Why do some women like to be single and reject marriage?

The pressure of life is too great, and I am afraid that I am afraid of the difficulties in life after marriage, and I dare not face it, so I should adjust my mentality, and it would be better to have someone to bear together after marriage.

Who said that if you are a woman, you must get married, it has nothing to do with whether the man's conditions are good or not. The richer and more powerful a woman is, no matter how many good men there are around her, she may not consider getting married. Marriage is to seek support, and women who do not have a job marry early, and women who have a career are less likely to consider marriage.

In terms of security, men should be ranked behind "having a reliable job of their own". ‍‍

Because for them, there are more important things than marriage, and they can live well alone, so why should they be wronged to get along with another person.

As the times progressed, when the productivity of a single woman began to be sufficient to sustain her life, the dependence on men decreased. ‍‍

What do people care about the most? I think it's comfortable. Lowering one's own standards means putting oneself in an uncomfortable situation. If it weren't for true love, I don't think anyone would want to rush so hard to find themselves unhappy. ‍‍

Personally, I am an unmarried, I will cook my own meals, I will earn my own money, I also have a washing machine and cleaning if I don't want to wash clothes, and I can use it every weekend to pass the time, I can go out to find food if I want to eat and drink, and I can pick a scene if I want to watch a movie. Why should I find someone to squeeze in the same bed with me.

People make any choice to live a better life, if they can't live better than now, why get married? How idle am I to do laundry, cook for a man I don't love, serve my in-laws, and have children? ‍‍

Luxury houses and luxury cars have a good figure, and there is no need to be burdensome without a house, a car, and a background.

For example, I am used to seeing all kinds of couples around me, and I feel very troublesome, and I am not as comfortable as living alone.

There are a variety of factors that lead to more and more women choosing to be single, including social factors, personal factors, and family factors.

In terms of social factors, the status of women in society has improved. In ancient times, the status of women was very low, and they needed to depend on men to live, but now, with equal job opportunities, more and more women are engaged in all walks of life, there is no shortage of executives, high-level positions, and every adult woman creates her own value at work, which is enough to support herself and make her life more satisfying, so that she can achieve the life she wants without relying on men. Secondly, there are frequent social news, and there are too many examples of unhappy marriages, which makes many women afraid of marriage.

The various ** caused by the discord between the husband and wife due to interests and feelings are chilling, and the women who have suffered the most are not compensated as they should be, or have no opportunity to start a new life, which makes people full of doubts about marriage.

In terms of personal factors, being single makes you happy, so you are single. Some people are used to being single, and they will not be lonely when they do their own things, they will enjoy themselves, they have family, friends, pets, and many beautiful things in their lives, and their other half will not get used to it, and they will feel that it hinders them from doing what they like. Some people have been hurt in the process of dating, and they will worry that the next relationship will also be hurt, or they feel that their life after dating is not as happy as being single, so they tend to be single.

As far as family factors are concerned, the relationship between parents may affect children. If a person has been in a family environment where his parents quarrel since he was a child, he can't feel the love between his parents, and he doesn't understand why two people want to get married, and marriage seems to bring boundless disappointment and sadness. In adulthood, there may be a little less trust in your partner, and this relationship is often short-lived, and you don't want to find it, so if it's painful, then don't.

In short, being single is a trend and a personal choice, and we don't need to maliciously speculate on others, respect others' decisions, and encourage and help each other as female companions.

I, who am also a girl, think that women are more reluctant to find a partner for some reason, and they are "actively single". So what makes some women prefer to be single rather than get married?

Nowadays, they are capable of working and can live a good life on their own. They are independent, have friends, and have hobbies, but when they have the other half, many things will be constrained, they will be unhappy because of the friction between the other party and themselves, and they will quarrel because of disagreements with the other party. This kind of life is not what they want anymore.

Women enjoy being single and enjoying the free configuration of time, and they are no longer willing to enter the cage of marriage and love

In real life, women give up their jobs and self for the sake of marriage, they work hard and complain, but in the end they get a lot of complaints from their husbands, who are arrogant and useless in the eyes of their husbands. yes,Women give up their dreams and careers for the sake of their families, but they are still disliked by the people they love the most；Therefore, many girls unanimously say after marriage, even if they love each other very much, after marriageThe quality of life is still generally declining

The reason why many people choose to be single may not be as complicated as we think, and their reasons are often very simple, either they are demanding, or they really don't want to be in love. Marriage is a major event in the life of each of us, and we can't be sloppy, let alone not. It is said that it is not you who believe in love when you meet love, it is youBelieve in love, you will meet love

Whatever your reasons for choosing to be single, we should understand.

In fact,Love is beautiful and happy, but the disappointment after love to the extreme is another scenery, and at that time you may only feel pain and helplessness. I don't know if you've ever heard such a sentence".It's not that being single chooses me, it's that I choose being single”。With the development of the times and the improvement of cultural and educational levels, everyone's work pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and there is less and less leisure time, and it is difficult to have time to manage a good relationship, and women's hearts still enjoy being single more.

<>As a contemporary woman, I think from a personal point of view, because girls don't actually have a great need for love now, maybe in other words, love is not a necessity for her, "It's good to have nature, and it doesn't matter if you don't have it."

