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Agreeing with this sentence, the current class reunion has basically become a show-off assembly. The people who start the party are generally people who have achieved something and have achieved a certain amount of success, and most of the people who start the party are to show off their success, so this kind of party is poor. Those who go to participate think that they have achieved something.
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I agree with this sentence, because, the person who chooses not to participate in the class reunion is likely to have a very bad life in the past few years, and he doesn't want to be seen by his old classmates, so as to laugh at him, on the contrary, the person who goes is also because he is doing very well, so he will show off to others.
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I agree with this sentence, during class reunions, those who are generally poorly mixed are not willing to participate, and only those who are well mixed are willing to show off.
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agrees, now the alumni association has basically become a wealth show meeting, all of which brag and show off at the wine table, and they are all not poor to have capital.
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I agree with this sentence very much, as a former classmate, once in the same running line, if you feel that you are quite different from those classmates, then you don't want to go at all, because you feel that you are very useless, you will have a sense of inferiority, so the students who go are confident in themselves.
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I agree with this sentence, because if you are poor, you have no face, and only those who are rich will want to show off.
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I agree with that. Because poor people are embarrassed to go to class reunions, for fear that others will look down on them. Rich people want to go to class reunions and take the opportunity to show off.
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Some people say "class reunions, the poor don't go, the poor don't go", I agree with this sentence, because after coming out of school, I have been in the society for a few years, and have experienced the complexity of society.
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I couldn't agree more. Because the poor are embarrassed to go to the party, the people who will go are the rich.
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As far as I am concerned, when I get together with my classmates, the gap between the rich and the poor is too big, and I will not have too much inferiority, but I will definitely touch my heart, and I will think deeply about why I am not better than others, and I will ask my rich classmates for advice on how to make money, and learn more from him
No one doesn't like money, and no one doesn't want to win their careers and become a good person, especially those who have started a family, and of course want to let their family and relatives and friends live a good life.
Therefore, those who participate in the classmates meeting and find that the classmates are better than me, richer than themselves, and say that they will not be inferior and have no feelings, are either fools, or cover their ears and steal the bell, even if you yourself do not want to compare, then usually with colleagues, and friends at the same time, it is impossible to compare at all!People live better than us, although we don't have to envy, jealousy and hate, but as long as it is a man with a little face and a little ambition, at least he will move in his mind, thinking that if one day I can also drive a luxury car, live in a big house, and have endless money, let my wife and children live a good life with me!
We are not afraid that classmates will have low self-esteem when they get together, and they will envy their classmates who have a good life, this is the sophistication of human feelings, and this kind of mood shake is the psychological state of normal people, and it is strange to be indifferent, but we have to think deeply, why the same graduation for so many years, the same starting point, others mix well, I mix poorly, others have money, I have no money, what is the problem after all?Is it because I don't work hard enough, or because I lack talent, or because someone else has a mine at home and is still married well?Why don't I have such good luck and good timing?
If you want to understand these truths, you should catch up and strive to make yourself a rich person and the envy of your classmates. Since people are members of society, it is impossible for them to exist independently from the crowd, even if you are detached, it is impossible for your family, children, relatives and friends not to compare with others, even if they are willing to live a poor life with you, is it meaningful for you to live such a life with your family?
So, I don't know much about people who see that their classmates are richer than me, and that they are poor and are indifferent, either they are willing to go to the house, or they are just hiding their ears and stealing the bell, or what is the purpose of your meeting?As an adult, to participate in the alumni association, is it just to reminisce about the old days and recall the troubles of the student days?Wake up!
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Yes, you will have low self-esteem, and now you will feel that the gap is relatively large in the process of chatting, and you will be very disappointed at this time, and you will slowly be reluctant to participate in the party.
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I won't participate, I feel very boring, and if the gap is particularly large, I will definitely feel inferior, which is the psychology that everyone has.
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No, because my relationship with them is not very good. Yes, because at that time they were all on the same footing, and the current gap makes me a little uncomfortable.
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When we started working, we kept in touch with our classmates. However, since most of the classmates don't have a very good relationship, they basically don't keep in touch. However, occasionally a high-profile student will come forward to organize a class reunion, and then everyone will start to mumble in their hearts.
