Should I accept the confession of my best friend? Please ask a woman over 30 to help me with a refer

Obviously, if you don't like it, don't accept it, because if you accept it, you will accept it because you are afraid of hurting him, which will hurt him the most and is unfair; You can say to him, "My feelings for you are not the kind between men and women, maybe it's a matter of time, and besides, you're both high school students now, everything should still be a priority", falling in love not only affects yourself but also affects each other's studies, I hope you think about it seriously, you can work together to get admitted to college, maybe you will like him in the future, because some things are lost to know that it is important, but don't accept it now, you can be very good friends.

Don't accept it, there are many people who are good to you, you can't accept it because you are good to you, and the foundation without feelings will not last long. And don't you also say that he puts it on your shoulder, and you will be disgusted? Think about it, what will you do after you accept him?

Is all you have to do is put on your shoulders? When the time comes, you'll be even more disgusted, and you'll only hurt two people in the end.

Besides, he is in his third year of high school, if he is a good friend, don't delay his study, there was once someone who liked me for five years, I didn't agree, emotional things can't be forced, so there will be no results in the end.

I think sometimes girls can't face up to their own thoughts, and you're one of them, don't you really like it? You can ask yourself, if you don't have this person in your life, will you feel lonely, or what will you feel lost, if you will have a little sense of loss, that is not called dislike, and oh How do you know that he can be relied on? Have you ever relied on him?

This is the crux of the matter, if you don't rely on him, it's that you think he can rely on him in your heart (this is not a good feeling), if you have relied on it, then you still say that you don't like him, hehe

I know that the senior brother who is older than himself may have some kind of charm, but not necessarily like, what I said above is actually to tell you to see your heart clearly first, don't care about the world's eyes, or something else, you can be together only if you have something in your heart, if it is really like you said that there is no heart then it is counted together, and it is not fair to him, do you think?

You should give yourself and the other person a chance.

I don't usually accept this confession.

I've been in the same situation, and there's no good way to do it, I don't want to lose my friend, and at the same time, I have to worry about his feelings. The way I have recently taken is to tell him very clearly, analyze it rationally, help him solve the problem, discuss it together, and solve it as a thing. If you don't like it, you don't like it, you can't fool yourself.

If you think someone is good, you also consider him a friend. Please explicitly decline and distance.

This situation is essentially a kind of coercion, if you don't meet my requirements, I will hurt the feelings you have cultivated for so long, and at the same time hurt myself. He came with a sense of both defeats, and I don't believe that any girl would be so late that she didn't feel any signs of getting along for so long. So the problem you are facing today is caused by avoiding or not wanting to think about the relationship between each other.

To put it simply, you are partly responsible for the way your relationship has developed into this.

What to do? Quite simply, stand your ground. If you want to get along, you can only be friends, and you want to fall in love?

Sorry, no. Don't think about how to go back to the past, he takes a step to show that he has the courage and initiative to think about your relationship more than you do, and even if he accepts your advice temporarily, he will not change his desire for you. So why put a question mark on him?

A passerby like me still hopes that you can give him a good time, which is a good thing for you and him.

If you like him, you will accept it, and if you don't like it, you will politely refuse. Express yourself well and try to take care of your friends' feelings, for example, I only treat you as a friend, I'm very sorry, I can't accept your liking. If you want to refuse, be decisive, don't leave others with the feeling that there is hope for his hard work, of course, if you really feel that there is hope for his hard work, you must also express your thoughts sincerely.

I was able to accept it. Because if you really like it, if you don't accept it, you will leave yourself with deep regrets.

This is my personal experience. He and I have known each other for more than ten years, from elementary school classmates to junior high school, from this point on, we slowly became acquainted. He confessed to me when he was a freshman in high school, and I was ignorant at that time, I didn't know what it was like to like someone, so I didn't refuse or agree.

Soon after the confession, he changed schools, and the two of us lost contact, and then somehow added QQ.

Not in a school after only communicating through QQ occasionally him.

He would skip class to visit me at school during the evening self-study, and our relationship was getting better and better, but we have always maintained a relationship as friends. Later, when we went to college, we were far away. He confessed to me again, and finally I agreed to him, because it was a different place, so I still relied on ** to confide.

At that time, what I was looking forward to the most was the holidays, and we could meet when we went home from the holidays.

I finally looked forward to the holidays, my school holiday was early, I was waiting for him at home, the day he came back, I went to the station early to wait for him, saw him, suddenly felt very nervous, maybe from friends to lovers are not adapted. We walked around quietly for a day, during which he didn't talk much, and I didn't know what to say, so I always felt that the atmosphere was weird. I didn't feel comfortable when I was a friend.

In the evening, he told me about breaking up, and although he was very sad, he accepted it, but he was just friends again.

After the breakup, we went back to the original state, teasing each other, following him to a friend's party, eating and drinking, his friends thought that we were a partner, perhaps, this is the best way for us to get along, stay by each other's side in the name of friends. We've been friends with each other for so many years, but this year everything has changed. He said that we broke up because we were too far away, I couldn't take care of you, and I was even more afraid of hurting you and doing something to you.

Now, I regret it so much, and I want to make up for my previous regrets.

Acceptable, I also like my best friend, the two of us know each other, so I think he's a good partner, at least after being together, he knows what I like, and he will definitely let me go when we fight.

I can't accept my best friend confessing to me, because I feel very embarrassed because my feelings for my friend are just ordinary friends, and I don't have feelings of love for him.

I can't accept it, my best friend is my best friend, I have no problem with my sexual orientation, I don't like women, if she confesses to me, I can't accept it to death, maybe my girlfriend can't do it.

I can't accept it, I really don't have any other feelings for my friend after so many years of getting along, if she really confesses to me, I will be very embarrassed, and I would rather lose this good friend than let this friendship deteriorate.

In fact, as your best friend, it means that the other party is a very good person in your heart, so if the other party confesses to yourself, then you can ask yourself from the bottom of your heart if you can accept it.

If I like my best friend too, I will accept it; If I don't like him, I will politely refuse, saying that I don't want to hurt the friendship between the two of us, and I hope he can understand his position and thoughts.

If I also have a crush on him and have a closer thought, I will accept his confession. If we only have friendship with us, I don't think of him as the opposite sex, so I won't accept it.

I can't accept it, because I grew up with him, I don't feel like a boyfriend and girlfriend at all, if he confesses to me, he will definitely scare me to death, and I will definitely die of embarrassment when I see him in the future.

No, good friends are good friends, if it becomes love, it will be mixed with too much love, it will become chaotic and difficult to maintain, good friends are precious, I don't want to mess up the relationship, so I can't accept his confession.

I didn't say no for the first time, but I haven't thought about it yet, and I feel good to be friends. You confessed at the time, which will inevitably give the impression of frivolity to the girl, and you can try to be a good friend first (and she must be right).

There are some things that girls can't say directly, so you have to take the initiative. With my feelings, you have hope, but you are afraid that you will take a lot of long detours with such a stupid offensive ......What do you want to send to pick a good day to go out to play, and when it ends, it will be good to give it to her as a commemoration of this date If the economy is not good, get along well, girls pay more attention to communication

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