When you have loved, is there really only hate left?

If you don't love it, you don't have to hate! If you love that person, even if you will be separated, there is still love left in your heart, and you will hate, maybe you are unwilling to this feeling! I hope you see it, it's not her fault that they are separated, and please tell yourself that loving someone is just to make the other person happier!

Separated, love faded, why dwell on hate, it will only make it more difficult for yourself to start your new life, and it will even cause harm to her, I guess this is not what you want! After all, I loved, I still cared, I still cared, and I hope that the other party is doing well! Don't let hatred ruin all the good feelings you once had, cherish those memories!

Hate is a heavy burden, and it will get heavier and heavier, making it impossible for you to start your new life, or even more entangled! Love, since it has been separated, it is time to learn to let go and continue to love, but it may just be that you are stupid and hurt! So, after falling out of love, choose to let go and choose to start your new life again!

Hate after love, maybe that's the transformation of love. Maybe that person still loves you so much!

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

Hate can also be transformed, and in the end, it will become self-blame.

I've loved and hated, and I just want to let go.

In this world, there is no one who does not have injuries. Everyone has inevitably suffered setbacks, shed tears, and broken hearts in this long life. The difference is that some people can change their past love and hatred indifferently, pat the dust and start again.

However, some people, after being injured, stand in place and grind their socks by themselves, and even have hatred in their hearts, immerse themselves in pain, and are reluctant to come out. As a result, not only did I embarrass myself, but I also missed the happiness in front of me. In fact, in this life, no matter when, the only one who can really ** himself is himself; The only thing that can really make yourself relaxed is to let go.

If you have loved and hated, it is better to let go.

Those who were desperate for love at the beginning, how are they doing now? <>

In this world, there is a feeling that can surpass parents and surpass everything, make people fall and make people desperate, even if others remind them, the advice of parents not only does not work, but causes rebellious psychology, feeling that they are too materialistic, and they can't be happy without a house or car, you have to let them see, without these things can be earned a little bit, even if there is no now and there will be in the future, moths to the fire to the person who is very good to you. Everything is let you, you are the mainstay, when you are angry, he will patiently coax you, cook for you, wash clothes, warm your stomach when your stomach hurts, take care of you, pamper you like a princess, remember all the festivals, secretly prepare surprises for you, you look at things twice, he will secretly save a few months' salary to buy you, neither of them is rich, but they can save money for each other, give her the best! <>

Finally, your love blossomed, and it was time to get married, choked up at the wedding, marrying you is the dream of his life, and will be good to you in the future, not letting you suffer a little grievance, cordial friends are touched by your feelings, I wish you happiness, and soon entered the married life, he is good to you as usual, but in a strange city, a strange place, your only reliance is him, you can only stick to him, after a long time, you began to slowly change between you, from knowing everything Words are endless to relatively speechless, you want him to chat more with you, he is always a sentence, very tired, where do two people have so many words to talk about every day, all the holidays began to shrink to only one birthday, and then the birthday gift was gone, and there was only one birthday cake! The two of them began to quarrel every now and then, and began to have a cold war, from the previous patience to coax you, to now let you cry until dawn, and when you heal yourself, you begin to examine what went wrong in this relationship! Why did you love each other so much before and now it has become a point where you can't wait to get divorced, because the cheap freshness is gone, and after the freshness, you see each other's shortcomings, you come to his city alone, and slowly hand over your heart under his careful care, and he is tired after taking care of him for a long time, and he feels that he is married and does not have so much sense of ceremony, they are all living, just make do, and after a long time, you don't want to quarrel, feel tired, and one day you don't want to make do with it and separate!

Because the three views of two people do not agree, they always can't talk together when facing some problems, and they often quarrel, and no one shows weakness, so it becomes hate.

It can only be said that this is not a pure love, just a fresh love, let the freshness fade, and the contradictions between each other will aggravate, then love will naturally turn into hate.

Because two people lack communication together, and they are unwilling to accommodate each other, they always quarrel, and over time they turn into hatred.

At first, it was love, but in the later stage, as time went by, the contradictions between the two people would gradually increase, and after the feelings of the two people were worn out, they would turn into hate.

Because two people will accumulate a lot of contradictions when they are together for a long time, and over time they will see each other as enemies.

In the end, he found that he couldn't love it, and there were other people in his heart, even if they were together, there would be all kinds of quarrels after a long time.

It's because everyone has a different way of loving someone, and there will be some contradictions in the process of two people getting along, so in the end it becomes hate.

Because there is a very good saying, love doesn't mind anything at first, and in the end doesn't forgive anything, when I love you, you do everything right, but as two people get along, they will be dissatisfied with each other, and in the end it will become disgust, and gradually hate.

That is, a good memory of noisy life, now they are 40 years old, it is a very mature age, and now they have their own love Tong Bangchang people, children, and their own happy family, after the age of 40, they will not regret the people they loved in the past. Because he has his family, he also has his own family, and now he is 40 years old, which is a relatively stable age, and he is not with the person he once loved deeply, because he was separated at that time, which means that the two people are not suitable, since they have been separated, they must accept the reality and face their new life, and they can't affect my future life because of him.

Learn to listen to your own voice and discern the difference between intuition and thinking. Be able to align with our inner thoughts when we are about to make a big decision or need to figure out why we should act. Sometimes we persist in the wrong path for a long time, and at this time we must recognize our limitations, admit the facts, and choose to give up when the time is right.

Focus more on the things you can control, spend time on the things we can change, and try to change ourselves rather than others. Life is a piece of pizza, the good and the bad are on it, and if you want to eat the delicious, you must accept the bad food.

Both good and bad things will happen in life, learn to accept it calmly, we are not the general director of life, and we can't deal with all the bad parts.

Accept the reality, do not stay in the past, do not live in the unrealistic imagination of the future, the past has become a fact and cannot be changed, learn to accept and turn it into an indispensable nutrient on the road to growth.

Live in the moment and cherish what we have while dreaming and working hard to complete the plan.

Be tolerant of the fact that wisdom does not grow with age, honestly face your shortcomings, accept your imperfections, and strive to change on this basis.