Every day I feel very negative, I don t know what to do and how to adjust

Updated on workplace 2024-04-22
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think. 1. You should find your goal from this moment, clarify what kind of person you want to become in the future, make a plan and achieve it.

    2. Cultivate your own interests, such as tennis, badminton, yoga, etc., and expand your social circle in them and integrate them into life.

    3. The interpersonal circle is very important, we must try to expand the circle of friends, what kind of friends you make determines what kind of future you have, and you must make some positive, happy and sunny friends. Find a role model around you and learn from an optimistic and positive spirit;

    4. Take books as friends, find answers and spiritual food from books, or ask some learned people for advice, learn from others' experience, and broaden your own horizons.

    In short, work hard, grasp your youth, find what suits you, and be yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    lzThis situation should be two-pronged:

    Physiologically, take some Xiaoyao pills first (or go to the Chinese medicine hospital to see the suitable prescription);

    Psychologically, find a piece of paper to list all the questions, doubts, emotions and so onThese are collectively known as bonds.

    Solve these shackles one by one, such as sharing feelings with friends, talking to so-and-so, going out for a walk, etc.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The key is why you are negative, you will not be negative for no reason, there is always a reason. First of all, you have to figure out the reason, and then think about what you are interested in, do it little by little, and also contact more friends who are cheerful and have a good relationship with you, and contact them often. Do something that you wanted to do before, but you think is crazy and damaging to your image.

    Of course, you can also have a big meal 、、、

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do something that you wanted to do before, but you think is crazy and damaging to your image. Of course, you can also have a big meal 、、、

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is necessary to find something to enrich yourself, such as asking someone to go shopping, or playing computer games, and if you have nothing to do, you can go to the big book store to find something to do to enrich yourself. Put those negative emotions behind and once you dedicate yourself to something, it will feel very meaningful. The main thing is to adjust your mentality.

    If you have a good mentality, you can say anything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To find their own hobbies, in fact, many people nowadays have this mentality. Go out for a walk, make more like-minded friends, and talk to friends, and your heart will be better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Sign up for the exam, spend the money, and you will cherish it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't know how to do it, you don't do anything and die and live again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Eliminate confusion and annoyance.

    It is fundamental to relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

    1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

    2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

    3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

    4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

    In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can do your own mental suggestion, such as saying to yourself: I believe i can or something like that. Think about the things that you are happy about, think about how many things you haven't done in your life, answer to the experience, think about your dreams, whether you still have so much time to be depressed, whether you can afford to be depressed. In short, you should set your own goals, there is motivation when you have goals, and don't think about those unhappy things, because the more you think about it, the more unhappy you are, the more you think about it, the more depressed you become, try to relax, to enjoy life, for example, you can travel, to shout to your heart's content, vent your whole body strength, that is maybe you will suddenly calm down, don't put too much pressure on yourself, life is short, and you have to indulge in something.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find something to do to keep yourself busy and distracted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everything wants to open up, the world is so big, there is always your unique corner, find fun by yourself!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    And I finally have the same this afternoon, first listen to ** play with the phone, the mood will improve, wait a moment I will play basketball on the basketball court again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go out with friends for a walk or listen to a song to relax.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't want to move, you can find a character on your phone that **integrates yourself**!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find a place where no one is there and think again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Get out for a run, chat with friends, relax, or travel.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Listen**Relax, get out for a walk.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When there is a loss of interest, lack of energy, etc., and it is considered to be depression, targeted measures should be taken according to the severity of the condition. Including: 1. Patients with mild to moderate disease can use Chinese and Western drugs combined with psychological and behavioral methods, as well as auxiliary means; 2. Severe patients need to be hospitalized urgently**.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In the face of the negativity of life is the first in the heart, to establish their own vision and hope, men and women in this regard in the vision is different.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel like I don't have any confidence, I don't know what life means, I don't have any interest in anything, I feel like I can't grow up like I can't do anything.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why be negative, do what you want to do.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What's wrong, what's on your mind? Let's talk about it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Life is an accident.

    Death is a necessity!

    The process of being alive.

    That's life!

    Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

    I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

    Life is enough!

    Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

    Make your life a little fuller!

    Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

    To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

    If you can't find the value of your own existence.

    Just think about yourself.

    Give yourself an account.

    To parents and friends.

    The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

    Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

    Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

    The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

    1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself.

    Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy.

    On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

    3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Give it a try.

