Why is divorce still a shameful thing in the countryside now?

Now compared to the original era of the freedom of marriage,But people in the countryside may retain the concept of marrying a chicken and a dog, and they are not so recognized by those divorced women, nor have they become a laughing stock, but people will discuss how she divorced before it is not good, everyone knows that the older generation in the countryside always likes to discuss others.

Lala gossip,Sometimes something new is happening in the village, and that must be what they talk aboutI think that the concept of rural people is much more advanced than before, because now every household has a TV set, and they can understand some of the outside world through TV, and they also have a certain understanding of the life of those urban people.

There are also many people who imitate the life of urban people, and I think that rural people basically don't point fingers behind those people's backs for this kind of divorceBecause now there are more divorced people in the countryside, and they have all seen it, and they no longer keep a person for a lifetime like the old one, and it is indeed the concept of freedom of marriage that is deeply rooted in people's hearts.

Especially now young people feel that love is not good before marriage, so they hurriedly got the certificate, and only after marriage do they find out the shortcomings of the two people, the two people are so unable to talk, and they divorce again, so young people are really open, with the development of society,People's minds are becoming more and more open.

Because the thinking in the countryside will be a little more backward, in the past, if you got divorced, it was a girl's problem, but now in the countryside, if you get divorced, it means that you are not doing well, and some neighbors will say that your affairs are their own affairs, and they have to make everyone know, so it is still shameful.

There should be fewer divorces in rural areas, only open-minded people will choose to divorce, ordinary women will only choose to forbear even if their husbands are not good to themselves, because even after divorce, it is difficult to find a man to marry, and the daughter who marries out of the water spilled out, the in-laws are estimated to not be able to go back, and they will be pointed at. It's also a shame for a man to be unable to control his wife.

Because there are still many traditional concepts in rural areas, in the eyes of the older generation, a woman who can divorce must have done something sorry for her husband to end up like this, which does not mean that marriage is not free now, but the traditional concept is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

And no one has the impression that it is a shameful thing to say that it is a divorce, but divorce is certainly not a good symbol, no matter in **, yes, as long as you have divorced, your reputation is not very good.

Divorce is a shameful act, because rural people are still so feudal and superstitious. I don't think young people are anything now, you can divorce if you don't get along in love, and you can't say anything about divorce.

Because divorce means that there is a stain on your life, especially for girls, some wives will think so. It's you, the woman, who didn't do what he did as a wife.

I think there are still serious traditional ideas in rural areas, and I still think that divorce must be a woman's problem. It's sure to be talked about.

Why is the divorce rate high in rural areas? It is mainly an objective reflection of the current situation in China, mainly because of the low cost of divorce. The education level of rural people is generally lower than that of urban people, and one of the reasons for divorce is the monotony of raw language.

Migrant work is the main reason for divorce as a result of long-term separation between husband and wife. Pursuing material life enjoyment, lacking a sense of morality and legal system, and taking divorce as a legal guarantee to change the fate of life. In a word, the way to change the high divorce rate in rural areas is to enrich the spiritual food of peasants, strengthen legal education, raise the cost of divorce, and let the divorcee bear all the costs caused by divorce, so as to reduce divorce and make China's rural areas a stable environment.

Living conditions in rural areas are getting better and better. Traffic. Shopping.

Internet. Rural people's horizons are also getting broader. Keep up with the development of the city.

But some people are keen on hot kang heads for their wives and children. Stick to one acre and three points. As a result, the standard of living is lower than that of people in the same village.

There are also men who work outside the home for a long time. Gather less and leave more. Red apricots out of the wall.

Some like to compare. Psychological imbalance and so on. These are all causes of divorce among rural people.

The high divorce rate in rural areas is due to the fact that young couples do not live in the same place. There is also a lot of pressure in life, which leads to a very bad passage and is not smooth.

So they broke up in a fit of rage.

Young people are now more concerned about their own feelings and will not accommodate others for the sake of anyone, so the divorce rate is high. In addition, the divorce rate is high in society as a whole, not just in rural areas.

Why is the divorce rate so high in rural areas. Now men and women are equal. The economic income of girls is also very high.

I feel unhappy in my marriage. Choose divorce. The status of girls has also improved.

Married for a long time. I feel that I don't have a common language and can't achieve the marriage I want. The girl chooses to divorce.

The divorce rate in rural areas is also so high, whether it is rural or urban, if the husband and wife have a bad relationship, both husband and wife do not know how to understand each other, and everything is burdened by one person, family pressure, economic pressure, life pressure, and if you can't hold it for a long time, you will naturally choose to divorce.

This is not to say that the divorce rate in rural areas is relatively high. At present, the divorce rate in the country is relatively high. Because now the standard of living has improved.

Everyone has a comparison. There will be more people who know people and more people who come into contact with them. In the afternoon crowds, drinking at the bar.

Singing inside the KTV. In time. They all got together.

After a long time, I will look at the other half of the future, which is not pleasing to the eye. What outside the wildflowers and weeds.

The main reason why the divorce rate in rural areas is higher than before is that rural people's minds have been emancipated, rural people's concept of marriage is not as conservative as before, and more importantly, the status of rural women has been improved.

Because it is now open up, there are more people who go out to work to invigorate the economy, and they see more things, but in the closed villages, they can't see very new things, and the outside world is very exciting, and you can meet all kinds of people, some of them can't grasp themselves, and some of them meet themselves, ideal people, so it is the reason for the increase in the divorce rate in rural areas.

Not only the divorce rate is high in rural areas, but also in urban areas, and now both men and women are more open, and the pursuit of happiness is strengthened, and a slight dissatisfaction will lead to a breakup.

