Ask the boy you like how you feel about me, and he says it s okay, is it a refusal?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ask the guy you like how you feel about me? He said it was okay, it was a kind of euphemism. At least they didn't bother with me.

    Everyone's youth has had a time when he likes someone very much, and the ignorance, innocence, and beauty at that time are beyond the reach of now. I used to feel like the whole world lit up as long as someone I liked smiled slightly. If the person I like is unhappy, it will be like a heavy rain in my heart.

    His smile, every move, is tightly tied to my heart. At that age when I loved to dream, I always fantasized that he would reach out to me and then hold hands and walk towards tomorrow together. The palm of his hand was wide and thick, and my cold fingertips came from his temperature, just right.

    We are like living in someone else's painting, warm and beautiful. All the disturbances in the world have nothing to do with us. We love each other without distractions.

    However, fantasy is always beautiful, reality is always cruel. The person he liked when he was in his youngest year was as cold as ice. When you go to Jiandu by yourself, it is all bitterly cold.

    When I asked her how she felt about me, he just said lightly, "It's okay", his heart was like a calm lake, but the calm lake was like ripples, rippling layer by layer, disrupting his calm heart. No matter how beautiful the hope is, it is all lost in his two words. This beautiful fantasy is just a bubble after all.

    These two words represent all his feelings for me, and there is no trace of heartbeat. Or maybe he didn't fall in love with me at his youngest age, or maybe his coldness was just for me.

    There must be another princess living in his heart, he will treat her gently, will hold her hand, warm her fingertips, will give her a unique smile, she will, always accompany her, tell her beautiful love words, sing beautiful songs. Together they will look forward to the future, watch the sunset together, go to the beach, and step on deep and shallow footprints, which must be traces of their love. No matter how cold he is, he is extremely gentle with her in his heart.

    Since then, I have been reluctant to do so, and I have been a little stingy with him. His warmth was just given to others. If he likes someone, he will definitely tell that person what he feels in his heart, and he will talk endlessly about all his good feelings to the person he likes, instead of just saying okay and sending people away.

    That's not like, these two words are more ordinary than ordinary friends. Therefore, he was not attracted to me.

    When I asked the guy I liked how he felt about me, he said it was fine, so it was a tactful rejection. If he really likes me, he will definitely take the initiative to tell me that he likes me, and he will not wait for me and salivate to ask him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you ask a boy how he feels about himself, there are generally several kinds of words, but normal people will say, it's okay, it's good, it's good. These three are slowly superimposed to a certain extent, so fortunately, it's really not a good evaluation, it's a more perfunctory one, and it should be no different from rejection.

    But I'm talking about the fact that the two of you don't know each other very well, in fact, men and women are about the same, you can think about it from the perspective of your memory, I usually think that if a guy asks me what I think of him, I will look at people and say, if this person is really good but not what I like, then I will say that I don't know very well, and I heard people say that you are very good. If it's a boy with a bad impression, I'll say it's okay, it's very reluctant. But the girl is more sensitive, and the boy is okay and probably doesn't think so much, maybe it's similar to what we said, but if he really likes you, he will definitely have a higher evaluation.

    There is also a situation where the two of you know each other very well, like sometimes when I am very frustrated, I will ask a male girlfriend what he thinks of me, and then he will reply very indebtedly, just like that, okay. Then I was naturally even more upset and asked him how it was okay! Then he would tell me a lot of my shortcomings, and I would get angry and the two of us would quarrel, and in the end I would not be very sad.

    So the person who has a better relationship says it's okay, but he really can't hear what his attitude is towards you, so it's better for you to ask more directly.

    But I think even if you think he may be rejecting your intentions, he probably won't give up, because this question is useless when you like that person, if you like people, just ask and chase directly, people's hearts are the hardest to guess.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Fortunately, it means that it is not bad, and it is not necessarily a rejection, it is possible that she is just more introverted, and she is more shy when she is shy, so she will naturally not say that she likes it, so she will say that it is okay. If this person is not in a shy state, or a little helpless and cold, then it should be a kind of rejection.

    I also asked the boy I liked this question, and he was okay, but when he came back, I felt very indifferent, as if he didn't want my question very much, and even wanted to turn around and leave, but I was just helpless. And fortunately, it was just to save face, and my friends were all there at the time.

    Actually, it was just a truth or dare, and it was because I lost, so my friend asked me to ask a guy to ask this question, and I had a little bit of a crush on this guy and wanted to know how he felt about me. I didn't feel very embarrassed by his disguised refusal, so I asked again.

    Let him be specific, and he said that he doesn't like it, and he won't be a lover with me, but maybe a friend. So sometimes when a boy is in this kind of question, you can understand by looking at his attitude, whether he refuses or agrees. Just like when we usually communicate with a friend, if this friend is very cold to you, and your attitude has always been helpless and impatient, then he may not really regard you as a friend, and may find you annoying.

    If you ask her and he behaves in a good manner, but is a little shy, then it means that she also likes you a little bit in her heart. We usually be shy in front of a person, isn't it because we like it? It's when you're facing someone you like.,It's about feelings that you are very shy.。

    Just like we usually walk with the person we like, even if we are not lovers, then we will be a little shy, and even just talking to him simply, we will be so nervous that we will blush and heartbeat, so generally more introverted people, they are very shy about feelings, and they are more prone to blushing.

