Do you think the saying you can t be too nice to people, you can t feed dogs too much makes sense?

Of course, this sentence is very reasonable, because people's desires can never be satisfied, once you have a thing, you want to have more things, you can never really satisfy them, so you don't need to be so good to everyone, because in the end they will only think that you are good to them as a matter of course, they will never know how to be grateful, only know how to take, so we should know how to be good to others moderately, rather than blindly giving everything.

This sentence is actually very applicable in love. Because I have experienced this kind of thing myself, I once had a girlfriend, and the degree of my kindness to her is simply beyond your imagination, and it is precisely because I am so good to her that the reason she gave me to break up in the end was that I was too good to her, and she couldn't accept it. <>

Isn't that ridiculous, you say? I gave everything with my sincerity, but in the end, I got something like her in exchange, did I really do something wrong? Now it seems that I didn't understand the meaning of that sentence, didn't it?

I thought that if I risked my life to be good to her, she would stay with me forever, but now it seems that I was completely wrong, because my kindness to her has become what she takes for granted. So in the back, she didn't cherish my kindness to her at all, she just thought that this was what I should do, did you say that I was stupid at that time?

Although it didn't take long for the two of us to break up, she came back to admit her mistakes to me and said that she wanted to reconcile with me, but she never had a chance to get my kindness to her, since she didn't take my sincerity as one thing before, I still won't take her as one thing, so there is no need to be so good to others, just love yourself more!

For example: if you are particularly good to a person, I think he may be very good to you, but more likely is that he does not know how to cherish your good to him, he thinks that your good to him is a matter of course, and he still does his own thing to you if he does not think so, because people do have this situation, if you are exceptionally good to him, he thinks that you should be so good to him, this is also my understanding, but I think it is true, it is also very reasonable, you can't be too good to people, you are good to him, He may not be good to you, maybe some people know how to be grateful, but some people will not be grateful, and they are also divided, right!