    1. Set a small goal for yourself every day, once you complete the goal, you will naturally have a sense of achievement, so that the work is not boring.

    2. Do some small things that you think are meaningful, so that life will be wonderful.

    3. Participate in the company as a whole, get more contact with and understand the colleagues around you, and dissolve into them, you will have unexpected gains!

    Fourth, use some things or things that can relieve emotions to regulate yourself, for example, **ah, or after work, hum a little song gently.

    Others also think of me.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The feeling of disgust at working for a while.

    In this way, the working process is changed and the method is summarized.

    This will also make the work easier and fresher.

    You will also be improved.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Life should be regular, not like a fly without a head. Every day is a new day, our ideals are completed step by step, and the grand plans of life should also be completed with small plans one by one. You fall into negativity because you don't know what you should do every day, so you have to rely on instinct, eat and sleep, go to class, sleep and eat, and the cycle repeats.

    I don't know what I have to do all day. Therefore, every day there is a small goal to do, and life will have a head.

    In order to give each other a better life, for your common home, just because you love them, you can't bear to let yourself become a burden or a burden to them, so it is impossible to treat everything in front of you negatively.

    Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. We should not look at the present, but on our future. You should continue to enrich your life and make yourself better, just for the person who is waiting for you in the distance.

    For a better tomorrow, for the ideal, we should abandon the decadent negative self and live with a sunny, upward and positive attitude, you will only make the people around you look down on you.

    What we have to do is nothing more than to let the positive defeat the negative, let the happiness defeat the melancholy, let the diligence defeat the laziness, and let the strong defeat the vulnerable. On every day full of hope, tell yourself: work hard, you can meet a better you!

    No matter who we meet, what happens around us, it is a precious wealth of our life, there is no reason for us to be negative about life, it is better to face it bravely, make yourself stronger, in fact, it is also a kind of happiness to be able to recall.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There will inevitably be moments of depression in life, and being able to realize that you are in a negative state and try to change it is a commendable act in itself.

    First of all, stay healthySecond, adjust your goals appropriatelyIf you are frustrated because your near-term goals are difficult to achieve, it is better to conduct a reasonable analysis and adjust appropriately. Aiming too high can lead to a sense of loss that is difficult to achieve, and goals that are too low will lead to a lack of accomplishment after achieving them, both of which can lead to depression. Only by making a plan according to the actual situation can you maintain your own rhythm and move towards your goal in an orderly manner.

    Finally, stay optimisticIn the face of a negative state, in addition to seeking inward, you can also seek outward. You can get the motivation of life by reading classic books, you can mediate your mood by making new friends, you can also feel the richness of life through some film and television works, you can go on a trip, maybe what you see and hear during the trip will make you suddenly enlightened, and you can also seek help from parents, friends and teachers. In short, don't stuff yourself in the house, as you will only be swallowed up in endless negative energy, and the situation will be worse.

    Negativity is always inevitable, but there is always a moment when the rain passes and the sky clears.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In this fast-paced era, many people are forced to run in the footsteps of the times, and once they fall behind, they will feel anxious. In fact, many people live a negative life because they are too concerned about the life of successful people, and feel that they have achieved nothing and have failed in life.

    But there is no specific standard in life, it doesn't mean that you have to live to be worthwhile. Therefore, there is no need to look at other people's lives, and there is no need to compare with others, live your own, live what you want, whatever others think, as long as you are happy.

    So, on this question of the subject, I give you a few suggestions:

    First, find the point that makes you anxious and then address it.

    You have to think about why you're negative. If it's because the work is not going well, then analyze whether it is the company's fault or your own reason. If it's the company's reason, change the company; If it's your own reason, then learn more and then improve your abilities.

    If it's because your friends or peers are doing better than you, then you need to adjust your mentality. Because what you see on the surface is not necessarily really good, and there is really no need to be arrogant.

    Second, take a few days off and go where you want to go.

    If you're in a negative mood, then traveling is a great way to relax. Take this opportunity to ask the leader for a few days off and go to the place you have always wanted to go but couldn't go. When you see the beautiful scenery and eat the food, you may suddenly feel that this world is so beautiful, you have to work hard to make money and go everywhere.

    Finally, you can find some hobbies for yourself to distract yourself.

    If you often feel that you are living a negative life and have nothing to do, you can develop some hobbies, such as playing the guitar, drawing, reading, etc. As long as you have a hobby, you will have a clear goal, and then you will work hard to achieve that goal, and you will not have so much time to be negative.

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