    If you are asked this kind of question by someone you like, unless you are a veteran driver, or you are already invulnerable to feelings and have passed that stage of shyness, then you may not blush and show shyness. But as long as you don't understand feelings very well, then when you face the question of your favorite person about feelings, you will be more shy, and you don't know what to do.

    In the face of this situation, it is not a rejection of you, it is just that he himself is already overwhelmed and does not know what to do. So when asking this guy a question, try to choose to ask in person, and then look at his attitude and expression, you will be able to know how she feels about you, and you can also distinguish whether she rejects or accepts you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think this shows that he should not particularly like you, if you like it very much, you won't say "okay", "okay" is just a neutral word, neither hate nor like, if you confess to him after he says that you are okay, it means that he actually doesn't like you so much, maybe he has a more favorite object, you are just a spare tire for him.

    Nothing more. <>

    He doesn't refuse ruthlessly, he should hope that you can still stay with him to chat and relieve loneliness, but when the girl he likes very much appears, he will still choose the girl he likes instead of you, so if the person you like, after you confess to him, he feels good with you, you shouldn't continue to be so enthusiastic about her, don't be stupid and waste your feelings on someone who doesn't like you very much, but just uses you as a spare tire.

    This feels very worthless, you think about it, if you like someone, you must be ecstatic when he confesses to you, it is absolutely impossible to reply calmly "okay" two words, it should be a particularly happy tone, to be able to reply so calmly shows that he should not like you in his heart, but he doesn't hate you.

    In fact, it's okay, they didn't say that they refused on the surface because they were afraid that you would hurt your self-esteem, but the subtext he hid was that your conditions were average, and we were not suitable, so the potential meaning was to refuse, we should understand what he meant, so don't be so attentive to him in the future.

    So although women chase men in the veil, but people don't mean anything to you, no matter how reluctant you are, the twisted melon is not sweet Since people have said this, we will know the difficulty and retreat, don't continue to chase, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed. <>

    Actually, there are girls who are very stubborn like me.

    When I was chasing that boy, I asked him what his impression of me was, and he said it was okay, and I knew that he meant that he didn't like me, and his impression of me was very average, but I didn't believe in this evil, I thought I liked him so much, why did he say that I had to give up if he said it was okay, and then I never gave up.

    I think sometimes the relationship also needs to be cultivated slowly, he said okay, it means that he has not understood us and understood my personality and other aspects, he made a conclusion himself, but I have to insist, I want him to see my shining point, let him slowly like me, and finally he did agree to be with me, but I gradually lost my feelings for him in the process of chasing him for so long, I caught up, and I didn't like him anymore. <>

    I feel like I just don't believe in this evil, so sometimes you can't let the boy say something and lose yourself, you can also choose to strengthen your feelings, but if it has been fruitless, you should still choose to give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As far as I can understand, I think it's a refusal.

    First of all, when two people get along, or you ask him first how he feels about you, from this point of view, you have already lost. Why say you lost, because you can't bear it, and you think he probably won't take the initiative. His ininitiative is because he doesn't like you, and you must be aware of that.

    Or maybe he is very close to you, sometimes he is very good to you, sometimes he doesn't pay attention to you at all, and you have illusions in your own heart before asking.

    But let me tell you, the guy who really likes you will not be the first to ask him how he feels about you, he will definitely let you feel the hormones he exudes to you from chatting, getting along, and from all aspects. That way, if you take the offer a little bit, or if you show that you're interested, he'll pounce right away. This is a game of feelings.

    Now, you've taken the initiative to ask him how he feels about you, and I'm sure he would know what it means if it weren't for wood. It is said that women chase men in the veil, even if they are ordinary friends, they will describe adjectives such as "you are very sensible" and "you have a good temper", but what he gives you is "okay". What does "okay" mean?

    It's that he doesn't notice any of your qualities, it's that your mediocre behavior doesn't attract his attention at all. Even, I think there may be a conclusion, after all, I don't like you, who wants to talk to you so much, who wants to talk to you about feelings and adjectives.

    So I advise you, you better stop wasting time on this boy and doing useless struggles. You have to know that if this guy dares to reply to you with such perfunctory words of "it's okay", either you are really not worthy of him, or he has a better choice, or you keep holding on to him and he thinks that you will continue no matter what.

    In short, he really doesn't like you and is rejecting you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and it may be that he is just stupid and doesn't know how to express them. To interpret this question, you have to combine his personal behavior habits, language habits, and his usual attitude towards you to assist in judgment.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm a boy, if it's me, it's a rejection, two words that mean I don't feel anything about you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. My dear, the boy said that he didn't know what you liked about him, not because he refused, but because the other party was too unexpected, because he felt that you didn't like him, so he said <>

    It feels incredible, I can't imagine that I can make you like it!

    The boy said that he didn't know what I liked about him, but he was refused.

    My dear, the boy said that he didn't know what you liked about him, not because he refused, but because the other party was too unexpected to talk about the waiter, because he felt that you didn't like him, so he said <>

    It feels so unbelievable and noisy, I can't imagine that I can make you like it!

    My dear, when a guy says this, we should affirm the other person and tell the other person our emotional <> for him

    To like you is to like you, for no reason, I just want to get along with you<>

    Let the other party feel that he likes him if he doesn't do himself, don't believe in our filial piety like that, don't believe in his own <>

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