How to deal with this relationship, is this considered happiness?

For the sake of the future of two people, you should have the courage to ask him whether he loves you or not, or you can tactfully ask him what kind of existence you are in his heart. If he is unsure or ambiguous, then you need to re-examine your relationship. It's not wise to put an end to a relationship that you've worked so, and if you really love him, give him time to think about it.

If you really can't stand this kind of wavering and insecure relationship, then it is better to end the relationship as soon as possible. But if he takes a stand that he loves you, then you need to discuss how to maintain the long-distance relationship. Of course, it's better to be two people together.

However, if you trust one person completely, you will think more about the other person.

He doesn't have time to contact you, so you can contact him! Send him a text message (even if you don't have time, he'll give you a few simple words to show that he cares about you) From your description, I'm sure such a careful man would do it! At the very least, you have to let him know that you miss him all the time.

Give him a **, even if it's just a few simple words (I'm sure he'll feel very heartwarming when I hear your voice). In this case, do you know that he will not feel secure if he has you in his heart? Do you still feel that there are fewer and fewer of your worlds in his world?

Hehe! In fact, loving someone is very simple, what he can't do for you, what you do for him. As a result, he will love you even more!

Since you have persisted for half a year, then 2 and a half years, 3 and a half years, I believe you will be brave enough to persevere, and you also know that there is nothing wrong with him! The only bad thing is that he took away all your love, so that you miss him all the time! 楿信伱嵍哏圉諨dě

I think you should still insist that you are not old yet. I'm not married, I'm only twenty. From my view of love, a man should create a good life for his wife, lay a solid foundation for the growth environment and family environment of the children in the future, if the husband knows that he does not have this ability, he will have low self-esteem and do not contact him often, which I think is normal; But I'm not saying that your boyfriend is like that, maybe there are other reasons.

You must know that men are strong, and they all know that they are the pillars of the family. But if you're considering your age, think for yourself. In the end, if fate really comes, cherish it, there are not many good men; Don't be like me, and regret it for the rest of your life.

No. If you don't say love or not, then your relationship can't be determined, maybe he cares about you purely as a friend. Ask your heart if you like him or not.

If you like it, make it clear to him what kind of feelings he has for him, and love has no boundaries. If you don't like it, tell him clearly, please don't be so ambiguous about yourself.

My boyfriend also travels a lot. I don't think it's okay to be separated too often, if it's okay in the short term, but it's not the way to do it in the long run. Distance can produce beauty, but distance can also change many things.

If you love him, then I suggest that the best thing for you to do is to solve the problem of long-distance relationship. If you hesitate, then give up. Hopefully you can make a decision that you won't regret yourself, come on!

You must be a little skeptical about your relationship, don't rush to make a decision, after all, you've been together for a year and a half, so you should be a little patient. But if he's not worth your wait for him, you just don't wait and break up! It's good to be together, you know?

Will you end up in the same city?

If the answer is no.

Then give up now.

It's really tiring.

What's more, tired and endured in the end, there is still no result.

Such a reluctant life is not happiness.

Divide it. That's not happiness, isn't it?

I feel that girls always need a sense of security and be down-to-earth.

I used to say that he was too busy to have time.

I couldn't stand it anymore.

I think. He was so busy that he didn't disappear for 2 weeks.

Put p sorry! ~~

So it's up to you to take it.

I can't take it anyway.

I think that if you love each other deeply, you can choose to work in the same place, so that you have a sense of security, and secondly, you can eliminate the pain of long-distance relationships. Give it a try.

If you really love each other, you have to make a sacrifice and leave your job behind to find the other, otherwise it will be difficult.

Because of his busy schedule, we often don't contact each other for days???

Give up, just by virtue of your words, a man is busy, as long as he loves you, even if he squeezes out the time to, he will give you a beating** to reassure you.

Give it up, long-distance relationships are hard.

This depends on how much the man loves you.

He's a bird, he's got the ability to move in and fight with you, or let him keep you.

1.Respect each other and value each other.

Before doing something, he will ask you to see what you think, and at the same time, he will respect your opinion, and the two of them will discuss and deal with each other, and he will not make decisions for the other party before he is in charge. Feelings are reciprocal, and as long as we respect each other, we can last a long time.

2.Both of them are concerned about each other.

When the other party is depressed, one party is always by the other's side, and when the other party needs you, it will appear, and both of them will take care of each other, and the two of them will share the weal and woe. To love the other person is to care about the other party, and caring is also a way to love the other.

3.Mutual trust is left to the other.

No matter what you have experienced, you can trust that the love of the other party is still there, and no matter what happens between two people, you can believe that your love is worth it. Although the process of realizing the original vows is somewhat long, joy is a fact, but faith is more important than the other.

4.They all pay equally.