There are also one or two examples around each of us, women who are in good condition in all aspectsor unwilling to give in, or helpless, or voluntarily chose to live alone。As the term leftover women suggests, in China today, this is more or less seen as a social problem, but looking at it from another angleThat's a good thing at all

It's not that every woman has to be single, but at least being single can be an option in their lives, giving them full freedom, and they don't have to be married as before, regardless of their personal wishes and ideals, and whether they are suitable for marriage. Now, as the book says,This situation has been broken, and modern women have more freedom of choice, and they have a myriad of paths to choose from, which meander and intersect, with love, sex, partnership, parenthood, career, and friendship, each stretching forward at different speeds

Actually, it's not so much that it isSingle womenThe question is not so badThe emancipation of the individualIn other words, the phenomenon of single women is, in the final analysis, the logical result of the development of individualism, but women, as individuals, have to break free from various social constraints and gain freedom of choice, more than menDifficultNothing more.

Although there are many single women nowadays who have been dreaming of meeting the prince charming who belongs to them one day, there are more and more women who prefer to believe:"Being single is happier and freer".

Of course, no matter whether you are actively single or passively single, as long as you choose the life state you like and live a person's life to the fullest, this is the winner in life. In the future,"It's good to have you, it's okay to live without you."

In talking to others, you will find that there are many girls who have different views on beautiful love, some hope to get love, and some think that it is better to be free, in fact, most women are single nowadays, seeking reasons, nothing more than fear of being hurt or being alone.

One, the fear of being hurt by others.

For some girls, love is painful, when she finds someone who loves her, she does not hesitate to put her gentleness, thoughtfulness, patience, and thoughts on each other, but then she did not keep him. This is really a very big blow to a girl, so that in his later life, he slowly closed his heart, even if he met the boy he liked, Yan would rather miss it than be hurt again, from then on she was afraid to fall in love, believing that it was the best choice for her to go alone.

Second, it's good to think you're alone.

Nowadays, women are getting better and better, they can drive their own cars to earn their own money, support themselves, feel that they don't need the company of men in their lives, think that men are superfluous, and when you need him to accompany you, he will work again; When he was done, everything passed, and this kind of hot and cold also made more and more women think that they didn't need the opposite sex in their lives. In our traditional concept, women have to have babies after marriage, and now many women think that marriage seriously restricts their freedom, why do women have to spend a lot of time to watch their children after giving birth, can't they make money, and at home they have to look at the face of their parents-in-law, live a good depressing, which is why many women choose to be single.

As society becomes more and more tolerant of women. Many women choose to be single, and many men are forced to be single, but is it the fault of women, I don't think so, everyone has the right to pursue freedom and happiness, and I hope that those women who have been hurt can really find someone to accompany them for a lifetime; I hope that every woman who is working hard will remain gentle; I hope that every woman can find a significant other half that she can rely on.

In today's society, more and more women choose to be single and unwilling to get married, why is this?

In fact, these women used to have love dreams, hoping to meet their own Prince Charming one day. But the reality tells them that they are happier and more free to be single. In addition, there are several reasons why they choose to be single.

1. The divorce rate remains high.

The marriage rate is decreasing, while the divorce rate is increasing, which raises a question mark about the happiness of married life.

Moreover, it also makes people feel scared and afraid. I am afraid that after I get married, everything will change, and I will be hurt all over my body before I get happiness, and it is this idea that makes people dare not enter marriage.

As people get older, they become more mature and know more about what they want, so they finally choose to be single and give up getting married.

2. Women's awareness of independence is improved.

Traditional women feel that marriage is a major event that must be completed in life, and when they reach a certain age, they need to find a partner to marry, then have children, and then rely on men to live. But today's women don't think so, because their sense of independence has increased, and they are not as eager for marriage as women in the past.

3. The education level of women has increased.

In this society, the level of education of women has generally increased. The more educated women are, the higher their pursuit of quality of life and love.

When they think that their married life will usher in a lot of trivial things, they have a headache, and they feel that there is no sense of quality of life at all in married life, and they are afraid when they think about it, so they dismiss the idea of getting married.

Finally, I want to say: there is nothing wrong with being single, there is nothing wrong with getting married, as long as you like it, and you can be happy. Life is short, life is to be happy, just enjoy it to the fullest.

Married life, for men and women who choose to be single, is a component that is both desirable and worrisome. In reality, some people do not have a smooth daily life in marriage, making the Garden of Eden of married life a well-deserved siege. The people inside tried their best to flee, and the people outside diligently rushed inside.

The men and women who hesitated outside the besieged city, some of them were divorced, and some of them were not married, not because they did not want to fall in love, nor did they want to get married, but because they saw the future of their own married life from the marriage of others and their previous station.

Single men and women can hide in their own single men and women world as a matter of course and live a single life. He is unwilling to go out and bear this kind of work pressure, so it is difficult for these workers to solve this kind of problem with their economic conditions and hard work. Therefore, choosing to work silently is their only choice.

It is also a fear of married life.

I have chosen single men and women, but also because of the ideals of each other, I am in an absolute political advantage, and I have been looking for a perfect love. The results show that the heart is arrogant, and the ambition is great and the talent is sparse. The knowledge is too high, the real destiny and the ice queen in my heart have not happened, and they have appeared in front of me, picking and choosing, not satisfied, just waiting silently like that, preparing, and looking back, I find that I have already missed many good opportunities worthy of love.

In desperation, they have always been single men and women, and have become genuine unmarried. Selected single men and women, they saw men and women in marriage, because of extramarital affairs, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrels, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and they were afraid of marriage.

Uncle feels that social and economic development has improved tolerance. The development of the cultural industry is diversified, and men and women who are unwilling to get married, whether they advocate freedom, or have too strong self-identity, are some of the reasons for grandiose. You can't pay attention to others, you can only be kind to yourself, and it's not easy to love others, so there is no suitable lover, which is the real reason why you don't want to enter the marriage hall.