. Besides, reading is not reading, it is reading people, reading youth, reading friends, and reading life.

Start all over again (it would be helpful to learn more about other things while you're young).

Education is a process, society is a book, let's learn, learning is endless.

I feel that books are meant to be read, but I feel that it is useless after reading them.

Now everything is the same, when I was in junior high school, I gave up going to school to study, to learn a skill, I think I think school costs too much money, too long, and it is not easy to find a job, I believe that whether it is a book or a degree will have achievements, but the premise is not to give up! Don't be melancholy! Be brave and break through.

Like you, it's hard to feel uncomfortable, hey.

Do you think that 12 years of books have been read in vain, and I still think that 20 years of books have been read in vain, hey, confused

Try to supplement your brain with knowledge, the current social competition is very bad, survival of the fittest, even if you don't want to read, then you have to have a technology to put yourself on defense.

Watch an inspirational movie to motivate you.

Because the current ** of depression is not completely clear now, it is difficult to be thorough** and not**, but you have already said that you have improved, which is a good start, and I believe that it will get better and better if you stick to it. I think some words of comfort may not be of much use to you, but I hope you will remember a little bit of concern and reason for you to keep going when you are particularly down. Maybe at some point you will be very painful, very low, uncomfortable and there is no way to describe it, maybe your friends and family will not be able to feel your pain, but they all understand what situation you are in, so they will wait and accompany you until you overcome yourself.

A lot of celebrities have had depression and have been fine since then. I still remember when Mr. Wu Zhihong was depressed, he said in the book: Because I didn't really have the power to control it, I let it suffer as much as I could, and let it feel sad when it was sad, and it actually made me discover... In short, I wish you.

What I wrote below, you must take a look, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

If you believe in the Buddha and start learning the Buddha and chanting the sutras, then you will be saved! Every time there is a puja in Hong Kong, Malaysia, etc., a few patients like you and even much more serious than you come to the stage to share their experiences of being saved by chanting sutras, making wishes, and letting go of illness. You can take a look at the blog of the director of Oriental Chinese Radio in Australia, there are too many cases in it.

Learn Buddhism and start a spiritual journey of self-salvation.

If I want to drop out because I have been out of school for too long, my advice is to discuss with the principal about repeating the grade. You can stay one level. Since you want to continue your studies, you want to go to college, why not go ahead?

It's all your choice, and I think my family wants you to keep reading. Maybe you don't want to repeat a grade and don't know if you can repeat a grade, but I hope you can pray to God for this reason, and Jesus, who was crucified and scapegoated for the world, loves you.

Have you ever considered the reasons for your depression, what you can't see in life, list these problems of yourself, and then think about the worst results of your problems, and then overcome them one by one. I suggest you read Carnegie's book, after all, he influenced many people around the world. Hope it helps.

Friends, don't lose faith! The most important thing you need to do now is to have a positive attitude, and in addition to taking medicine, you have to think of various ways to ** yourself. Everyone has suffering, and our suffering and suffering are the same.

You have to find out your **, in fact, depression or something is about yourself and yourself can't get by. It's good to be happy, don't be too depressed.

I think it's better to go to school, after all, studying can broaden my horizons and help me a lot with depression.

Brother, listen to your inner voice, do what you want, and be brave.

Multifactorial intervention with the Chinese and Western medicine system can be used for about half a year.

Let's go to reading, reading is good.

Alas. It is recommended to search the blog "Heart Lotus Times" to see.

Hope it helps.

Can we talk? I wonder what is the root cause of your illness? What the hell made you change depression.

If you can, find a teaching assistant while treating the disease...

I understand your feelings! Have dreams.

Young man, where is the second year of junior high school, communicate well with your parents, don't pay attention to those messy things, it's still too late to study hard. Personally, I think reading books will see a different world.

Why do you have this kind of thought, if it's just that life is too difficult, then insist on persevering, persist for a while, have persevered for so long before, in persistence, you will find the difference, if you feel that you suddenly can't find the direction of life, then set a goal for yourself, set a small goal first, completed, set a big goal, if you can't find a goal, save money seriously, when you save a certain amount of money, you will find that money can make you motivated, if it's just a relationship problem, it's really a small thing, I always feel that when you fall in love, you can be crazy, emotional, and unreasonable. The premise is that each other is happy in this state. But as long as one party feels uncomfortable, they should immediately call a halt and discuss a solution rationally.

Whether it's compromise or rules, it's all hard work. But if you really don't like it, then don't pretend to work in vain. All the avoidance, "I'm busy right now", is a very uncool, not high-class, irresponsible excuse. Above.