How to change your acute child, how to get rid of your acute child s problem

Why change?

It doesn't matter if it's likable or annoying! It's not a big deal!

The key is your heart, if you have a beautiful, kind heart!

I think you like this too!

Do you have to be yourself, change it back and forth, is it still yourself?

As long as you do things according to your conscience, then you will be accepted!

In fact, the real change is when you meet someone you like.

You can't help but make yourself beautiful every day.

Actually, your hand is raised, and you make a move.

People will see your self-cultivation.

There is a new development in life, and I want to change.

However, it takes time. Take it easy.

It's a great thing to want to change yourself. I appreciate people like that. Because such a person is at least not an immutable numb person. Remember the book "Who Moved My Cheese"? The world is always changing, and people must learn to grow through change.

1.Be clear about what you want to change into. Be specific and clear.

Because only when you have a clear personality and lifestyle that you want will you have a clear goal. Otherwise, it will seem blind. Because you yourself are very vague and hazy about what you want, so what can you talk about changing?

It's just that there is a desire to change, but it has no practical effect;

2.Start with a change in mindset. Change starts with your smile.

Start with the people around you--- I mean use the people around you as a test. Because your change will get their feedback the fastest, and if the change is not good, because it is a very close person, so it is not afraid of any impact on your practical interests, they will not mind if they do not do well, you will not be too faceless, and they will give you advice at any time, this is good, and that is not good enough. I'm referring to your mom and dad, your siblings, your close friends, co-workers, loudly announcing to them that you are changing yourself!

Of course, the mentality must be open like this, if you can't even let go of this, if you can't even afford to lose face, then you don't need to toss.

3.I think change should really be divided into square and round, do things squarely, have your own principles and backbone, but you might as well be round. This circle doesn't have to be sleek.

It's easy-going, a little more accommodating within reason, but if you touch the principle, you can only treat it head-on. The principle must be adhered to. Maybe at first others will be annoyed by you for sticking to your principles and not pandering to them, but after a long time, you will get their respect and love, because people who adhere to principles give people a sense of security, so they can build prestige.

4.Because you didn't say what kind of change you want to make, there is no way to give you more targeted advice, but I want to emphasize that you must be clear about what you want to change and what effect you want to achieve, and then pursue it. Don't be blind.

These are my personal experiences. I have gone from being a very introverted and melancholy person since I was a child to where I am today, and I have become an optimistic and open-minded person. Therefore, I believe that people need to change, and change can remove the bad negative factors in our personality and pursue a better self.

yes, I have this bad habit too.

I think it's better to speak slower.

First of all, it is necessary to be aware of the negative effects of "acute sub".

In fact, "acute child" is just a form of personality expression of people, not that "acute child" people are bad people.

However, in some cases, once the "acute child" has an attack, the negativity really cannot be ignored. For example: if you are late for work soon, people who are anxious will be very anxious, and often they can't take care of anything else, and they will rush forward, which is more likely to have an accident at this time.

Another example: everyone made an appointment to go shopping together, but your "acute" attack, you feel that it is pointless to wander aimlessly, and you start to nag and even lose your temper, which affects everyone's interest. Over time, everyone won't call you when they go shopping, and the friendship will naturally fade.

Of course, this is only a small part, and the harm caused by the "acute child" can sometimes make you unable to prevent it. Only when we realize that the "acute child" is negative, and the next time we encounter something, can we think of suppressing it.

Secondly, you must learn to be patient when encountering problems, and you must be able to control your negative emotions.

When you encounter something, don't rush to get angry, take a deep breath, calm yourself down, and then think of a solution.

For example, we often encounter traffic jams when we go out, and if we are "urgent" at this time, we will scold, sigh, and even affect other people's emotions. But if we calm down and think slowly, we will not be impressed by the traffic jam, because there is a possibility of traffic jam when we go out. Next, we just need to make appropriate adjustments to the work in the future, and we can even take the traffic jam as a kind of vacation for ourselves.

In this way, the traffic jam is not uncomfortable. All things will have different effects when we consider them from different angles, so people who are "acute" should give themselves a little time to find the good side of things and calm themselves down.

Third, learn to think from the other person's point of view.

People who are "acute" encounter people and things that do not suit your heart, often their mouths are faster than their brains, they always offend people, and they regret it afterwards.

Therefore, if you encounter a phenomenon that you are not accustomed to, you should first recite from 1 to 10, give yourself 10 seconds to think, and tell yourself to consider the problem from the other person's point of view. Sometimes we don't like others, just because we are too demanding of others, and we always want to impose the fixed pattern in our minds on others, how can others accept it? Besides, even if you are right, you can't ask others to understand you in the first place, the human brain has a process of reflection, and if you express it too quickly, it is very likely that people will misunderstand.

People's personalities are different, acute and chronic, the formation of character, and people's living environment, cultural accomplishment, and family version.

Education, and even the classification of blood, have the right to a certain relationship. As the saying goes, temperament is hard to change, and that's it. However, with the growth of age and the continuous improvement of the level of knowledge, the character can gradually change from rapid to slow, and gradually improve.

1) First of all, through learning, increase their social experience, social experience, and constantly improve their personal cultivation (2) Be rational and calm in the face of things, and be able to fully realize the truth that acute children will cause "small unbearable will be chaotic and big".

3) Exercise your self-discipline and self-control ability, start from small things, and become natural.

I believe that with the continuous improvement of your quality in all aspects, you will mature soon.