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First of all, not long after getting married, a man falls in love with someone else, which is already a sign of being very irresponsible towards the family.
Secondly, a married man does not keep a proper distance from the opposite sex, which leads to making you like him, which is a very indiscriminate performance.
Again, don't say that you don't want to destroy other people's families, in fact, your energy is not so great, this man just wants to eat what is in the bowl and thinks about what is in the pot, he will not divorce and marry you. If you think he has true love for you, then ask him to choose one or the other, and you will know the result immediately.
In the end, the third person is an abomination, I don't know how old you are now, if you waste your youth on a married man, and by the time you wake up, your best mate selection period has passed, you will definitely regret today's move.
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He's married, so it doesn't have anything to do with you.
No matter how handsome and excellent the other party is, you don't want to provoke them.
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When you meet a handsome man, he is married, the farther away you are from him, the better, don't think about him, so as not to harm others and yourself.
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Well, what if you run into a handsome guy too, what if he's married? He's married. Well, no matter how handsome it is, it's someone else's. Well, only bless her silently in your heart!
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Restrain yourself sensibly, stay away from handsome men, and don't be a junior to meddle in other people's families and ruin your reputation!
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1. Stay away from him and look for his shortcomings.
You love that man, but he doesn't belong to you. Therefore, what you have to do is not only to let go of this relationship that does not belong to you, but also to forget all that was in a limited way. Only by staying away from a person, you can slightly let go of a little bit of missing and worrying about him, a woman encounters this emotional situation, she should make a decision immediately, away from that man, the man who makes you cry and breaks your heart.
Work hard to find that man's shortcomings, no one in the world is perfect, everyone will have their own shortcomings, even if it is a man who has been silently thinking about you in your heart, he will have his own shortcomings and shortcomings.
To leave a person is to let go of the whole of that person, which is the only difference between women and men. The pain of the woman is obvious, but the pain of the man is in the heart. When a woman loves the wrong person and does the wrong thing, as long as she is ruthless to herself, she will definitely be able to repent before it is too late.
2. Reduce contact with him.
Strictly control your bottom line, if a woman really falls in love with someone else's man, if the above code of conduct can't make you forget that man, you still can't generously admit that you have let go of your heart, then try the following behavior requirements. Reduce contact with him, put an end to meeting and chatting with him, delete WeChat, **black, don't answer text messages, so many expressions are up to you. Actually, if that man is really desperate to love you regardless of the world.
A man will definitely take the initiative to contact you, but even if a man takes the initiative to contact, he must not accept it, because when a man is willing to give up everything he has for you, he is the man who really loves you.
Third, we must have a bottom line and strictly control our words and deeds.
Because as a woman, you decide to give up that man without hesitation, just to really forget that man, so what you should do as a woman is not only to do these codes of conduct, but also to really let go and forget that man from your heart. If you don't want the man you love wrong to hurt you, then stick to your principles and try to maintain a few days of life without that man, and you will discover a new world and a new love. As Bi Shumin once said in the book, happiness is a product of the soul, not just the achievement of love.
Ta tells us that there is no emotion that neither a man nor a woman can let go of, only time and the way to forget can make you let go of everything.
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Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.
When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that upsets you. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.
If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he treat others so well before?Did he treat me like the one he used to be?
In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.
And there is a characteristic of the human psyche, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears;But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.
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You have to use your reason to overcome your emotions, and since he is married, you have to give up and stop thinking about him.
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Keep your distance from this man and don't have any illusions. Your liking is just a spur of the moment. Married men have families of their own, and staying away is the best option.
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Select Discard. Don't bother each other, because love can come first and come first, but it is polite and shameful. The other party is already married, and if you go to show favor to him again, it is likely that you will end up destroying a family, which is not right.
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Then you shouldn't bother the other person, but keep this love silently in your heart until it disappears.
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The most important thing you should do now is not to find a way to maintain this relationship, but to calm yourself down and think about what this means to you.
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If people don't love you, you're still entangled, it's called not self-love, people have a family, you still have to disturb others, it's also called self-love, people have girlfriends, you want to steal vegetables, it's not self-love, you are in poor conditions, you have to be a thief, fairies, don't go to the mud, if you don't wash yourself, no one can save you.
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Whether he has loved you or not, you know in your own heart. It's better to get out of this relationship, it's really not worth paying for such a man who doesn't love you so much, and doesn't even have results. It's not too late to leave, all he brings you is that little emotional comfort, and you know that he can't divorce you.
Hurry up and leave her, she doesn't want to give up her family now, and she won't give up in the future.
..How are you exactly like me. = =| .
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