Some people will feel that everyone is not in good shape, and they have private parties with good relationships, so there is no need to participate in this kind of class reunion. There are also some people who think that this kind of class reunion is just a party to show off themselves, and there is no point in it. So, why is it said that the "poor" can't afford to go to class reunions, and those who go are not poor?
First of all, formal class reunions now choose relatively high-end hotels and private clubs, and the money is too high, and the poor really can't afford to go. Second, because they are all parties that show off themselves, the rich are most willing to go.
1. Luxurious class reunion
Most people love face after entering the society, and they must dress very appropriately when they go out, necklaces and earrings are indispensable, and brand-name bags are not missing. Therefore, if you are attending a party, you will generally feel that a high-end hotel or private club will have more face. What's more, students who haven't seen each other for many years want to get together together, and the place of the meeting can't be too low-grade.
Therefore, those "poor" will naturally not go for the sake of face, and even if they go, they will not be able to afford to pay for it. Therefore, the "poor" cannot afford to go.
Second, the display meeting
It's not so much a class reunion as a showmanship. If you open your classmates, everyone understands what the meaning of the party is, which is not to exchange feelings, but to let your classmates see how well they mix, how rich or statusy they are. Therefore,Only when you are very rich or become a big official will you go to the class reunion, otherwise you will just foil others
Therefore, it is not the poor who go to the class reunion.
Personally, I think that the class reunion has changed its taste, and if you really want to get together with your good classmates, it is better to have a meal with a few people in private. What do you think?
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Because now many classmates will go, and they have all changed their taste, and it has become a kind of party to show off their wealth, and people who go there are special outfits.
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Because most of the class reunions are AA system, and the hotels booked are also relatively high-end, not only to eat but also to go out to play, this series of expenses is unaffordable for the poor, so the people who generally go are not poor.
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Because at class reunions, some people have a comparison mentality and want to promote their success with their classmates. Those students who don't mix well generally don't want to go to the party.
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Because the current class reunion has long since changed its taste, instead of really contacting feelings, just comparing with each other, what is expensive will be played, so it is unaffordable without a certain financial ability.
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Because a class reunion is a kind of gathering to show off your wealth. Students who don't have money will feel particularly faceless and lose their dignity after they go.
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Because when the poor go to the party, they can't avoid comparison, so those who have a bad life generally don't go to the class reunion.
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Because to show off, if the poor go they will be ostracized, they will be ridiculed, and those who go are there to show off.
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Because the alumni reunion has now become a place for comparison, the poor will not go, because the people who go are people with small achievements.
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Personally, I agree with this sentence very much, often poor people don't want their classmates to know that they are not doing well, and they can't afford to lose that person, and those who go, they often want others to know how superior they are.
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Because of class reunions, most of them are comparing, and they are not really connecting feelings at all.
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I think that class reunions can't be seen as poor or poor, and being able to get together is to consolidate the emotions of the study period, rather than comparing themselves and others, which will lead to the shattering of the innocent friendship between classmates.
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Because class reunions have now become tasteless and have become a meeting to show off their wealth, students who have not developed well tend to have low self-esteem.
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One age, one stage, everyone's work, life is different, in the same class, at the same table, graduated together, after graduation, there is a relationship, there is a backstage, the work is picked:, it doesn't matter, carry a stick on your shoulder, two snakeskin bags, go out to beg for food, the starting point is different, and the party is not the same.
Every year, many college students enter the workplace, and there are also many college students facing unemployment.
For me, classmates with good relationships are in constant contact even if they don't attend class reunions, while classmates with bad relationships, even if they get in touch through class reunions, rarely intersect in later days.
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I've never been to a class reunion, not once. What kind of psychology is inferiority, people are admitted to college, but they don't. I'm in my 40s, and our admission rate at that time was too low, less than 20 on average, so if you're not in the top five in your class, don't get your hopes up. >>>More
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This kind of class reunion is really boring, it just feels like going to a circus, and then everyone is scrambling to show off some of their wealth, and it is very meaningless and a waste of time to show off.