What should I do if the divorce is indecisive, and the renewal of marriage increases sorrow?

Marriage is originally a major event in life, how to say that it is not possible to break up the group, there must be some things that cannot be handled before you can make up your mind to leave, right? The lack of decision in divorce is a problem for many people, not one or two cases. However, the renewal of marriage increases sorrow, well, so I can't understand if I don't decide to get out of the sea of suffering.

Emotional matters, in fact, no one can give you an absolute statement, not only marriage, but also when you are in love, most of us are persuaded and not persuaded to leave. Isn't the logic of the good people of the Chinese that "it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy one marriage"? No matter how inappropriate it is, most people will come up to persuade peace first, and then try it later, you see that it is not easy to get married.

This is also an instinctive reaction to China's national conditions, and among the common people, marriage is also a major family event that costs money and money. Some people, think of the wits and courage with the tricky mother-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law, father-in-law, you and I go back and forth to discuss the marriage situation. The decision to get married is a big shortening.

Thinking about getting married in the future, I have to go through this sea of suffering again.

It's better to make do with it, but when you renew your marriage, in fact, the problem is already in your marriage. It's not that if you let it go and don't get divorced, he will change. People who have problems have no problems, and suddenly become a model and good other half.

Personally, I think that the two people have a good relationship. Marriages where both parents are not involved are generally fine.

is really two people and parents fighting together, then it really becomes a palace fighting drama. It's better to break up, I don't dissuade peace with such a marriage. There are children who say otherwise, but parents quarrel every day, which is not good for the growth of children.

What role model do you give to your children? Let them watch their parents do martial arts every day, and I don't think the children will grow up, okay?

Divorce is not the best solution to all marital problems, but in a marriage that becomes tormented by each other, divorce is. This "no worries about love, where is fear" is indeed reasonable. Our conflicts in marriage are often due to people.

In the past, when I heard others say that their personalities were not in harmony, I always felt lucky.

Now I find out that it is really not, and the personality and self-contained factors are different from the original family itself. Your family is diligent and thrifty, and you treat all the old clothes and things of thirty or forty years old as if they were treasures. If you have a worm, you have to protect it well, and you are reluctant to throw it away, and you are reluctant to give it away.

Our family has never been separated, and this kind of marital contradiction is difficult to reconcile.

It doesn't mean that one person can change another person's, life habits can, but conceptual awareness can't. It's its own nature, if it's not suitable, it's better to let each other go. Therefore, divorce must also be done as soon as possible, and no children will hurt the least.

At this time, don't be weak to renew your marriage, thinking about having a child and everything will be fine. If you don't sympathize with you, give birth to a hundred, and you are just a fertility tool. Think about it for yourself, whether your marriage is chicken or not.