In a two-way love, they all pay and invest in equal amounts, no one owes anyone, no one detours or perfunctory, and each has its own full devotion and sincere payment. Only when you have one or the other in your heart and are willing to pay for the other party can you go in both directions!

5.They include the other party.

No one is perfect, and everyone will have more or less inadequacy in each person. But in a two-way relationship, they are willing to tolerate the other person, even if he is not as beautiful as he thinks. Moreover, the inclusion of each other's bad looks also made their hearts tighter.

Love is a matter of two people, and in the world of love, it is only meaningful to go to each other, and only when two people respect each other, both care about each other, believe in each other, let each other pay equally, and tolerate each other can achieve the happiness of two people.

Now it's her who loves you more than you love her. And you have everything she has, and you're a little bored and want to find someone new? Try to get away for a while and see if you still love her.

Then I ask you, do you like someone else? Let me ask you again, if you like another her in the situation I said above, are you sure that you will not repeat history to the second her like the first one? Excluding the above situation, in fact, this knot is given by yourself, human beings can not change the bad problem of liking the new and hating the old, because people face new people or things every day, and gradually find that there are so many wonderful things in the original world, and many people are better and more outstanding than the one around them.

And he is just a frog at the bottom of the well, so he gradually forgot the person who he loved the most and paid the most for himself.

But in fact, it is not difficult for everyone to find that the best, the best and most loved is the person who was once abandoned by themselves, some people miss it and can never find it back, and when you are old and dying, it is too late to think of her again, and then to cherish her. Cherish what you have now, don't be blinded by the new things in front of you, confused and change your original intentions, but as a man, you should do what you should do and take the responsibility you deserve, not to mention that the other party is a girl who loves you very much and gave you everything, don't let it down. I believe that if you give up on her, there will be no girl in the world who loves you more than her.

I don't think you want to let guilt accompany you for a lifetime, maybe she is not the best, but people are not perfect, people must learn to cherish.

Just imagine what kind of mood you will have and what kind of mood you will have if you fall in love with a woman who does not love you. If that woman was the same as you are now, what decision would she make? Why are you so sure that you can't give him happiness, he loves you so much, it means that as long as you give her a little love, then she will feel that she is very happy.

Don't you feel happy for such a simple, needy, love? You also don't say why you can't give her happiness. If you can explain, maybe she will readily agree to your breakup.

You didn't explain, at least you have him in your heart, and you care about how your decisions affect her. This shows that you are indeed a responsible man. Actually, what I want to say is that you cherish this relationship.

Now there is such a good woman who is good to you, maybe you will never meet such a woman in your life in the future. Women need to be loved, and so do men. Second, you can say what you think, maybe you need to calm down for a while, and then consider whether the two of you are suitable for living together.

Of course, it's not about being in love, but about the real life in the future. You can imagine your 10 years together, or say what you think, but don't take a stand. Don't say that two people don't think the same thing and break up.

If you want to say that you want to follow this path, will she give up her kind of thinking, and then replace you, will you, do you do a heart-to-heart communication. Then you make sure she's not the person you want.

In fact, it is happy to be loved, if you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, break up as soon as possible, otherwise you will be even more sorry for her!

Let me tell you, your so-called brother is shameless to say ugly. You told him that you are going to marry your boyfriend in the future, and he is still chasing after you, isn't this shameless? To a shameless person, you also said that you "don't want to lose a former confidant", I am really speechless.

Yes, he used to be your confidant, but now he is not. What is a confidant? Just looking at the literal meaning, you should also know: know you know me. Only by "knowing" each other is a confidant. Now that you don't "know" him, he doesn't "know" you, how can you talk about a confidant?

It seems to me that if he continues to pester, you should give him a slap in the face, rather than a call for help.

If you don't resolutely draw a line with your so-called brother, where do you put your boyfriend? How does your boyfriend feel when he knows that you have an older brother who is pestering you? How do you explain your naïve idea that you don't want to lose a former confidant?

So, now you should talk to your brother thoroughly, tell you about the situation, and if he still pesters you, then please give him a slap in the face!

Trust me, if you let your boyfriend know that you still have such a "brother", it won't do you any good with your boyfriend.

Although what I said was a little hard to hear, it was the right advice, good wishes.

You already have the answer. If I were the man, I would respect your choice. Because... Needless to say, huh.

yes, it's hard to deal with. The best thing to do is to avoid it, don't explain it to him, and use your actions, silence and time to deal with this relationship coldly, which is the best. Don't reply to text messages and ** first, and don't answer them.

Your brother is a little embarrassed, so he will deal less with this kind of person in the future!

He spent so much effort to find you, he must not immediately accept the fact that you have a boyfriend, and you can't use drastic means to solve it, get along with him calmly, keep your distance (let him feel), perhaps, you can still be friends.

Does your current boyfriend know anything about your buddy. Talk to him, it's a report. After he found out, he felt like you were lying to him. , man, you have to give him face. Face it together,