What can you do to make yourself more popular with others?

First of all, the main reason for your current situation is your introverted personality.

I'm also a very introverted person, but I have a lot of friends, hehe.

I think it's easy for an introvert to want people to like you. You are kind to others, which is a very good condition, plus your academic performance is very good, so I think you should take advantage of such superior conditions and try to make more people like you in this opportunity to help others learn.

Also, just because you say you're not good at talking doesn't mean you can't talk to others. In fact, depending on who you are chatting with, if the other party has few words, the chance is one person and one sentence, it is best to find some common topics to talk about; If the other party talks a lot, and you don't even have a chance to speak, then you just need to be a listening audience, so that the other party feels that you are chatting with him very seriously, even if you don't say anything, give him a look and tell him that I am listening to you, so that it will feel more intimate and easier for people to approach.

In addition, read more humorous articles, eloquence and the like, don't always hide by yourself, try to mingle with friends, you will have a lot of friends after a long time, come on.

A person's success is a process of continuous accumulation and attraction. If you are a sycamore, the phoenix will come; If you are the sea, a hundred rivers will come to gather; If you bloom, butterflies will come. Writer Yang Daxia emphasized that the best value is valued.

The first is cordiality. People who love to put on a show, everyone will stay away when they see it. Being able to put down your status anytime and anywhere and get along happily with other people is a person who is truly loved.

Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big person, or a big star, he is willing to get close to the people around him, keep a happy mood at any time, and be willing to say some homely words.

The second point is cheerfulness. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it. With a smile on his face, he will feel happy to meet him, and this optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect the people around him, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him.

The third point is zealousness. Those who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others. Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial things, and will only blindly shirk, always thinking why I am doing it, and always afraid of losing, such people are not easy to be welcome.

Enthusiastic people, many people will stand up and do it when they need help; Sometimes we don't care about the benefits we lose to benefit the public, and we tend to feel grateful and respectful of such a person for what he has done.

The fourth point is humor. People who can laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand wherever they go. Everyone loves pistachios, but who loves to be sad? Although they may have a lot of bitterness behind them, but they still bring out laughter when facing everyone, who can not love them?

The fifth point is to look good. Among the ugly people, there are also people who are likable, but if you are good-looking, take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact.

The psalmist says, "Beauty is eternal joy." "It is human nature to like beautiful things, and beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is also a reflection of this nature.

Appearance, dressing, and dressing can make people feel pleasing to the tax, and they are also important conditions for attracting people!

The other two very important conditions are "popularity" and "affinity". There will always be some people who are born with a trait, popularity is very good, and everyone will have different reactions when they mention him, so if you have a good condition, but the popularity is not good, it will still fail. And some big officials and celebrities, if they don't have affinity, will only put on a show, and such people, although they have a high status or popularity, are still not successful.

The above traits are all traits of popular people, what have you achieved? Observe the people around you who have these qualities, and think about how such people will handle things when you encounter any situation, and I believe that you will become a very popular person...

Treat people sincerely, not snubbed, not flattering, not flattering, just have a clear conscience.

Therefore, the Yellow Crane Tower fireworks in March Yangzhou.

GuidanceIf you want to improve your temperament, be outstanding. In addition to dressing appropriately and speaking in a measured manner, it is necessary to constantly improve one's knowledge.

From appearance, from dress, from speech and fingers. If you want to improve your temperament and achieve outstanding temperament, in addition to dressing appropriately and speaking in a measured manner, you must constantly improve your knowledge, moral cultivation, and constantly enrich yourself.

Remember the other person's name and don't make promises easily.

1: Get the initiative and understand others first. 2: Be a person who knows how to read words and colors. 3: Understanding what is being said will make people like you more. 4: What a person does depends on the upper limit of his popularity.