Will you develop into a lover with your best friend of the opposite sex?

Yes, because it will be a long-term relationship

Me and him, junior high school classmates. Three years of non-stop class placement, but we were still in one class. I'm inexplicably happy because I still have a good buddy here, so I'm never lonely anymore.

At that time, my personality was a tomboy, and my relationship with the opposite sex was very good, because I loved to play and was not hypocritical, maybe boys would prefer to play with such girls. He and I have always been good friends, and we have been playing and playing very well.

We started talking to each other, and when we got home from school, he would call me every day, for an hour or two at a time. Unconsciously, I liked him, and I didn't even know it.

At that time, he told me that he liked other people, and the sadness in my heart made me realize that I liked him. Maybe in his heart I'm really just a good friend, but I'm thinking crookedly.

Throughout junior high school, we were good friends, good buddies, and I thought we were going to go on like this all the time.

Unexpectedly high school, we were still in the same school, but in different classes. There were a lot of boys who liked me, in fact, there were many boys who pursued me in junior high school, but I was still young, and I still liked him, and I rejected them all.

When I was in high school, I chose to have a young love affair with a handsome guy, his friend. At this time, he seemed to realize that he was going to lose me, and he didn't know that when he learned that he liked him, he began to pursue me, telling his friends that he actually liked him. That's right, we just got together regardless of hurting others.

Because I really liked him, I chose him. After being together, I was really happy, and he seemed to be happy as well. From best friends to lovers, it seems a little strange between us, but the feeling of love always takes over.

But the good times didn't last long, he left me, I don't know why? I didn't do anything, so why did I separate? He still owes me an explanation, as if it no longer makes sense to me, and in the end we are still strangers.

In fact, I regret that we were together at the beginning, because we didn't get together in the end, we didn't become friends in the end, because I loved and hated, I couldn't face him and accept him as before.

In the same way, he could not face me again, because he had hurt me.

If I could, I'd rather never be in a relationship with him, so maybe we'd still laugh and play together as we used to. Now, friendship is gone, and love is gone.

Of course, there are also good friends who end up together and end up married, and I think that's the most perfect.

A good relationship with friends of the opposite sex may not necessarily develop into lovers, unless both people have this idea emotionally and psychologically, otherwise it is just wishful thinking and basically cannot be achieved.

Some people can develop into a romantic relationship, but some people cannot, depending on the degree of personal development.

Yes, most lovers don't start with good friends! You also said that you are interesting to him, in fact, you have been together for so long, you should have some heart-to-heart understanding. You're interesting to him, and he should have it too!

Otherwise, how could there be endless words! You like the feeling of being with him, and he also likes the feeling of being with you. You've had a relationship foundation for so long and you're a college student, so it's okay to talk.

Unlike some college students who fall in love when they first arrive at college, they talk about it completely because of emptiness, and they have no emotional foundation, so most of them break up after graduation, you are different. If you are embarrassed to confess, you can give him some hints, hints of words or just call him as a boyfriend. Let him like you on his own initiative, so that you don't have to bother.

Sometimes I don't say it, but everyone knows it, hehe. Tell you, my girlfriend and I were also very good friends before, and we were all rushing to talk together, hehe, I wish you happiness.

It may develop into a romantic relationship, if a friend of the opposite sex has a good relationship with you, it may be because of some point in you that attracts him, so he is willing to be close to you, but some are different.

Not necessarily. Two people play very well, but they don't necessarily become lovers, because marriage is life, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there will be a lot of contradictions.

Not necessarily. Some people just have a better relationship and have long ignored the other party's gender, but the person concerned thinks so, and the bystander may not be.

Influence of external factors, for example, the teeth and tongue stick together every day, and bite each other, leaving quickly and forming fast, so it may not be able to achieve positive results.

It's too familiar, so I can only say that it's hard to start, but if one party takes the initiative, it is very likely to develop into lovers.

Not necessarily, because they are all familiar with each other, above friends, and not yet with lovers.

Generally, there are very few, because they are more familiar and difficult to start. Hehe.

Personally, I don't think it can be said that this will last forever, but there are special circumstances. Some of the more familiar opposite sex feel that some are too familiar to develop into a romantic relationship, but just because they are familiar with them, they know the basics. In contrast, we can say that it is more reliable.

However, today's people are really hard to change their habits when they become natural, but once they lose them, they may feel that they are not cherished at that time, causing their own regrets. It is also possible that the more familiar opposite sex will turn into lovers, depending on the views and ideas of each person. Different people have different options, so the key depends on how you feel about it and how you go about it.

Not really. There are also a lot of good friends who have fun, and they have slowly become lovers, and their relationship will only get better and better. So becoming a lover still depends on the hearts of two people.

Personally, I think it's okay for the best friends of the opposite sex to be lovers. Because we know such opposite-sex friends very well, and we also know each other's family situation and living situation, and even know some of his behavior, I think the best opposite-sex friends can become lovers.

Of course, this is the case, because everyone understands a truth, lovers will break up, but friends will never, and only friends can always be each other's strongest backing.

For friends of the opposite sex who play the best, it is not necessarily that they will never be lovers, when two people are particularly familiar with each other, after establishing a relationship for a long time, it is easy to walk together.

For the best friends of the opposite sex who play, it is not necessarily impossible to become lovers, if the relationship between two people develops to a certain extent, both parties like each other, and it is entirely possible to become lovers.

No, if two people feel that each other is very good when they get along, then they can also slowly consider developing into lovers, after all, it is not easy to find someone who gets along very well with them.

