Why do some people including people of the same sex be particularly attractive to me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think this is normal, you always have special friends to make friends, it must be because he is very attractive to you or is very compatible with you in some way.

    I've had a lot of friends since I was a kid, but there are only two of them I really want to get along.

    One is a short-haired girl in junior high school, she has a big personality, good grades, I think I talk to her very straightforwardly, and she is not pretentious, and then neither of us will take advantage of each other, in short, I like her very much, we have been at the same table for many years, and have never quarreled, and I can't ask her questions directly, her attraction to me is her good character. At that time, my last tablemate was a top student, she annoyed me, that is, as long as I spoke, she told me to shut up, and then she usually didn't speak, very boring, maybe there was such a comparison, and then I met such a good grade, and I could talk, I felt very like.

    There is also a bosom sister, she loves animals very much, and feels that animals are also very compatible with her, and then, she usually tells me about what she has experienced, I don't feel annoyed at all, but I like to talk to her very much, and her affinity has also attracted a lot of people, so she is very popular with children.

    Whether it's the same sex or the opposite sex, if that person's personality is particularly obvious, then some obvious points will attract some people, regardless of gender, I don't think you should think too complicated things, otherwise you think that the same sex should not feel that the same sex has characteristics? So don't you have any same-sex friends anymore? It's better to enlarge your mind and be open in your heart, and this attraction is naturally open.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is normal, whether it is a man or a woman will be attracted to interesting people, even if it is between the same sex, it is not necessarily love, some people will exude this kind of personality charm with the body, maybe it is the appearance, maybe it is the inside, or it is an experience, a kind of conversation, anyway, from a detail between gestures can impress you.

    Talk about an experience in my sophomore year of high school, I've always been that kind of good child, although I can't talk about how good I learn, but I'm absolutely obedient, and my parents will do it well, but there has always been a rebellious flame in my heart, I want to release it once but never dare, one day there was a person in QQ plus me because I was a friend of a friend, I chatted a couple of words and found it interesting to talk to her, and I chatted a few days later, we got acquainted with each other, and because it was a different school, she invited me and my friends to play with her, I thought about it and agreed to leave school at noon and didn't tell my parents that it was a little rebellious, and when we ate together at noon, I felt that she was different from me, she had a group of like-minded friends, she could skip class no matter what the situation, homework and the college entrance examination were not so important to her, this feeling of freedom and ease would attract me, maybe there was another me in the subconscious, yearning for a carefree life. Maybe that's why it's fun to talk to her

    Life is not static and boring, it is precisely because there are many people who are different from you that your life can become colorful, and it is the driving force that attracts you to understand her and become friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <>I think that some people, and even some types of people, really make some people particularly resistant. It's like, when you fall in love, even if you know that the person you love is not suitable for you. will continue to repeat over and over again, looking for the same type of person to fall in love with, to fall in love with the same kind of person.

    That's the problem, and it's a mental habit.

    I think people who are particularly attractive are the kind of people who are particularly motivated and energetic, and this kind of people make me very attractive. Doesn't it mean that when people devote themselves to their work, they have a feeling of having their own guiding atmosphere? Haha, well, a bit of an exaggeration.

    However, I may be a bit of a workaholic myself.

    I like the kind of people who are particularly enthusiastic about their work, this kind of people, whether they are men or women, work hard and are willing to put in the effort. It always makes me feel in awe, I feel very reliable and solid. I feel very happy working with this kind of person.

    To live another life, it is not necessary to go through the latitude of work to explain how complicated life is.

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, not that the work is hard, and the attitude is sincere can do a good job for the other half. However, I personally admire the conscientious and responsible work that emits this kind of self-contained aperture. Be reliable in life and make me feel radiant.

    I'm more obsessed with the kind of person of the opposite sex who has a big face, and you can be childish in front of me. But in short, you have to rely on your soul, women, no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to protect them. In the past, I let go of the rhetoric, "I don't need a man, what a man can do, I am doing it, what a man can't do, we women are also doing it." ”

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because everyone knows that opposites attract, no matter how ordinary a woman is, there are men who can look at it, so to judge a girl's charm value, women have to praise it to be attractive.

    An attractive woman must be of high emotional intelligence.

    of women. Some women, by virtue of their identity as women, know all day long that they are snorting, coquettish, and acting badly, thinking that they can attract men.

    But I want to say that such a woman, the average man is willing to fall in love with her, and few are willing to marry her, or only choose to be a lover with her, and then give her gifts, but will never divorce for her.

    The so-called Li Manuscript is a truly attractive woman, and she will never be so superficial.

    An attractive woman who is not only materially independent, but also spiritually independent.

