What moment did you feel like you never wanted to be in a relationship again?

etc., is a particularly difficult thing. There will always be times when you don't want to take the initiative and don't want to wait, tell yourself that he just doesn't want to pay attention to you, and that someone who likes you is not afraid of trouble or busy. Finally, it's time, so, goodbye.

I don't have to worry about it, I don't have to wait any longer, let you go, and let myself go.

It's like not meeting someone who can hold an umbrella for you on a rainy day, and not meeting the next person who can disturb your heart. It's never like a person to be with him, there are many helplessness in life, and love is the same. After going through too much, you will be numb and overwhelmed, as if you can't find your way home, in fact, you are still looking for and waiting for the person who can take you out of the predicament.

You have to believe that there is such a person waiting for you in front of you. There is still a long way to go in life, don't give up easily, and don't despair easily. If you are injured, hug yourself, adjust your mood, we have to continue on the road, the future is unknown but it must be wonderful!

Only those who have experienced pain and loss will have the opportunity to cherish their happiness and have more courage to meet the arrival of tomorrow...So, don't be afraid, you will always be the only one.

Love itself is a serious and beautiful thing, but now the attitude of many parents makes young people mistakenly give birth to a sense of superiority like a draft, as if resources are inexhaustible, and they are less and less cherished feelings, and do not understand that love is an attraction and a struggle.

Once when I was walking on the road, I saw a young couple arguing on the side of the road, and the man hit the woman, and I cried and didn't want to fall in love.

Three years together, going out to the park together. It was raining in the middle of the walk, and I was drenched in heavy rain, so he took me to the Internet café in order to save money, and there was no place yet, so he sat at the entrance of the Internet café at the position of an air inlet. I sat for an hour with my teeth chattering, and he didn't hang me the whole time.

At that moment, I suddenly felt what was it that kept me going for three years.

I stayed up late that day and took an eight-hour train to Shanghai to find him, and the April morning was still cold. At 6 o'clock, the door to Metro Line 1 was not open, and there was no signal in the basement of the train station. I was standing alone in the crowd, cold and hungry.

Finally, after seven o'clock, the door of the subway opened, and ** was opened. I took Line 1 to People's Square and waited for him until 10:30 in the square of Pedestrian Street.

He must not have known how cold it was that morning.

The price of maturity is dearly, and it means losing a lot of things to receive some life lessons. So there are some roads that must be taken, and there are no shortcuts. Not wanting to talk about it anymore is almost impossible for most people, it's just your thoughts at a certain stage, and after this stage you let go of some love and hatred, you will talk about it again.

I would think for a moment that I didn't want to fall in love, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason is that for men, the cost of a relationship is too high nowadays. Adults don't fall in love and have fun when they were students. Since we talked about it, most of them are rushing to get married, and since we want to get married, we have to think about the future.

Garage and so on, since the girlfriend may not care about this, what about her family? Therefore, if you don't have enough financial foundation, it's better not to fall in love for now.

The second reason is that for women, women are becoming more and more independent, and even the status of women is gradually higher than that of men. Therefore, for independent women, they can choose their own lifestyle according to their own wishes, rather than being forced to go on a blind date when they reach the age, and then get married and have children.

The third reason is that there are many reasons to fall in love, and most of the reasons why men don't fall in love are pressure, their own three nos, no job, no house, no ability, etc. We men don't know the woman's thoughts, only ourselves. So there are a lot of people who don't fall in love now, men think differently from women, men think comprehensively and thoughtfully, they just want people to marry me with such a big beauty, what to do if they let the family suffer, and they don't have the financial ability to talk about it.

The fourth reason is that some people feel that falling in love is a waste of time and energy, and they are happy by themselves, but having another person will affect their own life, and they may feel troublesome and feel that there is no need for another person to intervene in their lives. Once you have a other half, you have to think about each other, and you have to echo the other half's requirements, and they even feel that dating is boring, and it is better to focus on what interests you or your own work when you have time to be in love.

The fifth reason is that the idea of love is different. Because people are too busy and lazy nowadays, busy because they have to start taking care of their families and their lives when they are about 20 years old, most people in society are busy making money, because many people will think that if they have money, they will stare at everything, so they will change the meaning of love.

You must have thought about Lu Danzhu, when your love broke up, a lot of things happened in love, and many things that happened when you broke up will make you feel a lot of accompaniment, so at this time you feel very uncomfortable, because love hurt you Chi Jian, so you don't want to fall in love anymore, it's good to live alone.

Maybe the girls I met loved me more, so I didn't want to fall in love for a moment, if it wasn't for the beauty and good love of the sedan chair, I would choose to give up, and I would especially cherish Fan Qi when I met a beautiful love.

If you have a problem in your relationship, or if the relationship between two people breaks down, you definitely don't want to go, and you may continue.

I had a passion for a while, probably because I was scared by the failed love of my friends, and I didn't have the courage to start a new love.

Yes, there are often such thoughts, because if you want to be in love for a long time, you must accommodate each other, and you will be tired after a long time.

I thought about it, when the other party was very capable, I felt very annoyed, I felt too tired to fall in love, and I didn't want to fall in love at that time.

Yes, because it is very troublesome to fall in love, and I have to take care of each other's emotions all the time, so I have such thoughts.

Yes, the human mind sometimes does.

There is little change, but then again.

Return to a calm mind.

Nowadays, young people accept a lot of new things, in today's highly developed material life, the cost of love is not as good as before, bread is necessary, why don't you fall in love? It is inseparable from these six reasons.

01.Probably not come across another one like that.

I don't want to ask a person's name, age sign and hobbies anymore, because I may not have met such a person again, it is already difficult to like myself, and it will really be difficult to like others again. can't give me love, and want to share my bread. Time only wants to be used to make money, and only after surviving can emotional problems be considered.

02.It is better to invest in others than in yourself.

Investing in others is not as good as investing in yourself, you say, falling in love is a matter of two people after all, one party is unwilling, or one party can't get along, it's better than a person, in today's society, the pressure is so great, it may be better to meet true love, but when you meet the kind of fruitless, how happy a person is, how free, and improving yourself is the most important thing.

03.There is still a lot of important work to be done.

I just understand that in this world, in addition to love, there are many important things to do, commitment to family, commitment to oneself, and the need for life, sometimes, when you can't even solve basic material problems, it's even more difficult to love, referring to Maslow's needs theory, which is why many young boys break up with their girlfriends, when the pressure is adults and tired, girlfriends have to ask noisily, why don't you pick me up**? Don't you love me anymore? Naturally, I can't stand it.

04.If you don't feel in love, you can talk about it.

Nowadays, many young people don't want to fall in love, and think that it is good to be alone, some people are too demanding and can't find a suitable partner, and some people are too poor to find a partner. Love is not just talking, feelings depend on fate, when love doesn't come, it's useless to be in a hurry, when love comes, you can't stop it.

05.It's too constrained to fall in love.

Because it's annoying to be in love. One person is very free, two people have to chat every day, but also consider each other's feelings, and prefer to be alone and chic. If the stress and troubles that come with it become double, you will spend too much time, money, and energy to maintain your love.

After weighing the pros and cons, some people will of course choose not to fall in love and not to cause trouble for themselves.

06.Reality does not allow it.

I was abused by work every day, let alone caring for someone; Chased by life every day, when I open my eyes, it is rent, living expenses, transportation expenses, and my head is full of money, how can I think about love. The cost is too high, and now getting married requires a house and a car, and many people don't want to get married and have no motivation to fall in love.