Yes. Because this kind of relationship friendship is good, if you go further, you can't even be friends, you know each other too well, it is impossible to become lovers at all.

Not necessarily, if two people of the opposite sex really like each other, and wait until one day the two people break their feelings, then the chances of them becoming lovers are very high.

Of course it's not like this, if two people play well, the personalities of the two people are also compatible, and they can become lovers, so their relationship is also very good.

Yes, because two people are only best friends, and the possibility of becoming lovers is also very small, if you break up, two people have no chance of being friends.

It's true, because if you become lovers, you may not even have to be friends when you break up in the future, so you will never become lovers.

It will be very difficult to become a lover, but it is not impossible, because the two parties are really very familiar, so it is not easy to turn into lovers.

It should be, because in my opinion, as a friend, there should be a boundary of friends, and you should not cross it casually, so that it will become a taste.

It's certainly not that you can never be lovers, if two people have some feelings for each other, they can become lovers.

No. If two people still love each other very much, then after becoming lovers, the two people still get along very well.

This is indeed the case, because the relationship between friends of the opposite sex is so close that they can never become lovers.

Of course not, two people can also become lovers, as long as two people feel that they can, they can be together.

Is it possible for a friend of the opposite sex to develop into a lover? Of course. In reality, a large percentage of people end up marrying their friends.

Among the film and television dramas, the most representative ones are probably Cheng Youqing and Li Daren.

8 years ago, the TV series "I May Not Love You" starring Ariel Lin and Chen Bolin became popular all over the country.

The heroine of TV, Cheng Youqing (played by Ariel Lin), works as a regional manager in the shoe department of a department store, and has become a representative of hating marriage because she is over 30 years old and still has not married.

The actor of the TV series, Li Daren (played by Chen Bolin), is the ground supervisor of the airline, young and promising, gentle and humble, and has the same pride as Cheng Youqing.

Cheng Youqing and Li Daren were high school classmates, and when they were in high school, they didn't look down on each other, and they were often on the same page on some issues. However, it is such a pair of enemies, but they have become good friends who talk about each other by mistake.

After more than ten years of companionship, they have already given birth to a different kind of affection in their hearts. It's just that none of them want to take the initiative to pierce this layer of window paper.

They insisted on being each other's "best friends forever." So, he said to her, "I probably won't love you"; She replied to him, "Thank you, thank you very much".

It's just that in the end, they couldn't resist their sincerity and became each other's other half. So far, this pair of good friends who once promised to never fall in love with each other have become a family that loves each other.

Some people say that the building near the water gets the moon first, so they have the opportunity to love each other; Others say that they are in love for a long time.

I don't know if you've ever heard of such a saying, called "ugly". There are some people, when we first meet him, we think that this person is not good-looking. But as time goes by, and we see more, our minds change.

We no longer feel that they are not good-looking, on the contrary, we feel that they are becoming more and more attractive.

This is the practical application of the ** effect in life. The so-called ** effect, also known as the multi-seeing effect, is a psychological phenomenon that refers to our preference for things that we are familiar with. Social psychology also calls this effect the law of familiarity, and the more times we meet a person in a relationship, the more likely we find that person to be endearing and pleasurable.

And the long-term love is the concrete embodiment of the ** effect in interpersonal relationships. Therefore, the probability of friends of the opposite sex developing into lovers is still very high.

This also depends on how two people get along, if two people don't have that feeling, even if they are together, it won't be too long, after all, some people are very suitable for being friends, but they may not be suitable for love, of course, you have to go with the flow.

There is a chance.

Friends of the opposite sex have a greater chance of getting to know each other than ordinary strange men and women. But it's hard for friends of the opposite sex to feel love for a long time, so it's hard to become lovers.

There is a chance. Because people's feelings are complicated, and they are good friends of the opposite sex. In the process of getting along for a long time, you may develop a good impression of each other over time. It is under the generation of this kind of affection that the relationship between the two people will also quietly change.

There is a chance, and there is a great chance to develop into lovers, there is no pure friendship between men and women, and two people of different genders are born with a magnetic field that attracts each other.

It depends on whether one of them has an idea, whether it is bold enough, so the chance of developing into a lover is very high, but if the friend position is already entrenched, the chance is very small.

There must be a chance, as long as the two sides do not grasp the degree well, it is easy to cross the line and have a bad impact on the families of both parties, so even if it is a good friend, it is necessary to grasp the degree.

A really good friend should be a lover.

No friend of the opposite sex has a pure friendship. There is no opposite sex in the world who can be a real friend, even the opposite sex who seems to be friends, it is difficult to ensure that there are no distractions in each other's hearts. When friends of the opposite sex are carried away with joy, they use wine as a color medium, how can they not cross the line?

Especially when you are sad and need to borrow the other party's shoulders to lean on, throw yourself into your arms and give them a hug, how can you sit still and not be messy? As a result, there are very few truly pure friends of the opposite sex.

There are many conveniences for friends of the opposite sex to become lovers. Friends are indispensable to eat and drink, come and go, and be intimate, call each other brothers and sisters, regardless of men and women, forget themselves, understand each other too much, too much tacit understanding, how can there be no long-lasting love between men and women? Therefore, these are the conditions for the evolution of friends into lovers.

Good friends become lovers, and their feelings for each other are getting better and better. It is a matter of course for friends of the opposite sex to become lovers, and once they become lovers, plus they were friends in the past, the relationship should be better and better. If it's a legitimate relationship, then you can really hold hands for a lifetime.

If it's a friend of the opposite sex who has a family, it's better not to continue to develop, and even friends can't be friends in the future.