    To put it simply, you can make money, you can buy whatever you want to buy by yourself, and you don't need to rely on men's charity, such a woman will impress men. But if Fu Chan's boyfriend or husband buy them gifts, they will not refuse, and they will be very happy.

    However, attractive women generally do not accept gifts from men unilaterally, they will also buy gifts for men, and there is a future!

    Such women are very confident and not attached to men, they don't need to be with men for money, so men will feel that with such a woman, their feelings are very pure, and they will naturally fall more in love with her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There can be many different reasons why people are attracted to people of the same sex, and here are a few frank explanations:

    1.Sexual orientation: Some people may have a stronger attraction to the same sex because they are born with this sexual orientation. This does not mean that they have to be homosexual, but that they are more likely to be attracted to the same sex, which has to do with sexual orientation.

    2.Similarity: People are generally more attracted to people who are similar to themselves.

    This can be because they understand each other more easily, have common interests, common ground, etc. As a result, for some people, they may be more attracted to the same sex because they are more similar to the same sex in some ways.

    3.Social factor: Some people may be more attracted to the same sex because they are more likely to be exposed to the same sex in their social circles.

    In conclusion, people who are highly attracted to the same sex do not necessarily have homosexual tendencies, but may be due to other factors. Everyone's situation is unique, so everyone's feelings and choices need to be understood and respected.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For people with strong same-sex attraction, it is said that Mammoth Oak is a very good person.

    Like-sex repulsion, opposite-sex attract, if a person also likes the same sex, it means that this person is very good in terms of popularity and character, and it is easier to be approachable.

    Communication between the same sex is more convenient, less affected by others, and contact is also very convenient, and there will be no certain estrangement due to differences between the opposite sex.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is actually a personal choice, and some people are outwardly boys, but psychologically they prefer boys, which is understandable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Suddenly I feel that life is so desolate, is it so busy that I have to sell it for my feelings and time?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hehe, that's not good, same-sex attraction.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Approachable, strong in dealing with people, good-looking, and in good shape, this kind of same sex is easy to attract to me, and it is more able to get along with people. Of course, what kind of personality a person is likely to make. What kind of trait is what kind of people will attract.

    If you don't have such friends around, don't force yourself to cater to others. If you are afraid of being alone or lonely, you will do everything possible to join the groups around you and accompany them to go shopping, shopping, and eating. Because you don't actively join, others will say that you are not easy to get along with, unsociable, withdrawn, and arrogant.

    Why do you care so much about what other people say? We have our own thoughts, thoughts, independent space. If we ignore our inner thoughts because of this, and do things that are in harmony with others or boring.

    What's the point, it's not gregarious, it's a waste of time.

    Whether it is parents, friends, children, can not accompany us for a lifetime, a person is an independent individual, you must endure loneliness, in order to enjoy prosperity. When we are alone, we can study, read, and prepare for work.

    It's not that you're out of place, it's that you're growing, and you know exactly what you're doing to help you. Of course, it's not that you don't make friends and don't communicate with people. Rather, when you become the kind of person you like, your aura will attract like-minded friends.

    Whether it's friendship or love, this time is the time to match. Don't worry about whether you are happy with your friends or whether you can learn more. Because your hearts are similar, you smell the same, and you have a tacit understanding, so you can naturally go on.

    A real friend is not a person who has nothing to do and is not looking for something to talk about, and a pot of tea, two people, with a few words, can understand each other's hearts by looking at each other and smiling.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Character, I especially hate people who lie, and many girls seem to be born with a love of lying, and if a girl talks to me, it will be very attractive to me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's more attractive to have empathy between people of the same sex, after all, I don't want to do to others what I don't want to do to others, and I think it's very rare and valuable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that boys who are poetic and bookish are the easiest to attract my attention, because such boys are talented and polite, so a person's cultivation is very important.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think as a boy, if the other boys can be very manly and grow tall and mighty, it will attract me, because I also want to be like that.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The easiest thing to attract me between the same sex should be her serious efforts, and finally became a king-level figure, I admire such an awesome person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's just very responsible, I think boys are great like this, they will get my affirmation, I think this kind of boy will be serious in everything, so I am attracted to me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    How can I not be attracted to people who are assertive but not stubborn, capable and modest and cautious, knowledgeable and reasonable, and have talent and temperament outside.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Cheerful, positive and optimistic personality, likes to laugh, has a sense of humor, is very good at making people happy, and can treat others sincerely.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, it must have connotation, temperament, it looks like one is very sunny, no scheming, looks pure and flawless, harmless to humans and animals.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The elegance of gestures, the unhurried speech, and the fact that I rarely rush to eye with anyone, will attract me very much.

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