The high divorce rate in rural areas may be due to the fact that there are more young people who go out to work, and there are more couples who are separated.

A long-term and stable relationship requires two people to maintain it together. We always feel that it is some external factors that destroy the marriage, such as distance, extramarital affairs, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but in essence, the intimate relationship between the two people is broken first, and then there are objective reasons.

Now there are mobile phones and the Internet, so whether it is in the countryside or in the city, the divorce rate is very high, and it is the same.

Because in the face of material and spiritual levels, it is also difficult to choose! A mountain is still looking at a mountain high, and the fickle heart decides!

If you have a clear conscience, just to take care of your father-in-law, don't be afraid of other people's gossip, in today's society, no matter how good you do, some people will gossip. Of course, if you're afraid of gossip, it's best to keep your distance, or you can send your father-in-law to a nursing home. This way your father-in-law can be taken care of and you can avoid gossip. Full text.

Nowadays, people are more open-minded, and they think that it is good to be able to live a good life together, and if they can't, they choose to divorce.

Today's young people are enjoying the form, can't endure hardship, once they go out to work and meet a good one, their hearts are slowly changing, and they are tempted after a long time, and they dislike their husbands, which is not that, so the divorce is high.

One is the influence of film and television dramas, and the other is the change in the consciousness of rural people going out to work.

Now the minds of the rural people have also been emancipated, and they can pass as long as they can, but they will disperse if they cannot. There's not much to say.

There is no difference between the countryside and the city now, and if you can't get by, you will definitely choose to divorce.

I know more, my vision is wider, and my requirements are higher, so I will naturally have a choice...

Rural people are more feudal in their thinking, and now they are pursuing a new era.

The divorce rate cannot be divided by region, because everyone is the same in every place, they are all human beings, they all have feelings, and they all have the same or different problems or ideas, so the divorce rate is only a matter of probability, and cannot be divided by region.

I know that people in rural areas are reluctant to choose divorce because of marriage, wanting to find true love, working hard in big cities, going out to do a career, and making progress in their thinking.

Why are more and more people getting divorced in rural areas now? What are the reasons for divorce?

Over the past 30 years since China's reform and opening up, the level of rural economic development has been continuously improved, and the living conditions of the villagers have become better and better. It is also because now that the countryside is abundant, everyone still has the opportunity and time to think about other things, if in the previous era when the countryside was more fed and clothed, everyone was busy making money to support their families, and who also had the idea of divorce. In order to pursue a happy life, the masses have gone to the cities to work, and many rural families are full of male students working outside the home, and married women take care of the elderly and children.

In this way, the husband and wife have been separated for a long time, and there is very little time for communication, and the relationship is very easy to become shallow and conflicted for a long time.

With the development of the times, the thinking of rural people is still changing, and the harm of traditional thinking is getting smaller and smaller, and many ideological constraints are lifted, and the change of thinking makes the countryside develop better. Everything has advantages and disadvantages, and before being bound by traditional thinking, any divorce in the countryside will be looked down upon and talked about. Now everyone is gradually looking at it, and the change in thinking is due to the increase in the number of divorced people in rural areas.

Marriage is early in the countryside, and if the children do not go to school, the parents urge the children to get married early. Not long ago, a little girl in the creator's village got married at the age of 18. The problem of early wedding in rural areas is also a major reason for divorce, young age represents immaturity enough, many things are not understood, as they grow older, problems between two people are still increasing, and the accumulation to a certain extent will cause divorce.

With the popularization of the Internet with the rise of the rural Internet, more and more people have come into contact with Internet technology and obtained more information content on the Internet. People always strive for perfect and beautiful things, and the popularization of the Internet is also one of the reasons for the increase in the number of divorces in rural areas.

This may stem from young people's perception of marriage, as well as from a sense of responsibility for marriage. Nowadays, people are relatively open-minded, so it is possible that the divorce rate will increase.

Nowadays, many people in rural areas do not have a sense of responsibility for their families, and sometimes there will be disorder, and there is no way to continue their lives.

Because now society is progressing. First, women's ideological concepts are changing, and they are unwilling to swallow their anger if they can't get by, and they feel that divorce is not ashamed.

Second, rural women used to work mainly in family farming, and their vision was narrow, and they were more economically dependent on men. But now women can also be financially independent and can go out to work hard, and it turns out that after the divorce, the whole person becomes more refined. Rural women are also women in the new era, self-conscious, unwilling to compromise, do not care about other people's eyes, and do not look forward and backward, so why dare not be satisfied with their marriage?

The times are developing, life is also changing, not only in the city, but also in the countryside, so there is nothing impossible, there is no dare or dare, and it is normal for people to divorce if they can't go on.

Don't keep thinking about the society of the past, now that men and women are equal and free to marry, whether in the city or in the countryside, as long as the marriage is unhappy, you can divorce, do you know that you are unhappy marriage, let yourself suffer for a lifetime.

The freedom to marry, the concept of people is changing. There is nothing to dare or not, only whether you want to or not.

The phenomenon of divorce in rural areas is becoming more and more common because two people do not have a common language, and there are certain problems in life.

The phenomenon of divorce in rural areas is common mainly because people are very casual when they get married, and when they get married in rural areas, most of them have no feelings between them, and there will be a lot of conflicts after marriage, and they will often quarrel over money, and they will slowly get divorced.

It has something to do with daily life, often gathering less and leaving more, and planning for the future is different, so this situation will occur.

The reason why there are more and more divorces now is because of a series of changes in their concept of marriage and childbearing, and also because of a series of economic pressures.