Is it right for a woman to maintain a marriage that exists in name only for the sake of her two chil

Many women are not happy after getting married, but because they have children with this unhappy person, they will not divorce for the sake of the children, and they will not make trouble for their husbands, so they will gradually go on for a long time, but he has been living for a long time, and he chose not to divorce so that his children can grow up healthily.

Every married couple who wants to divorce is the first thing they think about is what to do with my children. If the child is too young and is not at the stage of divorce, both parties are very good to the child, and they may maintain a marriage that exists in name only for the sake of the child. If that's the case, there's no right or wrong.

If you are the kind of person who pursues a perfect married life, then you can let go, because although you love your children very much, you can't put your whole life of happiness on your children. You can do your duty and give everything for your children. But if you make your life miserable for the sake of your children, it is not worth it.

Some people's ideas are for the sake of children, and I can compromise them. If you are still maintaining a marriage in name only because of your children, then you should also pay attention to the people you like around you. If there are some people around you who make your heart flutter, then you have to choose to break up with your current husband.

When you are struggling to maintain your marriage, you also have to find some opportunities for yourself, such as if you have a very good person around you who likes you and you like him, then you don't want to maintain this marriage for the sake of your children, you also need to pursue your own happiness, think about it from another angle, only when you are happy can you instill your love into your children wholeheartedly. If you keep getting angry and quarreling with your current husband for the sake of your children, it will be unhealthy for such children to grow up in this environment, and it is better to bring your children into a better environment than to harm them on both sides.

Many people misunderstand the concept of marriage, which was recognized by the social system of the time, and the marriage of a man and a woman as a union of spouses. Emphasis is placed on gender, spousal status and "marriage as a prerequisite for the emergence of the family". Marriage should be a beautiful thing, it reflects the needs of the individual, and feelings are one aspect of maintaining a marriage, if there is no affection between the two parties, only interests, we can only call them each take what he needs.

But there is another important condition in marriage, that is, the union of the two sexes, for men, in the face of girls who do not love, they may also have this feeling, but for women, sex is a very sacred thing, if you don't love each other, you will not have sex. Many cases are after marriage, forming a family, having children, and life is gradually on the right track, but the relationship between husband and wife has cracks, probably because of domestic violence, they all say that maternal love is great, they will blindly tolerate it in order for their children to grow up in a complete family, and they will not lack father's love, so they will blindly tolerate it, and the family members around them will advise her, saying that the value of a woman will be reduced after divorce, and it will be more difficult to find a partner in the future. This is a wrong understanding, who said that the value of a woman after divorce will be reduced, women are not accessories of men, and women pay more in marriage I think than men.

If there is no relationship between the two parties, even if there are children, I don't think there is any need to continue to live together, even if you live together, but this kind of compromise is really sorry for yourself, for the child you think it is worth it, but have you ever thought that although the days after leaving may be more difficult, but you can continue to live by your own strength.

There is no right or wrong in all things in time, and the judging criteria of things are actually in your own heart, and it depends on how you define them.

It is said that marriage is like a tomb, and a marriage that exists in name only is actually going to the grave, and it has reached the end of its life, so why end it tightly, but still hesitate in it?

Children cannot be used as a reason and excuse for not divorcing, this can only become a shield for you not to divorce. It is not easy for a woman, but she should be a very selfish person. This kind of selfishness is not to ignore it, even to the children.

It's about really dedicating yourself to divorce each other, and then looking for a piece of your true love, or someone who can make your life comfortable.

In short, as long as it is better than the previous marriage that is comparable to the grave, then it is also a success. And although the child has many considerations, there are still two. But as long as you are doing well, then the child will not be bad with you.

And after many women remarry, they get better and better, and they are happier than they are married for the first time. This is due to their ability to live and emotional intelligence, for example, Wendi Deng is so old, and he can find a foreign star who is so much younger than him, that is, he is very powerful, and people can live a colorful life. Then your own strength is not strong enough, otherwise you don't need to worry so much at all.

And instead of constantly struggling in a painful marriage, allowing yourself to be constantly twisted and tormented, you can only be a frog at the bottom of a well, see the sky above, and when you really jump out of that deep well, you realize that you have the whole world.

I have to say that such a mother is really very great, for the sake of two children to maintain a marriage in name only, endure the days when they have no emotional life, a person if there is no emotional life I feel very sad, I must hope that there is someone who can help themselves, to love themselves, no matter how much pain in the heart there is nowhere to tell, and there is nowhere to solve the loneliness in the heart. <>

Although the family is not broken up on the surface, it is not necessarily a good thing for the child, because the parents don't love each other at all, and naturally there is no temperature, and the family is not happy.

So I think you still shouldn't live like this, you should have someone who loves you to accompany you, you should have your own love life, if the child is still young and not very sensible, I think you should start a family again, and a beautiful family is much better than a family that exists in name. You are happy, and the children see that you are happy, and they will be happy.

Obviously not. Actually, she is not for the children, but for herself.